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Thread: Lay Report question

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    Default Lay Report question

    Alright so here I go!!! This is my first lay report since starting PUA.


    pretty much I've been talking to this girl for about a month now via text, but did not meet her. Tonight we met for the first time. I met her with high energy walking into her car. I controlled the frame pretty much the entire time and decided we were going mini golfing, then for sushi/Japanesse.

    Mini golfing was good and I was able to make her laugh the whole time, After we went out to eat and we sat across from eachother. I was able to fix this by saying I would teach her how to use chopstix, and ended up sitting next to her. The whole time she kept looking at me and laughing, like she wanted the kiss to be there? (do you think she was expecting it?), but I didnt. I held off and told her she should come over and watch a movie on Netflix.

    From here it was pretty much on as I poured us some wine, and got into bed with eachother. After she was wondering if she should sleep over or drive home, I told her it didnt matter to me, and she decided to drive home.

    So here's my thing. This girl seems really cool and I can see having a relationship with her. But I feel like I'm just starting to get the hang of pick up, a skill I wanted my whole life. I'm sure I'm not the first to run into this situation. Any ideas????
    -There's no future in your past

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    Default Re: Lay Report question

    I have been in this situation before. You know you have so much more to learn, but can't let a good woman go by you like that. My suggestion? This will sound cliche, but follow your heart. It's about gaining experience and learning. Not about being single lol. Besides, there are plenty of things to learn about how to maintain a relationship. So you'll still be learning and growing.
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    Follow my heart?! That is cliche, and my motto is mainly follow the money (not interpretation to HB here.

    I dont like to let chances pass by me but I know I need to learn PU to be complete. Even now, this girl left like 40 mins ago, I feel lonely. I constantly need new girls to talk to, IDK why!

    Has anyone been able to balance a stiutation like this?

    And thank for replying BAtMan!Bc I am contemplating this whole thing
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    Default Re: Lay Report question

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr West View Post
    Follow my heart?! That is cliche, and my motto is mainly follow the money (not interpretation to HB here.

    I dont like to let chances pass by me but I know I need to learn PU to be complete. Even now, this girl left like 40 mins ago, I feel lonely. I constantly need new girls to talk to, IDK why!

    Has anyone been able to balance a stiutation like this?

    And thank for replying BAtMan!Bc I am contemplating this whole thing
    Could be getting one-itis. She seems cool and all and if you're thinking about her all the time thats not a bad thing, but you have to be able to recognize the difference between getting hung up on her, or your psyching yourself out to think there aren't others like her out there. The advice above was very solid and its up to you to choose if you want to keep going out and picking up other girls or if you want to stay around this particular one. Personally I like the challenge and the new experiences that come with going out and practicing and mastering the skills of PU, but thats just me. Take a look at why you first got into trying to master this particular skill set. Was it to meet and pick up a bunch of gorgeous women, or did you need the skills so that you could pick up and eventually find one that you'd like to settle down with? Everyone is different, and its what you do with those differences that make you who you are. So I guess my advice is do some soul searching. Write down, don't just think but actually write down, everything for your ideal woman and be honest and don't just focus on looks but EVERYTHING about her. Then write down all the positive and negative qualities of this particular girl then compare them. Your answer might surprise you, or it might fall perfectly in line. But this is just my line of thought. Good luck man.
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    Default Re: Lay Report question

    Ya I was pretty tipsy when I posted those, my apologies, but I do feel that way. She slept over last night and we had a great time again. I just don't to let something good pass me by, that's all.

    I think I'm just going to stay in this same path And let things work out naturally, but keep approaching so I can still practice.

    Thanks for the help guys, I appreciate it!
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