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    Default "My friend likes you!"

    So at parties I go to, I talk to literally everyone. Not only does it fit my personality, but it helps towards being a PUA.

    Anyways, I've had numerous encounters where either guys or girls take my hand, and say "my friend likes you. Come dance with her/hook up with her/etc."

    Now i havnt really gotten successful with those girls since theyre always shy neglecting it hiding behind their friend.

    So tonight I tried something else. I tried playing hard to get even after they showed her to me. "Well, she has to talk to me if she wants to get anywhere" something like that

    ANyways, any advice on what to do when they do that to you? I get it countless of times, and successes have only occured a few times because they are usually too embarrassed.

    By the way, at the venues I go to, im one of the only guys if not the only one who gets called like this.

    So yeah, please comment

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    Default Re: "My friend likes you!"

    I'm kind of new to this so I don't know how helpful my advice would be, but if they're being shy about it then it's all on you to do the work. So I would maybe start with being funny in some way (maybe some C&F routines). Tease her a little about being shy. A friend of mine who is a psychology major told me once that you can't feel fear when you're laughing. And if you think back to all the times you have been laughing your butt off, you'll realize it is true. She is clearly nervous so getting her to laugh will loosen her up. I guess maybe do some Kino as well, to get her used to you touching her. That's about all I got. I hope anyone else who knows more than I do can help out

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    Default Re: "My friend likes you!"

    Idk i feel like they make it all akward. I feel like I usually need to earn their attraction, and when someone tells me this, i move straight to qualification/comfort which is awkward for me.

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    Default Re: "My friend likes you!"

    Hey Shawn, I recall you told me that you are still in HS. So this "my friend likes you" sh1t is really the immature nonsensical BS young girls do. When I was your age, I recall something similar happening when they mix girls from my sister school. When you get older like 21+ (legal drinking age), you won't really deal this BS.

    The best way to deal with this is play it on your own terms so you don't get corner into an awkward position. A girl comes up to you and say "My friend likes you" and wants you to meet her, I would just carry the alpha mentality of "tell her wait in line" and "she knows where to find me."

    The most I would inquire is "Who?" and tell her to point her out, look unaffected, say "Cool. Thanks" and just go back to what you are doing. Don't let her try to pull you over. You aren't moving from your spot. You don't have time for such silliness. Or you can even turn the tables on her by joking/teasing "Wait a minute, you sure YOU'RE not the one who likes me?" She will most likely say no. Then you say "Well that's too bad, I like girls who are not shy. I thought we had something there." Put her on the spot so she won't try that silliness again.

    Ways to fvck with them back.

    GIRL: "My friend likes you."

    1. "So why are you coming on to me?"
    2. "Cool. Tell her I usually charge $300 an hour but I'll cut her a deal if she comes by and say 'hi' in 10 minutes."
    3. "Good to know. I'll write it in my diary. And will watch it with my life. And if someone steals it, I will continue watching it."
    4. "Cool. Well your friend has good taste. Slap her on the ass for me."
    5. "What?!! OMG you have friends? Are they imaginary?"
    6. "Whoa. Since when did you become a matchmaker? You getting paid good for this? I play along but I want a kickback in writing."
    7. "Hey I'm not that easy. Is that your way of trying to get into my pants?"


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