Hey all, Big Kitty here. So I'm down at the sports bar with the guys after hockey. The next table over is 3 chicks, one of which is a HB10. I think about what I might say and chat it up with my buddy whom also is in the game and noticed the HB10.
"No good dude, she has a wedding ring, check it out."
She does have a ring on, I go in.
BK-"hey is that a wedding ring?"
HB10-"haha no it's a family ring, it only fits on this finger"
BK-(teasing)"it doesn't fit on your other ring finger?"
HB10-"no I'm an artist and I crack those knuckles all the time, so it doesn't fit."
(small talk about her artwork)
she excuses herself to use the washroom, I go back to my table. They receive the food that they ordered so I decide to wait until they have finished the food to go in for...
I go in with "I have to go help them drink the beers but I wanted to ask you something."
HB10-"ok what did you want to ask?"
BK-"So you're an artist... I'm supposed to learn soapstone carving in March, any pointers for a new artist?"
this time I gave a false time constraint (more for practice than anything) and left her with a chuckling "I've got beers to drink, but I'll be back to bug you again later"
This is a tactic I've used in the past, joking about her not wanting me there usually gives me a clear picture as to how much she's interested. This time the response was a half-mumbled reiteration of my sentence: "...bug you again..." with the tone as though the thought of me bugging her by conversing with her was rediculous. I was in, but it wouldn't pan out in my favour.
small talk with the whole table of girls, then, talking alone with HB10:
bk-"so what are your plans for this week?"
HB10-"I'm pretty busy this week, and you should know, I have a boyfriend"
bk-"well you're a pretty cool chick, I'd like to grab a drink and chat with you sometime, boyfriend or no boyfriend."
hb10-"what does boyfriend or no boyfriend mean?"
bk-"well it means if you have a boyfriend I won't put the moves on you after"
HB10-"I don't think it's a good idea, you did come talk to me with certain intentions"
BK-"ya I came over here because you're gorgeous"
hb10- little blush
Bk-"but you're cool to talk to as well, do you know how rare it is to talk to a girl who doesn't seem fake?"
hb10-"I suppose that's a compliment?"
Bk-"well you're fun to talk to, so yeah that's a compliment"
hb10-"my name is Chelsea, what's yours?"
give her my name, she offers her hand to shake, I shake her hand and caress it as I pull my hand away. a little more small talk and I find myself back at my table. The girls go to leave ~10 minutes afterward, HB10 looks back at me as they leave, full on eye lock.
then they were gone.
That's how it happened and I'd appreciate any feedback, this girl was in my opinion perfect 10 marriage-calibre beauty and I don't want to lose the next one!