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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    There's no such thing as a wasted night - you learned something and were exposed to something new. I'm guessing this was the "retard" you told me about?

    Personally, I feel like you handled yourself really well. Didn't come off needy or clingy and maintained your frame. I've learned that the girls that stay on their phones tend to be really slow and are absolutely terrible at responding to flirting. There wasn't much more you could have done because some things were out of your control - such as that guy she was with and her closing you out.

    Don't let this one get you down - keep at it and meet more "retards"
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    Thanks for sharing. Wow, talk about a "Cinderella effect."

    Strategically, I would've tried to get her out on a date, just you and her, after the first Number Close rather than joining her and her friends to go clubbing, so I think that's where the first error in choice was. I would've resisted the temptation and save it for a second meet up or something. Just too many factors can complicate things because if something does go wrong in that 1:1 date, then you could've easily narrowed it down to help you improve.

    But the fact that it happened the way it did, I concur with what the other guys said. I would've turned it around and work another girl, but I'm guessing at that time, it was kind of a downer. But it wouldve been nice walking out of there with an HB hotter than her and her seeing it.

    From my experience, usually when a girl starts going on her phone like that, she is just plain disinterested, for whatever reasons. A pornstar friend told me she does that on bad dates. She starts browsing through her fb, emails, blogs, etc. I would've negged her with one of those 3 lines as a way of checking her, and if that fails then I would just tease and leave her with "Bah, you're boring" just move on to another girl at that point.

    A girl who unintentionally goes on her phone like that and thinks nothing of it is just bad form. And if she is that type of person, then I don't find that attractive. I say fvck em. There's better fish in the sea.

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    Cool Re: [hyp] first official field report

    if she wants to play jealousy with you then throw it right back at her and make sure your better at it

    haha yeah i know guys this is a sticking point for me, doing the cold approaches and being effective --> coming out on my own was just the first step for me to overcome this crap

    There's no such thing as a wasted night

    very true


    @vicodin yeah it was her

    Personally, I feel like you handled yourself really well. Didn't come off needy or clingy and maintained your frame.
    that was the exact reason why i left, i wasn't gonna be like those other guys there fqck that



    thanks for the info guys, i've gotta let this all sink in and apply it next time this happens



    just an update: she sent me a text today saying "you were there for like 2 seconds on Sunday lol da fuckkk"

    i'm ready to just say "yea sh1t happens" and keep it at that

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    When you enter a club,pub w/e,alone or with friends,start opening everybody.This way after receiving that adrenaline from approaching you would have met them on high energies.

    The reason you weren't matching their energy is because you were expecting to be more private with her i assume.

    After you realized that she's trying to throw you into that fan club of hers,you should have started opening sets like crazy again until you found a girl to join you.

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    if you ever go to a club by yourself, the way to build up your social proof is to open sets of guys or even mixed sets and befriend them.

    even bull shitting with some of the guys in the club can be good practice for opening sets and dhv'ing and also if you get the chance to work with a mixed set, you can see how other guys are gaming girls (wich imo watching what other guys do is an easy way to see what works and what doesn't without having to face alot of rejection and trial and error)

    also you did the right thing by abandening her and keeping yourself from being a new notch in her "validation belt"

    odds are she probably had you friendzoned the day you met her, or she lost interest in you sometime between your interactions. not to mention that your low energy further killed your chances with her..

    don't worry about this girl, you'll do better next time.

    btw i love how linking x deals with the "texters" lolz i'll have to try that sometime

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    well an update, i k-closed her yesterday she wanted to come to mine instead of my going to hers so i just impulsed every decision having said that its probably been 2 months since we met? and this was the second time we'd met so yeah to me anythings possible, and shes much better in person than over text :>

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    Hey Hey! Nice work man. I'd say that she was trying to create jealousy by talking to all those guys around you. Maybe the whole thing was a huge Sh1t Test. Who knows? In any case, you passed buddy . I think that your ability to walk away scored for you on this one, mate. Tops!
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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    The only thing I would've said about your night out is that I wouldn't have texted her to tell her you were leaving... just wait for her to ask where you went.

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    Quote Originally Posted by scguitar View Post
    Don't beat yourself up over it. Happens.

    Cell phone ones can be tricky. You could wait til she gets off the phones if she is sitting around, but who knows when that'll be and you run the risk of looking like a stalker.

    Some good cell openers I heard: "Get off the phone you got a customer waiting", "Tell your grandma that some amazing guy is hitting on you right now", You could pull out your phone next to her, pretend to be on it and say "Yeah, she's right here... yeah, always on her phone, it's really rude."
    brilliant.

    when a chick is on the phone, looking for a friend that is on the other line, i like to put my phone to my ear and waive her down like a "here i am." i usually get a smile and giggle.
    "Be like water" - lee


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