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    Cool [hyp] first official field report

    yo guys, this one spans over a week,

    last sat night was my mates 21st, anyway he had a few close friends and we all went out, there was a chick there that was giving me ioi's so i thought cool, just bantered had fun, only light Kino nothing over the top, i had to bail cause we were taking the last train home so i gave her a hug, she said it was nice to meet me, and (i actually wasn't trying to game her at this point) so i said same to you, and then she said it was nice meeting someone more retarded than her, that was fine i said some comment and ditched

    i added her the next day on fb and everything was going well keeping my frame solid while having fun, we chatted and had a retard injoke going on which was pretty good for the both of us

    given that she lives about 40min away from me im wasnt too keen on driving the distance to visit vice versa, anyway she was going out with her mates clubbing last night, my ex was going (we're on good terms), so i came out

    i haven't been out clubbing in about 9 months cause of injury, so i was a bit off dealing with the environment (nightgame is my weaker game, i prefer house parties or day game only cause i suck with NG), and i couldn't find her in the place (vague memories of what she looked like haha) and then i told her to come get me from the bar,

    when they got me from the bar she was with 1 other guy, i gave her a hug (didn't feel like a proper one) - i didn't call her out on the bad hug, maybe i should've? and then i shook the other guys hand and we intro'd ourselves, i tried stealing her hat but she became defensive and said it was someone elses, and then she was like i'll punch u if u keep trying and i was like "so what :P "and then she just chilled on her phone,

    this was a blip for me because nothing made sense, she was fine up until this point and she wasn't like she was last weekend or over texts, that made me a bit :/

    after trying to talk to her over the loud music she was like lets go find my friends, so the 3 of us went upstairs, and they closed me out of the circle, rather than trying to get my way in and meet these guys i just ejected and said i was going to find my mates, and i left about 5min later without saying bye, the only reason i did this was because there was no interest on her part and i wasn't in the zone to win over like 8 guys while she was the only chick in the group

    i texted her that i bailed and one of my mates needed me, she replied with "okay man" and i left it at that, i'm contemplating going NC until further notice

    and what made things bad for me was i didn't like the venue, i hated it and none of my mates came out with me, everyone was still screwed from the previous night, i was too but yeah

    ps. that was the closest i've ever come to solo clubbing / going out absolutely alone

    criticism / suggestions are most welcome

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    I don't know about you, but the second she showed up with another guy, I would've downed a drink and found another girl to seduce. Sounds to me like you wasted a whole night on this girl. You know, I was hoping for something positive when you said she came up to you with another guy but it seemed to go downhill from there.

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    as far as i knew he was one of her good mates, but yeah it was a waste of a night

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    I'm kind of new to this page, so i'm trying to suck in info, does anyone know what could he had done to get that girl? maybe like tell her something like if you were going to be with your friends you shouldn't have invited me or something :/

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    Quote Originally Posted by goldemblem View Post
    I'm kind of new to this page, so i'm trying to suck in info, does anyone know what could he had done to get that girl? maybe like tell her something like if you were going to be with your friends you shouldn't have invited me or something :/
    Well, I wasn't there so I don't know the energy of the interactions, the body language, etc., but it seemed like she wasn't too into him the second time because she had all those other guys around her at one point. It's not worth fighting for a girls' attention at that point. I done that before and ended up embarrassing myself because I came off as so desperate.

    As to what you suggested saying, better to just ignore her and go look for someone else. Even if you're angry with her, don't even let her know she got under your skin because then you're just verifying to her she made the right choice in not picking you. Thing is, not every girl is going to like you and it won't always be clear as to why. Because from what he wrote, it seems like he was doing well up until the second time he met up with that girl.

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    but it seemed like she wasn't too into him the second time because she had all those other guys around her at one point.
    yeah that's what it appeared as well, when i approached it was low energy matching theirs, and then during the interaction is was lower -_- *facepalm*

    i guess the main thing that i'd like to know from this, is how do you go about a chick that's always on her phone constantly, if its a touchscreen i usually tap away quickly to screw her txting up, unfortunately i couldn't and regardless she'll end up still being on her phone

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    Ok, so personally if that had happened to me then I would have went and found anther girl and made sure she could see it, if she wants to play jealousy with you then throw it right back at her and make sure your better at it also the phone thing, if I see a random girl on her phone my favourite thing to do is go up, stand next to her and type away on an imaginary phone. Eventually she would be like 'what are you doing' to which I reply 'ohhh I'm just mimicking your antisocial behaviour ' then go right back to it, look up and say 'so are u always this antisocial?' she'll start qualifying and bang your in a conversation obv edit it a little bit for the situation with the chick that you know but that's generally how I deal with it.

    Linking x

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    but it seemed like she wasn't too into him the second time because she had all those other guys around her at one point.
    yeah that's what it appeared as well, when i approached it was low energy matching theirs, and then during the interaction is was lower -_- *facepalm*

    i guess the main thing that i'd like to know from this, is how do you go about a chick that's always on her phone constantly, if its a touchscreen i usually tap away quickly to screw her txting up, unfortunately i couldn't and regardless she'll end up still being on her phone
    Don't beat yourself up over it. Happens.

    Cell phone ones can be tricky. You could wait til she gets off the phones if she is sitting around, but who knows when that'll be and you run the risk of looking like a stalker.

    Some good cell openers I heard: "Get off the phone you got a customer waiting", "Tell your grandma that some amazing guy is hitting on you right now", You could pull out your phone next to her, pretend to be on it and say "Yeah, she's right here... yeah, always on her phone, it's really rude."

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    wow, those 3 are gold, i always freeze when a girls is on the phone, i always only wait; but then if feel that i feel like a loser; I'm going to start using them right away, they are epic!!

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    Default Re: [hyp] first official field report

    tl;dr bro. Lol jk. Just keep getting that experience bro!
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