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    Default HB8 with Entitlement issues

    Approached an HB while pimpin with Autismus and taylor1090. She was on her cell phone.
    Me: “Tell them you have to go, a cute guy is hitting on you.”
    Her: “I have a boyfriend.” <<< Sh1t Test.
    Me: ”It’s ok, I’m not jealous.” <<< Passed.
    Her: ”I’m on the phone with him right now.” <<< sh1t test.
    Me: ”That’s ok, he’s missing out, come with me.” <<< Passed.
    Her: ”I can’t, he can hear us talking right now.” <<< sh1t test.
    Me: ”So?” <<< Passed.
    Her: ”He is a marine.” <<< sh1t test.
    Me: ”…And then?” <<< Passed.
    Her: ”Hahahahahaha.”
    Me: ”Tell him your mom is calling and you have to go.” <<< Leading.
    Her: ”My mom wouldn’t be calling me at 3 am.” <<< sh1t test.
    Me: ”I didn’t think so, but it sounded legit.” <<< Passed.
    Her: ”Hahahahahaha. Shhhhhhhhh.” <<< This meant for me to stay there but be quiet! Unfortunately I didn’t realize it until 3 minutes after I ejected. Damn it. Lol. I can pass sh1t tests like a boss, but I need to work on my sense of entitlement. I feel like since there were so many sh1t tests in a row like that, my brain was like, “You’re not entitled to this homie, just eject.” I’m so mad at myself for this too, because she was obviously attracted, all I had to do was wait… At least the marine still thinks his girlfriend is an angel… LOL. Damn it…
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Entitlement issues

    Wow talk about an unshakable frame lol. You have a really strong frame. Which is why it's extremely difficult to figure out if she was actually into you or not beings that this is through your interpretation. But your persistence was incredible and definitely a win. Kudos!
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Entitlement issues

    Good job on blowing off those sh1t tests. I gotta say they get me almost all the time, im hard wired too much like a nice guy so my initial reaction is to be truthful...not helping me out haha. It sounds like things were going well though. Good job! Inner game, you are alpha you are entitled to anything you want! Just remember that.

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    Default Re: Entitlement issues

    I used to be a nice guy, but now I'm one of the biggest dicks i know. It's easy for me to maintain the frame, but hard for me to keep pushing with it. I just need more experience.
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Wow talk about an unshakable frame lol. You have a really strong frame. Which is why it's extremely difficult to figure out if she was actually into you or not beings that this is through your interpretation. But your persistence was incredible and definitely a win. Kudos!
    Thanks man. I know she was attracted because while ejecting she said, "But I don't know your name." And i was like why did she say that? Wait... nooooooo! Lol. Whatever, lessons learned.
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    Default Re: Entitlement issues

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    Thanks man. I know she was attracted because while ejecting she said, "But I don't know your name." And i was like why did she say that? Wait... nooooooo! Lol. Whatever, lessons learned.
    Oooh I see. That clears some stuff up. Yea then it's safe to say you got her attention. Plus it's better to keep pushing until you hit that wall. A lot of guys will eject waaaay before that and miss a great opportunity. Nice work.
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    Thanks, i really need to stop ejecting for no reason. That's my biggest sticking point right now.
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    Default Re: Entitlement issues

    Don't beat yourself up. I think I would've ejected before you lol.
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    Default Re: Entitlement issues

    Lol really? Why?

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    Default Re: Entitlement issues

    Definitely. When I'm really in the zone and feeling confident in myself I won't leave a set until I close or get blown out. This way you never walk away wondering if you could have closed or not. But this is a hard frame of mind to get into because it's just one more barrier for the ego to overcome.

    We eject because we get scared of rejection. The first time we have to deal with rejection is on the approach, but if we get passed the opener without getting rejected (which, in my experience is almost always) as we stay in set the fear of rejection will grow because your brain knows you're getting closer to the point of no return. This is the point where you either get rejected or get a window of opportunity.

    The only way to get consistent results is to keep pushing through on every set. Now, if I only took my own advice more often I'd be set!

    Edit: You eject when the Tension builds to the point that your ego is worried about rejection. As an aside, something that has helped me stop myself from ejecting is to get a feel for this tension. When the tension grows unbearable stop thinking about the set and what you're going to say next and start focussing on your feet. If you feel the tension then she is going to feel it too. So just bask in it--outlast her. By focussing on your feet (the furthest point from your brain) it will help you get outside your head.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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