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    Default Quick one - Solo Retro

    Girl at coffee shop doing her homework, I think she is about 30 years old, a 6…
    I make a comment about how uncomfortable the chairs at the section we are sitting in. Na the chair in the other section is great, but it is very cold next to the door, maybe we should have a contest, and whoever finds the best seat, gets a free coffee .. I make the joke, she laughs. I put on my head phones, and start listening to music, completely ignoring her, and doing my thing.
    20 minutes later, she is about to leave, she packs her things, I make my move, I am using the time constraint she initiated (Jujitsu move), I take off my headphones to say goodbye, she says:
    Girl: “Are you busy?”
    Retro:” yes, very, I have to go to Denver for work” and I start telling her about the exciting things I am doing with my business, and the possibility of success (dhv)
    Girl: ”wow this is very exciting, My name is Zel, what is yours?” (ioi)
    Retro: “I am Retro, BTW, I like your scarf, my Ex, a model, used her scarf just like you do” (DHV)
    Girl: “ Well, I come here all the time, you want my number?”
    Retro: “ Sure, maybe we can work together here someday” I get number, I go back to work…

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    Thumbs up Learned Something!

    Great approach tactic. The last dhv came off more as a neg to me than a DHV, and if she was a six that can be dangerous. Other than that, it seems like everything worked out.

    I hadn't been able to identify an example of a DHV in conversation up until now. Before, I had a rough idea of what it was, but I could never use it in conversation. After reading this thread, I now have a good understanding of what it is and how I can use it to my advantage. Thanks!
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Quick one - Solo Retro

    Thanks Swagman,
    You are right, I think I killed two birds with one stone ... I didn't even kow I was doing that..

    Great Feedback ..


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