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    Default Re: Did I got shit tested?

    You knew before you approached her that you didn't have time. You work in a store where customers come and go and you aren't allowed to have long personal conversations with customers. So don't use that as an excuse.

    These guys are right. You said you were not trying to sound desperate. You might as well say "Hey I don't want to sound like a serial killer, but is there any way I can contact you?" She most likely didn't think you were a serial killer so why bring it up. Same as she may not have been thinking that you were desperate, but now you put it in her mind. Which translates to a fear of being judged. And a fear of being judged is....beta.

    You are right about rapport. It is better if you have time to build rapport, but it's not impossible to get a phone number without it. You simply have to compensate for that. And you do that by being direct and confident. Just get straight to the point because you have no time. With NO apologies for you approaching her. Like what Retro said, you are doing HER the favor of meeting a charming fellow like yourself. Approach her with "I just had to say... that you are so elegant and I'd kick myself for the rest of the day if I didn't introduce myself. If you are in the mood for taking chances, then take my number. But for your eyes only." Body language is key here and not just your words. Hope this helps and good luck.
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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    You knew before you approached her that you didn't have time. You work in a store where customers come and go and you aren't allowed to have long personal conversations with customers. So don't use that as an excuse.
    I am not using the fact that I didn't had time to build rapport as an excuse. I am just stating the reason why everything went wrong.

    You are right about Rapport. It is better if you have time to build rapport, but it's not impossible to get a phone number without it. You simply have to compensate for that. And you do that by being direct and confident. Just get straight to the point because you have no time. With NO apologies for you approaching her. Like what Retro said, you are doing HER the favor of meeting a charming fellow like yourself. Approach her with "I just had to say... that you are so elegant and I'd kick myself for the rest of the day if I didn't introduce myself. If you are in the mood for taking chances, then take my number. But for your eyes only." Body Language is key here and not just your words. Hope this helps and good luck.
    Right, but not all women will respond the same. Some women feel more comfortable to give you their phone number after rapport is built, especially if it is some guy that you just met at some Fitting Room. Totally correct your statement, however not every woman has the same response.

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    Default Re: Did I got shit tested?

    If every woman responded to the same approach then we wouldn't need this forum. This is about increasing your chances, not guaranteeing anything with every single woman. There are many layers of complexity to each individual woman and it is almost impossible to figure out on the spot what that particular woman responds to. Even professional human lie detectors say it takes weeks to get a baseline on a person. So you have to put your best foot forward by relying on universal truths. Such as that most women respond to confident men. Looking her right in the eye like you are about to rip her clothes off sends a powerful message. That you do not fear her where most men do. And that's just one thing most women find attractive.

    No big deal though. I still make plenty of mistakes myself and I will continue to make mistakes. Because I'm human and that's what makes us great. We are dynamic, not static.

    Simple truth is, if you don't have time then I highly suggest you go in direct with no apologies for your interest in her.
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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    If every woman responded to the same approach then we wouldn't need this forum. This is about increasing your chances, not guaranteeing anything with every single woman. There are many layers of complexity to each individual woman and it is almost impossible to figure out on the spot what that particular woman responds to. Even professional human lie detectors say it takes weeks to get a baseline on a person. So you have to put your best foot forward by relying on universal truths. Such as that most women respond to confident men. Looking her right in the eye like you are about to rip her clothes off sends a powerful message. That you do not fear her where most men do. And that's just one thing most women find attractive.

    No big deal though. I still make plenty of mistakes myself and I will continue to make mistakes. Because I'm human and that's what makes us great. We are dynamic, not static.

    Simple truth is, if you don't have time then I highly suggest you go in direct with no apologies for your interest in her.
    Excellent piece of advice. Thanks Batman


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