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    Default Did I got shit tested?

    Hi guys, I want to share this experience that I had. I work in the fitting rooms of a retail store, I see this hot cougar coming in to try clothes, 41 years old, to be more precise. She was giving a lot of ioi's. she got in, when she got out I asked her if she had a husband, she said: no, what a shame right?, after a while I decided to go to her and told her: hey I don't want to sound desperate but is there anyway that I can contact you? She told me: no, I am too old for you, you are beautiful but I am too old for you. Then I told her: just for friendship, she told me: no. Then I asked her age, she told me she was 41. So my question is: did I got sh1t tested?

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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    Quote Originally Posted by Casio View Post
    I see this hot cougar coming in to try clothes, 41 years old, to be more precise. She was giving a lot of ioi's. she got in, when she got out I asked her if she had a husband, she said: no, what a shame right?, after a while I decided to go to her and told her: hey I don't want to sound desperate but is there anyway that I can contact you? She told me: no, I am too old for you, you are beautiful but I am too old for you. Then I told her: just for friendship, she told me: no. Then I asked her age, she told me she was 41. So my question is: did I got sh1t tested?

    Thanks for the feedback guys.
    depends , are you working at that store ? what were you doing there if not? the first time you made contact , did you only ask her if she had a husband? if not what else did you talk about and could you feel if The Vibe was negative/positive ?

    with the little i know , the bold text is where you failed the test in my opinion.

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    Default Re: Did I got shit tested?

    Oh boy, did she have a ring on!? If not why would you even ask if she had a husband. Also from her responses it sounds like she was begging for you to alpha her hardcore. Just for friendship!?!? Are you trying to friend zone yourself? Tell her what to do, with the way she was complimenting and flirting according to what you wrote you should have immediately transitioned to sexual innuendos and other sexual flirtation. Followed by Kino. Sounds like she was hot to trot. The too young thing yup Sh1t Test. Next time response: "yea poor you"(with a smirk) or "let's find out, I get off at x meet me at x" maintain frame and keep pushing.

    Anyways that's just my opinion.

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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    That was weak. of course, easy to say from here, but you have to make it look like YOU are doing her a favor. everything you bring up in a conversation she associates with you. The desperate bit was bad, even replacing desperate with forward would have been better.
    If I was sharp at that moment, I would tell her I have a special selection to show her, not available to the public, i will text some details.. That, is a Number Close; she has no easy way out. and She will understand.
    Worth a shot ..

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    Default Re: Did I got shit tested?

    Dude, you blew that one. Never tell a girl "sorry if I sound desperate" because that pretty much says you are desperate.

    Simple rule on ioi's: Don't take it as "I like you"... Take it more as "I like you for a second but if you start acting like a wussy, it's over."

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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    Quote Originally Posted by Casio View Post
    Hi guys, I want to share this experience that I had. I work in the fitting rooms of a retail store, I see this hot cougar coming in to try clothes, 41 years old, to be more precise. She was giving a lot of ioi's. she got in, when she got out I asked her if she had a husband, she said: no, what a shame right?, after a while I decided to go to her and told her: hey I don't want to sound desperate but is there anyway that I can contact you? She told me: no, I am too old for you, you are beautiful but I am too old for you. Then I told her: just for friendship, she told me: no. Then I asked her age, she told me she was 41. So my question is: did I got sh1t tested?

    Thanks for the feedback guys.
    Yeah, but who cares. That's not your real problem. Your problem is that you put yourself in the friendzone for her. Bad Casio. Bad!
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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    depends , are you working at that store ? what were you doing there if not? the first time you made contact , did you only ask her if she had a husband? if not what else did you talk about and could you feel if The Vibe was negative/positive ?


    Yes I am working at that store, I work in the Fitting Rooms. The first time I made contact I just attended her like everybody else and she went in the Fitting Room. But meanwhile I was attending her she was completely staring at me with a smile, constant stare and smile. I saw a ring and discreetly asked if she had a husband, she said she had none. Then she went outside to put dresses on her cart, after that I went to remove the carts and she asked me if some dresses she had were ugly, I told her: I tell you now. I told her that because I had to attend customers. After that I came to her and said that I didn't want to sound desperate but if there was anyway to contact her and she said no because she was too old for me. After that i told her: just for friendship and she said no, then I made a look like she was silly and didn't know what she was missing, she laughed, meanwhile she was leaving my partner said: what happened Michael? somebody got scared? and i said: Yes, she got scared ( in our country we say this when a woman wusses out or we say it to challenge them) , she heard my comment. So in synthesis. I basically didn't built no rapport was so ever because my Fitting Room is very busy and customers are always cockblocking. So I just think basically it was all lack of time to build rapport. I just wanted to know if the "I am too old for you" thing that she said was a sh1t test. Thanks buddy

    Oh boy, did she have a ring on!? If not why would you even ask if she had a husband. Also from her responses it sounds like she was begging for you to alpha her hardcore. Just for friendship!?!? Are you trying to friend zone yourself? Tell her what to do, with the way she was complimenting and flirting according to what you wrote you should have immediately transitioned to sexual innuendos and other sexual flirtation. Followed by Kino. Sounds like she was hot to trot. The too young thing yup Sh1t Test. Next time response: "yea poor you"(with a smirk) or "let's find out, I get off at x meet me at x" maintain frame and keep pushing.

    Anyways that's just my opinion.

    She had a ring. That's why I ask. Event though i did it indirectly. The just for friendship thing it's just something that its done in my country, women know that it's not for friend zoning, but its true, It's a weak line. Exactly, that's want I wanted to know, I know it was a sh1t test but I wanted to make sure with you guys. Nice lines. Thanks buddy. I basically didn't have any time for transition, kino, etc. it was just a customer and we barely conversed. In other words i was gaming and working at the same time. Badass advice my friend. Thanks.


    That was weak. of course, easy to say from here, but you have to make it look like YOU are doing her a favor. everything you bring up in a conversation she associates with you. The desperate bit was bad, even replacing desperate with forward would have been better.
    If I was sharp at that moment, I would tell her I have a special selection to show her, not available to the public, i will text some details.. That, is a Number Close; she has no easy way out. and She will understand.
    Worth a shot ..
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    I do think it was weak and I critique myself for that. But I just think it was that I didn't built rapport at all. There was no conversation between us. Just ioi's, her flirts and smiles. Since I work in that Fitting Room I barely have time to talk or built rapport. It's a very quick environment. Thanks pal.

    Dude, you blew that one. Never tell a girl "sorry if I sound desperate" because that pretty much says you are desperate.

    Simple rule on IOI's: Don't take it as "I like you"... Take it more as "I like you for a second but if you start acting like a wussy, it's over."
    I didn't say sorry. I said: I don't want to sound desperate" but its is true its pretty weak and needs to be changed ASAP. I don't think I acted like a wussy but I do think I was sort of week. I think my major problem was that I didn't built rapport at all. I barely talked to her. I barely have time to built rapport in that fitting room. Thanks buddy.

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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bandit View Post
    Yeah, but who cares. That's not your real problem. Your problem is that you put yourself in the friendzone for her. Bad Casio. Bad!
    I barely had time to talk to her at all. We barely exchange words. There wasn't time for anything not even friend zoning. I know that this was not my best game. Thanks for the critiques. I am open to hearing thoughts.

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    Default Re: Did I got shit tested?

    Its all good-- I screw up all the time.

    Desperate is a strange word tho, almost has a negative connotation to it so try to use stuff that feels more positive and fun in the future. All i can say.

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    Default Re: Did I got sh1t tested?

    Quote Originally Posted by bookofheelai View Post
    Its all good-- I screw up all the time.

    Desperate is a strange word tho, almost has a negative connotation to it so try to use stuff that feels more positive and fun in the future. All i can say.
    Thank you buddy, everybody has a lousy day


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