Re: Rejected by my so called "oneitis" - blessing in disguise!
I got over it for several reasons. Mainly because I found out more about her. See, with her, I was looking for an LTR. I'm a serious guy when it comes to those and I refuse to settle for anything less than perfect in my eyes. Something like that, I don't think anyone should settle for less. I assumed she was that type of girl that you'd eventually want to settle down with, but she had things that were dealbreakers for me. Had I not taken the time to find out more about her, I would have been a wreck haha. Also, I can't stress this enough, but something I've learned is that unless a gives you a reason to have oneitis, you never should. What has she done to deserve all of your attention and feelings? If you can't answer that question in a heartbeat, kick yourself in the head, regain consciousness, and realize that she's done nothing to be placed that high up. Until she does, she's just another girl. Plain and simple.
Originally Posted by Ra1d
As for your situation, feel free to ask the forums for advice. That's what we're all here for - to help out and provide some perspective to your situation!
Expert? I've been doing this PUA stuff since mid November and in no way am I an expert. Far from it. But remember, even the experts mess up. You gotta start somewhere, buddy! Keep practicing, step out of your comfort zone, keep an open mind, and girls will come and go. Just remember to not turn into a player...big difference
Originally Posted by NYkid90
Always leave her better than you found her.