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    snapback is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default field report: date

    There's tons of info on the web about picking up girls and the initial conversations - but very little information about what to do after you've n-closed the girl. I have no problem getting numbers, but I'm really screwed when it comes to the date - hopefully you guys can give me some suggestions about where I went wrong.

    So the date starts at 9pm in lower manhattan - at a bar I choose randomly. I was 5m late and the girl was standing in the middle of the pub and the first thing she said was "can we go somewhere else". Bad start. However we went to another bar, and then another bar, and then another bar... and then another bar. The girl was cute HB7. She explained that she's a night owl - so 9-4a is really her time - being somewhat nocturnal myself this suited me. The conversation was good and friendly, and I tried to make some Kino Escalation but found it very awkward to do once we were in deep interesting conversation. I'd touch her knee or hold her hand and ask about her rings - but it didn't go much beyond that. I was attempting to keep the topics sexual in nature, but we kept veering off into other directions. She was too interesting - and we were becoming increasingly drunk. I was aware I was very much in danger of being friend-zoned but I didn't know what to do.

    By 4am, when the bars close, we still had barely touched and I wasn't getting any huge flirty vibe from her..... but she did continue to hang out with me for the past 7 hours... we were just enjoying ourselves... So when I dropped her off at her subway, she looked at me expectantly - and briefly thought i should kiss her - but it would have been awkward since we hadn't really escalated to that. Instead of kissing her I told her straight up that we didn't really connect physically - and so I'm going home - maybe a little too honest.

    Obviously I just lost control and let her lead me around to a bunch of bars. I want to try again today with a different girl. How do I prevent this? I want to be able to take a girl out for 2 hours, have very little drink, and then back to my place. How do you Kino escalate when sitting next to each other? What are some good topics of conversation that keep her mind on sex?

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    Default Re: field report: date

    Thumb wars. Seriously, this popped into my head at a bar once. It's fun, flirty, and you can bust her balls if you beat her and you can bust her balls if she wins by saying she cheated. I always let them win btw. I use the cheating at thumb wars to screen if they have ever cheated on a past bf.

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    Default Re: field report: date

    Im just thinking about some things I read today. You as a man should lead her around. Say you think the location is lame. SHE WILL THINK THAT TOO. Try and tell yourself that the location you chose is awesome and then move when YOU want to. Lead her and do what comes to mind. As far as physically escalating. Watch for her ioi's and like you said you felt you missed a chance. Just go for it. Next time you will not have as much fear.

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    snapback is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: field report: date

    I'm going to post a field report as a follow up to my first.

    Went out with chick number two today. HB6.5 met her in a club the previous weekend. Invited her to a fancy bar (which the above date took me too the previous night). She's very flirty and nice and we've got lot's of kino going on. But after two drinks, I suggest going back to my place and she's like flat out "No". I guess she thinks she's being coy. I don't know. She somehow invited her friend over to the bar as well - she shows up and now we're a threesome. I, knowing that I'm not getting laid, kind of want to leave but end up staying for another drink. Later we migrate to another place where a friend of theirs is playing a show. My chick is dancing with me very suggestively - taking my hands and placing them on her thighs and chest, etc. But when I suggest going back to my place again she says "No". To which I say "next". fark that sh1t.

    Kino Escalation was much better this time lots of touching even a kiss - but no f-close. I do appreciate monoposto's suggestion of thumb wrestling - will try next time.

    out of action the next couple days while my ex visits. will post new field reports next week.


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