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Thread: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

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    Default Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    Hi brothers ,
    I learned some good stuff tonight. I know it is PUA 101 stuff but until you try it you can't take it to heart. I tried Direct Game in a club but it failed. The ladies were not buying it. It was interesting to see the reactions though. I felt like I had to challenge myself and I did. Second, I learned my look is over the top alpha and is intimidating. A dude that was 6'8" tall told me I was intimidating. I wear a long black coat, am shaved bald, and have a hoop earring. I'm going to switch to a blazer to see if I can soften the look. That said , I was opened by HB9 that also said I looked a bit intimidating but that I rocked the look! I had just walked in this place and as i approached the bar to get a drink i saw this amazing ~23 year old sitting at a table. I smiled on the way by and she reached out as I passed and grabbed my hand. she smiled and said " I love your look!". I said "it's a pleasure to meet someone with such good taste. You're not looking too bad yourself !" I nealt next to her to reduce the intimidation factor and we hugged. We exchanged names and made small talk for a minute. She said she would toast me but I didn't have a drink. I said she could buy me one and she obliged. She then went outside to smoke. I said "well it was nice meeting you!" She grabbed my forearm and said "I will be right back" When she came back we talked for a few minutes. I created a false time constraint and prepared to leave. She didn't offer her number so I did Mystery's "you're kind of shy" bit. As always, if they open you there is almost a guaranteed Number Close. I got her number! This is a personal best number close for me and I will call her tomorrow. Good night PUA 's

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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    well done (y)

    just out of curiosity what were you using for your direct opener? (if any)

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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    I would find something to complement them about. Dress, blouse, hair style, Karoke skills, or just comment that they were cute. Stuff that works well in day game.

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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    It's not direct enough. I spent saturday night using Direct Game at night and I had a blast with it. I was using really strong lines and approaching girls in groups with "I just had to come over here to tell you that you are fucking stunning."

    I got some great reactions with it. One girl apparently had never had someone be so direct with her, and she couldn't find anything to say for like five minutes. It was hilarious.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    That's good feedback! Thinking back I got the best reaction from the stronger approach. I won't give up Direct Game just yet! Thanks Duke!

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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    I really like being more direct!!

    Too many guys have trouble & get nervous with Indirect Game because they're too worried about what to say & how to act, because they're trying to mask the fact that they're actually interested in a girl.

    When you go direct, you can weed out the ones who are gonna fizzle out. You can save valuable time by cutting right to the chase & getting in there.

    Girls don't get all fancied up to go out for no reason... they WANT the attention; they want guys to notice & "hit on them"... but they want guys to do it correctly.

    Be Alpha & be FUN.

    With going direct, you don't need routines or lines.. you just project a fun, interesting vibe & flirt like a Mo-Fo!

    You have to be spontaneous & use situational surroundings, but that ability comes quickly when you just start doing it.

    You don't need "conversations". .. you need teasing & bantering. That's all. (When it comes to building attraction).



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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    I actually find I'm less nervous with direct approaches because there are no lines to remember, no routines. I can just go in and be confident and dominant.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    I'm with you there. I have given up scripted routines in my Indirect Game. I am more relaxed and can focus on projecting Alpha male attitude and body language. While the routines work on your set, the body language etc. works it's magic on the whole room at once.
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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    I like both equally to be honest,because I'm more into the cocky funny category,so it goes both ways pretty good.

    To be honest i think you should do what goes for you best,and depending on a situation you should go for direct or indirect,for example i usually go indirect when i open a set,on the other hand most of the time i go direct when the target's alone,unless she's a 10 and has a huge ego.

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    Default Re: Direct game fails at night. Attraction wins.

    Sage advice! Direct could put off her friends if the target is getting all of the attention. I suppose that's why direct is more popular in day game!


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