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    Default 1st Kiss Close, using some strategy

    Hi guys!

    Yesterday, I had my first Kiss close since I been in the forum, the most funny think, was that I did no realize what I did until I went home and i sit down and relax. And men, that is so much fun!

    Ok, yesterday it was my bday, and of course, we went for some drinks. When I went to that pub, everyone was there, so everyone could saw my triumphal arrival, including her (a friend of a friend)

    from there, I follow the most simply, and ABC Pua's strategy, I ignore her pretty much the first 20 min, it was not difficult, because being my bday, I was like the focus of all the attention, so she was attracted for that I guess.

    After those 20 min, we pick a table (for all of us), and she sat down near to me. From here, we start to chat, and instead of go for the usual boring chat, I start to use my best tricks.
    I start for neg her a little bit about her shoes, and some other small things (without being rude ofc)

    The second step that I used in the conversation, was talk about how the way that our eyes move in a conversation, could say which kind of person are you (girls love that)

    As the conversation was going more and more far, I said to her without any kind of shy or insecurity (and this could sounds a little bit arrogant) "I can tell right now and here, that u are attracted to me " She smile, look at me and said "yes I am" then, for just be sure that everything will go good, I said something like "that's cool, but if u are expecting to sleep with me tonight, I'm not your guy" (here, it doesn't really matter if u really want to sleep with her or not, that is just for let her feel good with herself, and give to yourself, a point of self respect)

    From here, I move to my next goal, Isolate her.
    With the excuse that she was going to sleep early because she was supposed to work at 7am today, I go with her outside the pub for grab a taxi. Instead we sat down in a bench and we start to chat again.
    In that moment on my mind was, how to K-close that business, and comrades, I really was wondering to use the Mystery K-close "would you like to Kiss me?" Personally I found this too much fun hahaha

    What really happen, is the 3 second rule. Purposely I stop the conversation, I look at her, she did not start to talk again, 1,2,3...VOILA Kiss close!

    When we finish, we exchange numbers, I put her on a taxi, and That was the end of my Bday! not bad huh?

    As you can see guys, I follow the basic strategy, because I'm really not an artist like u guys, I'm a begginer, but I just discover how easy could be, if you keep your mind cold and focus!

    Please, if any have some tips, advises or anything to say about how could improve this thing, I will be very glad read opinions!!!

    PS: On a negative side, I might was a little bit impatient at the end, cuz I ask for her number (I fight hard for not do it) I should calm down and relax, but I thing that I was just to excited!

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    Default Re: 1st Kiss Close, using some strategy

    Awesome job!

    My favorite part was when you told her she's into you (I guess she gave you enough ioi's I presume), and then said but you ain't sleeping with her tonight after she said she was. That was solid and makes you look less needy and not needing sex.

    And the mystery kiss close is golden. It's direct and if the girl's into you it's solid.

    Nice job again!

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    Default Re: 1st Kiss Close, using some strategy

    Thanks ED11356!!!!!

    and yes, you're right! I had enough ioi's before to use the big gun! And yes, that make u look guys less needy! And we can show here how secure about ourself we are! that's a good point!

    Anyway, we need to be careful how and when we use that kind of artillery, because if we don't have a point for say that kind of sentence, we could seem veeeeeery arrogant! I Basically stick that sentence after talk a little bit about body language, eye direction etc etc!

    Did u use the Mystery's K-close technique? I did not have a chance yet, but amigo, I can't wait for use it!

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    Default Re: 1st Kiss Close, using some strategy

    Nice work! Good job shifting after ioi's. keep sharpening the sword. I amaze myself on a regular basis! Just when I think I suck at this it all falls together! Congrats!

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    Default Re: 1st Kiss Close, using some strategy

    Maybe I am missing something, but why didn't you go for the snl? I would love to find out how far that social proof etc could have been taken.

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    Default Re: 1st Kiss Close, using some strategy

    Hi Daansn3!!!

    I guess, that in that moment, in that chat, I just was enjoying to much myself cuz I was happy to see how good i could work when i'm on the mood!

    Otherwise, she was saying that she work at 7am etc etc, so I convince myself that i will not f-close tonight...Anyway, i should maybe at least try to do some move!

    Anyway, after all, it was a good night!

    Salut amigo!

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    Default Re: 1st Kiss Close, using some strategy

    One of the greatest things in the world is putting effort into something and seeing it work out. I remember the feeling I had when I had my first "PUA" k-close. The excitement and the confidence boost that comes with it is unparalleled.

    Remember that feeling next time you go out and put what you learn into practice - it'll give you that extra motivation you need to make things happen.

    Overall, great job - you stayed confident, maintained your frame (I'm assuming; she didn't really challenge you from what you said), showed you weren't needy and ended the night like a true gentleman by getting her to a cab

    Just take things one step at a time from here - getting her number gives you a better chance at getting a date. Arrange it in a way that doesn't make it look like you're asking:

    Hey, you! Saturday night - drinks! More info later

    Give her more details later and try not to get into a texting frenzy until a few hours before you meet up. That's when you can sort of set the mood -especially when she's already on her way (prevents flaking).

    From there, escalate. Break the touching barrier with a hug and kiss on the cheek. Small compliment, nice conversation, Kino, and viola - do it right and she's all yours. Keep us updated and good luck!
    Always leave her better than you found her.


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