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    Default Gwhites302's Journey Into Being A Bad Ass

    Hey everyone as you can guess by the title of this post this is a Jurnal chronicling my aspirations of being a PUA. There are some things i obviously need to work on.

    1.Qualification
    2. Routine Stacking
    3. Transitioning
    4. disqualification

    The reason i chose these four things is because i notice when i am in a set i either forget to do them or don't have the material to do them i also need to work on my inner game

    1. Stop stuttering
    2. Not over think the set
    3.Try to keep the conversation fun and interesting!

    So if you guys have any suggestions i would be greatful i will star doing field reports over the next couple of days to give you guys updates so i really appreciate you guys reading this and for your feedback!

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    Default Re: Gwhites302's Journey Into Being A Bad Ass

    The reason you forget is because you're probably trying to learn A LOT of routines to try and cover every possible hole,because you're worried that you'll run out of things to say.

    Don't do the mistake i did.Don't try to learn everything,because when you approach a set you need to be on auto-pilot,if you start thinking "What routine now,or what opener now" you will fail,and the reason your brain will start thinking that is because you have learned a lot of material,so your brain is not concentrated on the set,but on your memory.

    Learn a few openers,although with experience you will not use canned openers as often.

    Learn the basic routines,mostly for transitioning,like the best friends test or a C versus U shaped smiles.

    Have at least 1 dhv ready(a real dhv,don't try to memorize fake ones).

    And learn the most useful in your eyes negs.Negs are easy to remember because as the conversation goes,your brain will have a neg association whenever you hear the word.For example if you smell her perfume you might remember the "Cool Perfume.I think my granny wears the same" neg.

    And that's it,and just start talking to people.There's a reason in "Pickup Artist" they introduced the openers and then took the students to the field,to just open people,they expected failure.

    And the most important of all,try to have fun,the more relaxed you will be the easier it'll get.After you open a few sets,you always get that adrenaline rush which makes you think that you can do anything,look forward to that.

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    Default Re: Gwhites302's Journey Into Being A Bad Ass

    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: Gwhites302's Journey Into Being A Bad Ass

    Make use of gaining "intelligence".

    May seem at first talking to some new girls you do not know that your just rushing through a list of lines/techniques. Ask them a few questions about themselves, gain some knowledge and intelligence then incorporate your techniques wittingly.

    Take a break, relax, observe them while letting them talk a bit after you run thru your initial openings and then apply other stuff whilst your learning about them.

    Tell some good stories too, not fabricated or your "go to" stories. What happened interesting in your life that you could share with them and dhv with? And its more so how you tell it more than actual content sometimes.

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    Default Re: Gwhites302's Journey Into Being A Bad Ass

    If you have a problem stuttering, spend more time working on learning body language than verbal language/tactics.

    Long term, body language will not only help you transition from tactics to inner-game, but it will also help you realize that verbal language is just over-rated anyway. Many times, just being able to turn a girl on with the way you slightly bite your tongue while looking at her lips, and her eyes, and her hair and her neck will absolutely throw any and all of your dhv's into the back seat. A guy who can seduce with his eyes will win over a pre-canned-DHV-pusher damn near every time.
    - CR


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