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    Default First solo sarge - tonight!

    Alright, reserving this space for my fist solo sarge field report. No going back now and it's time to man up so I don't come back here tomorrow posting something with my tail between my legs... but rather something else betw.... you get the point!

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    Default Re: First solo sarge - tonight!

    When I first started I was going out alone. It's great that you're taking those steps.
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    Default Re: First solo sarge - tonight!

    Alright... it's late, but I'm writing this while it's fresh cause it wasn't a total fail, but went wrong somewhere (possibly b/c of sobering up, haha!)

    First venue was a bust... like nothing over a HB 6 other than the bar tender. Wasted a $5 cover for some crappy 80's cover band, plus a beer and bailed.

    Moved on to a place that I knew would have a better dynamic and sure enough it was packed. First floor is mainly a bar, got a drink a drink and went to head upstairs... more of a dance area, much louder, etc... They wouldn't let anyone up b.c it was too crowded, and I crafted my "loner" story from that. Once I got upstairs, completely packed... at least 3-1 dude to HB ratio, but most of them were 7+.

    Got "stuck in traffic"... really couldn't move anywhere and happened to be a HB 7.5 drunk as sh1t. Figured this would be a great way to start. I practically opened her almost by mistake! Approached from the side, as she turned around, SHE knocked a beer off the table, spilled on me... she thought I did it, and acted pissed that I spilled her drink (not even sure it was hers). I played it off pretty well and she said I had to dance with her since I spilled it. Not sure I followed that logic, but ok. Decent grinding, chatted while dancing, blah, blah blah. Ran my story on how I stuck stuck downstairs, had no idea where my group was so I said I was adopter hers. Went to grab a round of drinks at the bar, she asked me what I was drinking. She ended up ordering some shots and pulled out cash to pay... ok at this point, I was thinking... what is the catch, there is no way this is that easy. Took the shots and I moved in for the k-close. No idea how, but it really was that easy.

    Now, this where I probably should have isolated her, but we continued to hang out with the group she was there with. I chatted up the guys and a couple of the other girls, seemed to have a good social standing going. Danced and made out some more with the HB and she switched to water... ok, she was a little trashed at this point, not gonna lie. Her friends ended up "taking her home" and basically stepped in so I didn't take advantage of her. Ok, moving on...

    Approached a set with 4 HBs 7-9's and one guy. Got one them, HB 8+ who was visiting from out of town talking and started dancing. Had her laughing the whole time... I was a good bit tipsy and she was giving me sh1t cause I wasn't in rhythm with her. I set my drink down and said ok, her's something I know I'm better at even after several drinks and made out with her. She told me with a huge smile that I wasn't a bad kisser. I negged saying, "glad one of us is not bad". Without hesitation, she started making out with me again. I pulled back first used some of the lines I've learned liked, "woah there, I'm not just some piece of meat." Started dancing closer and kept my lips right by hers and said, "I bet you give in first". (She did).

    Final call comes up, and the group is heading out to two of the girls' place close by... they invite me back. We get to their place, they are all talking about starting some drinking games and still a very flirty atmosphere. One of the other girls, HB 7, starts flirting with me and I do notice the HB 8 looking on. I eventually re-engage her, kiss a few times and from there it runs downhill. Instead of drinking more, people start sobering up (including me). The girls order some pizza and the rest of the group ends up going into one of the bedrooms leaving just me and HB 8 in the Den. We're just talking about random stuff and make a move to escalate further Kino while making out. Now, she is still smiling and starts asking where I live and where I was staying. Here I'm thinking I'm set... wrong. Now I realize she was proabably feeling out my intentions. She goes into the room where everyone else went and all of a sudden I'm sitting out there alone. Her friend that lives there, HB 9, comes out an takes me by the hand and says lets go for a walk.

    I know at this point, it's one of two thing... either the HB 9 is the one actually into me (awesome) or I'm getting blown out (more likely). We walk the hall of the complex, she starts asking me where I'm from... so I ask "Where I'm from, like grew up?" And I tell her... she says she has family from around there and now my BS meeting is off the charts. I say, "oh yeah, what part?" Awkward moment. She then starts giving me some BS about how she doesn't know me and doesn't want some guy she doesn't know staying at her place for the night, and BS, BS, BS. I graciously say, "I think you've got the wrong idea of me, but hey, it's all good." and bow out. Oh yeah, this is the same chick that invited me back in the first place. Yep, HB 8 had her friend get rid of me.

    Anyway, I did already kinda know this, I don't feel I did terrible in person, decent looking guy and can speak well... my kryptonite before had been text game so this takes that out of the equation. The night helped my Approach Anxiety a good bit, but I think I'd still be a lot more comfortable with a wing. Now I just need to be able to transition that initial attraction further.

    Final score.... n-close: 0, k-close: 2, f-close: I think I had a shot (or least to have some fun) and f-ed it up. The dude in the group even told me at one point that he thought I was in.

    I think I know where I mis-stepped on both sets, but any feedback so I can improve is greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: First solo sarge - tonight!

    Hey man...you...did...aw esome. Congrats!! You really couldn't do much more.

    The only thing is I wouldn't have let her shape it that I was being creepy for staying. Once she said anything about letting a strange guy stay for the night I'd say something like "It would be weird if you actually let strangers crash at your place." But no biggie. You still handled it well.

    Now you know what it feels like to overstay your welcome. Same night lays aren't all about game. Logistics play a part to. And this time the logistics were against you. And you couldn't really keep the momentum going because of logistics so the makeouts probably got stale. You had a few makeouts so that's something to fill any mans ego. Nice job.
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    Default Re: First solo sarge - tonight!

    Um yeah, going out solo for the first time and even making it back to the INSIDE of a house is pretty damn impressive.

    There are a few options with the den situation.

    First, when a girl is always chatty, literally sit up, turn around and ask her to massage a knot out of your back. Not only will she be talking to your head, but she will be equalizing her own value because she is taking care of you. Whenever she starts talking about taboo shit just talk about how good her massage it (which 99% of the time it will suck).

    Also, while she is massaging you, there is a 50% chance she will be sitting indian style and you can put your hands on the tops of her knees if they are around the back of your waist.

    When she is done, turn her around and do the same thing to her and then use that opportunity to actually massage her for a minute or two and also kiss her neck and ears.

    When a girl persists with questions like "what do you do for a living" i will either answer vague or just answer stale/flat/fast and move the conversation to something more "worldly" like how great it is that two people can connect so well and that it makes you feel great inside and of course she feels that same thing right now, right? << See: NLP (I am horrible with that stuff, but occasionally in situations like this, it can reverse a Mindset that is headed down the wrong path)
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    Default Re: First solo sarge - tonight!

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Hey man...you...did...aw esome. Congrats!! You really couldn't do much more.

    The only thing is I wouldn't have let her shape it that I was being creepy for staying. Once she said anything about letting a strange guy stay for the night I'd say something like "It would be weird if you actually let strangers crash at your place." But no biggie. You still handled it well.

    Now you know what it feels like to overstay your welcome. Same night lays aren't all about game. Logistics play a part to. And this time the logistics were against you. And you couldn't really keep the momentum going because of logistics so the makeouts probably got stale. You had a few makeouts so that's something to fill any mans ego. Nice job.
    Thanks man... I was proud of myself going from the beg of the night when I wouldn't even approach (partly b/c the place was kind of empty and no quality, but mostly still aa) to making out with two decent looking HBs in the span of 2 hours. It definitely got awkward at the end, but hey, I had absolutely nothing invested.

    Logistics should improve soon here... I have a deposit down and am supposed to move to one of the more exclusive condo's walking distance from the bars on April 15... only problem is, my house is not yet sold. The place I am moving is ridiculous and well known for its prestige. My house right now is not only about 25 min away, but the second you walk in (if I got a HB that far) you know I was once married and have kids... 4 br, 3200 sq ft, toys everywhere, hah. I knew I wasn't extracting her from her friend's place.... and it was a BS line to get rid of me anyway so I wasn't going to "go back in" to try.

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    Um yeah, going out solo for the first time and even making it back to the INSIDE of a house is pretty damn impressive.

    There are a few options with the den situation.

    First, when a girl is always chatty, literally sit up, turn around and ask her to massage a knot out of your back. Not only will she be talking to your head, but she will be equalizing her own value because she is taking care of you. Whenever she starts talking about taboo sh1t just talk about how good her massage it (which 99% of the time it will suck).

    Also, while she is massaging you, there is a 50% chance she will be sitting indian style and you can put your hands on the tops of her knees if they are around the back of your waist.

    When she is done, turn her around and do the same thing to her and then use that opportunity to actually massage her for a minute or two and also kiss her neck and ears.

    When a girl persists with questions like "what do you do for a living" i will either answer vague or just answer stale/flat/fast and move the conversation to something more "worldly" like how great it is that two people can connect so well and that it makes you feel great inside and of course she feels that same thing right now, right? << See: NLP (I am horrible with that stuff, but occasionally in situations like this, it can reverse a Mindset that is headed down the wrong path)
    Yeah -- she was 22, just out of college and telling me about how she's a nurse... I definitely made some playful remarks off that. Played the whole guess my age game and she thought I was like 25/26... I probably should have rolled with it, but told her I was 31. That led to the fact that she was in middle school when I graduated college, but that didn't seem to be an issue. I think the momentum just died. I'll definitely take your tip though next time to turn that convo a different direction and cut it off. I can see how some girls could get caught up a big age difference while others it would be a plus for.


    Overall, was much better than I was expecting... I do wish I could have closed the deal or gotten a couple numbers, but one girl was trashed and the other was from out of town, so no biggie.

    My goal is get some practice under my belt, and then when I have my new place, game on.

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    Default Re: First solo sarge - tonight!

    Dang, I wish I could have that good of a night by myself. Good sh!t man. Keep it up


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