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Thread: Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

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    Default Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

    This is a follow-up to an earlier post I made "What Happened with girl in my art class?"

    In the report I stated that an HB8 hit on me. We are going out tomorrow.

    I made the date with her yesterday & today she told me that she is married and her hubby is away (a lot) on business. I don't mess with married women. It's a "No No" in my book. In fact, I usually scold them & order them back home to tend to their hubbies. I tell them to do things right: if the marriage sucks, get counseling or a divorce. Just don't cheat! IMHO, it's dishonest & lacks class.

    I wasn't as harsh on her as I usually am when a married woman approaches me. I let her know that I wanted a strictly platonic relationship with her & am still taking her out on our date. She's hot & I wouldn't mind being seen with her - sometimes HBs work like chick magnets.

    Am I right or wrong? She gave enough IOIs & strongly hinted at starting an affair, but I said,"No." What would you have done?
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

    I'm with ya!
    I've never been the type to mess with a married woman... too risky & too much of an @sshole move.

    There are PLENTY of single girls out there. So, I see no need to meddle in someone else's relationship, regardless of the situation.

    I gotta give you mad props my friend.


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    Default Re: Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    There are PLENTY of single girls out there. So, I see no need to meddle in someone else's relationship, regardless of the situation.
    -- 100% agreed. We are all screwed up in the head, and further deteriorating someone else's marriage not only affects the marriage itself, but the mental well-being of other's.

    If a married woman wants to hook up, these are my exact words (yes, i'm serious): "You need to teach your husband how to re-attract you. Because both of you have bigger issues right now than needing to hook up. Re-attract, or get a divorce."
    - CR

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    Default Re: Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

    Agreed, there are just somethings you don't do. Even if she's begging for it.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

    I'm a big believer in the concept of do no harm to others. If you're going to hurt someone else, why do it?
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

    I've done it; it's messy. I try to only approach single women, even trying polyamory.

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    Default Re: Affairs w/ Married Women are a No No!

    Quote Originally Posted by costarica View Post
    -- 100% agreed. We are all screwed up in the head, and further deteriorating someone else's marriage not only affects the marriage itself, but the mental well-being of other's.

    If a married woman wants to hook up, these are my exact words (yes, i'm serious): "You need to teach your husband how to re-attract you. Because both of you have bigger issues right now than needing to hook up. Re-attract, or get a divorce."
    Heavily agree. (30 characters)...
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.


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