Hey guys I thought I would give my weekend report and since nothing happened last night I will report Friday night. To be honest i'm getting a bit annoyed at myself. Anyway here it goes:
So initially I have been going out with two pretty decent wings. One of them is currently trying to pursue a girl that we both work with who has a bf who lives in California (were in NY). She was at a bar on Friday night with her friends that was kinda not the best location for single guys to game girls. It's an older crowd type of bar, so I really didn't want to go, neither did the other wing. But since my main wing wanted to go badly to see this girl, I agreed and said that i'd basically keep all her friends distracted and jump on any grenades if needed. The essential goal here was just to help my dude out.
Upon arrival my main wing's target HB8 was with three guy friends and one HB7. I immediately take on the role of being the dancing monkey, telling stories, getting everyone involved, and winning over all the males (which honestly took no time whatsoever). After 10 minutes I decided they wouldn't be a problem and started actually running game on her girl friend, HB7 that was there. This was completely unexpected because as I said it wasn't my main goal. But dam we had a pretty vibe and connected immediately. Within 20 minutes she verbally told me to get my phone out and add her number because hers was dead. I've never had this happen to me which was a first . It didn't take long after a bit more conversation before I initiate kissing her. We make out right in front of the three dudes which was an awesome feeling. It was funny because she kept saying that she didn't want to make out in front of anyone.
After a while we all decide to bounce to a popular bar. On the way there we start making out like crazy in the back seat of the car. This is where I think I may have screwed up. Instead of taking that momentum and trying to leave for the f-close, I kinda don't make that move, wait a bit too long and she eventually says she has to leave because she has work early the next morning. The worst thing is that I probably had her extremely attracted to me and by that time had built a LOT of rapport. I don't know wtf else to say except that i'm still learning and i've never pulled a girl to my house like this. So frustrating .
I kinda want some solid advice on this because this has pretty much happened three weeks in a row now for me. As soon as I get the make out should I just move to building sexual comfort and then try to leave with her?? What am I doing wrong here? I mean, she pretty much told me she was down for sex that night in one way or another. Oh well, I guess I'll still chalk it up as a success but not quite going the distance.