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    Default day gaming at my local mall

    So today I went to the mall to go day gaming. I was suppose to do 12 approaches but I only did 10 but that is a new record for me so I was still happy with that. I'm only going to go through the approaches that I thought were funny and interesting.

    So I'm walking through Macy's looking for girls to approach and I don't see any cute girls for the first 10 minutes I'm there and then I spot this HB9 sitting down by herself on her cell phone. I walk past and everything in me didn't want to approach but I couldn't let my aa get to me.

    I stop myself turn around and go sit next to her but not too close or too far.

    Me:I know this is totally random but I thought you were really(pause), really(pause), Giving her eye contact the whole time(smile) cute.

    HB9:Thank You!(Smiling)
    Me:So where are you from?
    HB9:I'm married
    Me:That's awesome, so where are you from?
    HB9:I'm from Las Vegas.
    Me:I bet you like it better out her, it is hot as hell out is Vegas.
    HB9:Yeah but the funny thing is that when I went to the beach out here I got burned and I never get burned in Vegas.
    Me:Thats funny.
    HB9:I have to call my husband.
    Me:Where is your ring?(She is lying and I'm just busting on her knowing that she is bullsh1ting).
    HB9:Oh..well....it only a little ring.
    Me:Let me speak to your husband.
    HB9:Oh no...Smiles.
    Me:It was nice meeting you.Bye.

    I didn't really care about her bullsh1ting me I was just happy I approached and once I did my AA wasn't as bad.

    So I walk around for like another hour do some more approaches and get alot of the bf bullsh1t. Here is a funny one.

    Me:Opener.
    HB9:Thank you(Smiling) and kind of blushing.
    Me:So tell me about yourself.
    HB9:I have a boyfriend.
    Me:That's awesome, so where are you from?
    HB9:I'm live in Mexico.
    Me:That is great. You know I have a hispanic last name and I'm black so my friends call me a Blexican.

    Now she is just smiling nervously as she notices that I'm not only of the dudes that listens to that bullsh1t when women tell me they have bf's because most of the time they tell you that just to test you.

    Me: Well it was nice meeting you..bye.

    So I continue to wal through the mall and at this point I have done about 5-6 approaches and I haven't got one number or email but truthfully I didn't care. A couple of thoughts came into my head like....you can't do this...just stop right now..etc,etc but I didn't listen I kept going.

    So I spot another HB9 and again my AA kicked in but I made myself do it anyway.

    ME:Opener.
    HB9:Thank you!(Smiling)
    Me:So where are you from?
    HB9:I'm from West Mininster.
    Me:Yeah I'm from L.A. and the people out here are much nicer then people in L.A.
    HB9:You drove out here from L.A.
    Me:Naw I live in Los Alamitos now.
    HB9:Thats cool.

    I don't remember the rest of the conversation. She was really nice but wasn't interested.

    So just as I was about to throw in the towel I finally had some success after 10 approaches. I spotted this Latin HB9 and just went for it. She was working in a store.

    HB9:Hello, how are you doing?
    Me:Good thanks for asking. I had a question. I'm looking for a present for my mom for mother's day. What would you suggest?
    HB9:Blah, Blah, Blah.

    She goes on for like ten minutes and then shows me these purses that I bust on her about showing me. She laughs and we just have a cool conversationn about different gifts I should get for another 10 minutes. in the middle of the conversation I say,

    Me:Opener
    HB9:Thank you! Smiling.
    Me:Where are you from?
    HB9:Blah, blah, blah.

    Customers come and I start to look around until they leave. Once they leave I say.
    Me:Well it was nice talking to you.
    Her:It was nice talking to you too.

    I turn around walk a few steps and turn back around and say,
    Me:Hey do you have email? I really enjoyed on conversation and I would like to continue it.
    HB9:Yeah (I hand her my pen) write it down.

    She is writing it down and as she is doing that I say,
    Me:While you are at it write your number down too.

    She does it.

    Me:Now this is the phone and email that you answer right?
    HB9:Yes.
    Me: Now you aren't giving me this just to be nice are you because if you are I don't want it (I act as if I'm handing it back to her).
    HB9:No.
    Me:Ok, I will talk to you later then.

    So all and all I didn't think it wasn't that bad of a day. I should of did more approaches but it was kind of slow today. Anyway I'm just really working on getting a handle on my AA and doing this is helping so if me and her hook up or not I could careless but if we do I won't be complaining...lol.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: day gaming

    Nice man, I see you've been studying a little David DeAngelo. I love how you were completely unphased by the bf remarks. I usually always drop it there but I never really thought of it as a test. Imma have to take note of that.

    The only thing I would have dropped is that last part asking if her number was fake. Sounded a little like you were desperate for her real number.

    Other than that, it all looks good to me. I think in a mall setting, you should start out indirect but then transition to direct, like revealing your intentions (like what you did with the Macy's girl). Because if you go direct and they aren't interested, they got really nowhere to go say if they're in a store, where as on the street they can walk away. Don't want to make them feel cornered. Just my 2 cents.

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    Default Re: day gaming

    thanks bro!! i had no idea what i was doing lmao. ill get better.


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