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    Default Day Time Instadate Day 2 Lay

    Guys I've been learning a lot lately here and from some other sites. I'm having some good results as well.

    In addition to my last report this was with a milf - if you want to call her that. I'm 34 so I'm not a young gun like many of you but she was 38 and had 2 kids. Let me tell you the story and you guys can give me tips.

    I was out going to get some coffee at this ritzy area in the bay and I sat outside just to send some text messages and people watch. I had no intent on talking to anyone and quite honestly I was not in state. But then I saw this milf in skin tight jeans with heels and a sheer blouse with blond streaks and glasses. She looked sort of like a star but more not too extreme. I could see guys looking at her and she was oblivious to how hot she was. She was with her two little kids and she went into the coffee shop.

    I definitely did a double take and stared a little (a lot). I've been reading a lot about the mentality to take to approach though so I was like heck I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. So since I was sitting near the door where she would exit I decided to hang tight and kept peaking to see when she was coming.

    At first I didn't even know what opener to use but I remember reading about a text message opener and since I had my phone out I thought I'd try that.

    When she came out my heart was beating so fast. I bet not a lot of you guys know what I'm talking about since you guys are way more advance than me but I was so scared. Her skin tight jeans were so hot on her I almost didn't open.

    Carmelon: Excuse me, I have a quick question, I just got a text message from my friend and we are having a debate on whether or not natural girls are hotter than girls that have gotten plastic surgery.

    I thought that was a killer opener because I false time constraint and also she has definitely had plastic surgery so she would tell me how she felt.

    Milf: Hmmm I don't know I think it depends on the girl...

    She left it wide open for me to continue the conversation. She didn't walk away so I knew I was in.

    Carmelon: Really? Because I think a girl that is open and liberated and ok with having plastic surgery is really attractive. Don't you agree?

    Milf: Yea that's true but...

    I cut her off to keep the lead in the conversation

    Carmelon: Well I'll just text him back that a pretty lady told me I was right and he was wrong.

    Milf: lol

    Carmelon: Thanks for your help. My name is Carmelon, what's yours?

    Then I asked if she'd like to sit down since her kids were running around and she could watch them from there. She agreed! Boom! Instadate!!

    Then I just cold read that she was a nice mom that liked to go shoe shopping. She totally ate it up. I touched her a few times like the dicarlo escalation ladder, first on her knee, then tapping the arm and a lot of smiling. After awhile she started asking me questions about what I did and where I was from and all that stuff. I told her we should save some stuff for the second date (LOL!) and she was like "Oh we had a first date?"

    Then I didn't want to overstay my time because I knew I told her early on about my false time constraint so I said "well it was nice talking to you, we should keep in touch...what's the best way?" She said "take my number". Nice I read this routine somewhere, where you don't ask for the number but just ask how can we keep in touch. Totally worked!

    Later that day I sent her a text message, "hey its mr dreamy, thanks for the chat today"
    She texted back "Carmelon?"
    She must have been thinking about me all day so I just said "We need to hang out again soon. How about next Friday?"
    She replied "Let me try to get a babysitter if so, definitely"

    Long story short she got a baby sitter and we decided to go out to dinner at a mexican restaurant. We had a few drinks and watched some basketball on the tv and I did the decarlo escalation ladder again and got a make out. We stared deep into each others eyes again, just like my last lay report. I could sense that it was going to happen again. I don't know how to extract yet from a date so I had to just say some AFC stuff like "Let's go back to my place and we can watch the rest of the game". So AFC. What do you guys say?

    Good thing she agreed though and she followed me home since we drove separately. From there I escalated again with the ladder and the rest is history...

    Any tips guys so I can improve?

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    Default Re: Day Time Instadate Day 2 Lay

    Improve what lol??? You got the desired results hahaha. Nice job!

    As far as getting back to your place... what you said wasn't terrible. You told her to come back to your place. AFC would have asked. You also had a reason to go (finish watching the game). So overall it was OK. Moms rarely meet a nice guy who doesnt mind the kids who doesnt make it obvious he wants her for sex. So you can get away with a mistake here or there. But i really dont see much of a problem in what u did. Have confidence! She also probably wanted a nice romantic fling with a young man

    But the real question... were u right? Were her boobs fake lol?
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    Default Re: Day Time Instadate Day 2 Lay

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Improve what lol??? You got the desired results hahaha. Nice job!

    As far as getting back to your place... what you said wasn't terrible. You told her to come back to your place. AFC would have asked. You also had a reason to go (finish watching the game). So overall it was OK. Moms rarely meet a nice guy who doesnt mind the kids who doesnt make it obvious he wants her for sex. So you can get away with a mistake here or there. But i really dont see much of a problem in what u did. Have confidence! She also probably wanted a nice romantic fling with a young man

    But the real question... were u right? Were her boobs fake lol?
    Probably could have done things better according to what I'm reading on different sites. Also could have done it faster.

    And yes her boobs were fake and bigger than I thought. Hopefully I can retain her as an FB. How do you go about doing that?

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    Default Re: Day Time Instadate Day 2 Lay

    Well that's great for you I guess. I am just really not attracted to women with kids. I do definitely like cougars though.

    I know what you are saying cuz yesterday I saw this super hot cougar probably 40+ at the post office. I saw her checking me out and totally would have hit on her but there was a guy in between us. Man sometimes I hate logistics. Never even thought I could hit on such a high status woman but I know I can if the logistics are there.

    Good job securing the Day 2 I have major problems there. Like hearing the report, just awesome.

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    Default Re: Day Time Instadate Day 2 Lay

    Seriously Carmelon, u need to value your results. Its fine to set goals for yourself but you got her within 2 dates. It didnt take like 3 months lol. I know you can go quicker but this girl had kids. Its rare for a mom to have sex with a man when her kids are around (or she hasnt planned to be away from them for the day). She even said she needed a sitter before she could hang out.

    What did u want? Her to just run after you and give the kids cab fare lol??? Thats not cool. If she was single, then you could prob escalate faster but again 2 dates is not that long of a time.

    As for fbuddy... i got a post on this thread about that. Its a little ways down:

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...html#post89226
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