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    Default Solo Clubbing

    So last night i went to the club with just a Mindset of meeting as many girls as possible. I was pretty drunk so i had 0 Approach Anxiety which was awesome. I was opening sets no problem. I was using this as my primary opener. "Hey i need your opinion on something, I just broke up with my gf a few weeks ago and shes really depressed what should i do." The funny thing is this is actually true for me so im not just making it up. But, i feel like some of the girls i opened thought it was completely made up and got some bad results. Do you guys think this line sounds too fake?

    Anyway i got some good results with a few girls and had rly flirty convos but there was always a friend who was cockblocking trying to get them to leave and such. I was drunk so i cant really give detailed situations lol but the "friend" killed me on a few sets. How do i deal with the "friend" being a bitch?

    Then i ran into this girl i met a few times through a mutual friend and we started dancing and she said i looked cute. I was saying how she wasnt as good a dancer as i thought shed be and said i hope shes a better kisser. Unfortunately she just got some kind of mouth surgery, wisdom teeth i think it was haha. So that wouldve been an easy k close. She told me to hit her up sometime and gave me her number so i was happy about that.

    Other than that i feel like i had good energy all night with my approaches. Now i just gotta deal with the "friends" and escalate further to k-closes and such.

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    Default Re: Solo Clubbing

    You didn't have a false time constraint that's why the opener didn't always hook.

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    Default Re: Solo Clubbing

    The friend was an obstacle. Obstacles dealt with by demonstrating higher value (dhv) and shotgun negs at your target. These things show you are a good guy and not just trying to get tang.

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    Default Re: Solo Clubbing

    ya i understand all that. but how do i get the girls friend to either like me as well or just let me talk to her friend. i have no problem with one, its the two or group sets i have trouble with. do i just neg her friend?

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    Default Re: Solo Clubbing

    Quote Originally Posted by bendenherover View Post
    So last night i went to the club with just a Mindset of meeting as many girls as possible. I was pretty drunk so i had 0 Approach Anxiety which was awesome. I was opening sets no problem. I was using this as my primary opener. "Hey i need your opinion on something, I just broke up with my gf a few weeks ago and shes really depressed what should i do." The funny thing is this is actually true for me so im not just making it up. But, i feel like some of the girls i opened thought it was completely made up and got some bad results. Do you guys think this line sounds too fake?

    Anyway i got some good results with a few girls and had rly flirty convos but there was always a friend who was cockblocking trying to get them to leave and such. I was drunk so i cant really give detailed situations lol but the "friend" killed me on a few sets. How do i deal with the "friend" being a bitch?

    Then i ran into this girl i met a few times through a mutual friend and we started dancing and she said i looked cute. I was saying how she wasnt as good a dancer as i thought shed be and said i hope shes a better kisser. Unfortunately she just got some kind of mouth surgery, wisdom teeth i think it was haha. So that wouldve been an easy k close. She told me to hit her up sometime and gave me her number so i was happy about that.

    Other than that i feel like i had good energy all night with my approaches. Now i just gotta deal with the "friends" and escalate further to k-closes and such.
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    Default Re: Solo Clubbing

    great stuff Kino. i have a few questions tho.

    would you ever suggest isolating the girl yourself instead of having her friends do it for you?

    also, what are some good things to say that gets the whole group involved?

    lastly do you think girls find rly drunk guys unattractive? Or does it not matter if you can still game the same.

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    Default Re: Solo Clubbing

    [QUOTE=bendenherover; 89448]great stuff Kino. i have a few questions tho.

    would you ever suggest isolating the girl yourself instead of having her friends do it for you?

    also, what are some good things to say that gets the whole group involved?

    lastly do you think girls find rly drunk guys unattractive? Or does it not matter if you can still game the same.[/QU

    In most instances you will need to be the one to Isolate.

    Good things to say to get the whole group involved are the same things you would say to a girl to get her involved. Just spread the love. You want the whole group thinking you are a cool guy before you reveal your target. If the other girls see obvious intent before they like you they are much more likely to cockblock.

    I don't think you came game as well drunk. I've never been drunk but I have watched many PUA's and I have never seen one that got better with alcohol, though they may remember it differently. While a couple of drinks might help, the point of diminishing returns usually pops up shortly after two drinks. I think a benefit of being a PUA is that you have a higher degree of awareness with women and alcohol compromises that.

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    Default Re: Solo Clubbing

    Yeah being hit on by a drunk guy is no fun. There's pretty much a 1-to-1 correspondence ratio from how drunk you are to how much of a creep they'll perceive you as. I never have more than 3 drinks if I'm going out hunting.
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