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Thread: Not sure what went wrong

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    Default Not sure what went wrong

    I really don't post all that often, so forgive me if I don't write in the way a normal poster would or whatever.

    Last night I was at this big party with my Rugby team. We were generally getting shitfaced, having a great time. I was dancing with all these girls, and one of emm, this russian girl, easily a 9/10 in anyones book was all over me.

    After a few hours of grinding, drinking and making out, we were about to go upstairs (she lived in the house we were partying in) to fuck when we got invited to smoke some weed with some friends. She immediately said yes, and I followed. We smoked, she and I shotgunned (she inhales from the pipe/bong/joint, and then exhales into my mouth while we kiss) the weed, it was awesome.

    We went up to her room, and at first she was definitely into it, we were making out, I got her naked, and then she started fading fast. I'm not sure if it was the weed or beer or what, but her words started really slurring, and she said she wanted to stop. Being a good guy, I did, and she passed out within minutes.

    I waited a bit to see if she was really out for good, and she was, some idiot downstairs set off this really loud fire alarm and she didn't even notice. I hadn't gotten around to getting her number (we had been literally glued together at the lips for the past 2 hours, hadn't felt like i needed to), so i left her a note saying I had fun, gave her my number, and told her to text/call me.

    I was very clearly in with this chick, she was all over me, giving me all sorts of signals, but once we go to do the deed, she passes out? What did I do wrong/what should I have done differently?

    Also, what should I do now? She hasn't gotten back to me via text, and I don't really know how else to reach her. I liked this girl, for some reason when we were talking I didn't really even have to game her, we ended up talking extensively about shit that interests me, like politics (one of my major fields of study) and she knew her shit and kept up with the conversation, it was really different, but I'd like to see this girl again.

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    Default Re: Not sure what went wrong

    lol you didnt do anything wrong man. you cant fight how a girl is gonna react to alcohol and weed. Obviously if they have too much eventually they're gonna just rack out. And she probly hasnt txted you because she probly doesnt remember much. You shouldve got her number b4 u left hate to say it. Try to ask around your friends to see if they know who the girl is/try to find her around campus and start a convo

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    Default Re: Not sure what went wrong

    I was going to say track her down, even if she doesn't remember. Don't tease her to hard about it though, she is probably feels a bit stupid about it. All she can do is blow you off, but remember if you are going to track her down you have to hold your frame and be direct and confident. You just have to reveal your intentions and hope she goes for it.
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    Default Re: Not sure what went wrong

    BHO said it. Get the number before anything happens that could impare her judgement.

    Its fun to live in the moment but a PUA in my opinion, has strategy. Think about how you would handle it in the future.

    Also, you might go to another party in her house so who knows what will happen?
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    Default Re: Not sure what went wrong

    Thanks for the advice dudes. I found her on facebook, so we'll see if she even remembers me lol.

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    Default Re: Not sure what went wrong

    Sorry for the double post.

    Another thing i was thinking is, in the future, should I have been a bit more aggressive? I knew this chick wanted me, she was all over me. I probably could have gotten away with telling her to take me upstairs earlier than I did, avoiding her getting too drunk/too high to have sex.

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    Default Re: Not sure what went wrong

    Track her down and let her know how you feel bro!!

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    Default Re: Not sure what went wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by carmelon View Post
    Track her down and let her know how you feel bro!!
    ehh, Its not like I'm in love with her, just thought she was a cool person, wouldn't mind seeing her again.

    Definitely not trying to nurse a case of oneitis though


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