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Thread: Day 4 Movie Night and Sexual Escalation

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    Red face Day 4 Movie Night and Sexual Escalation

    This is being written 10 min after having happened to me. So this girl who lives real close had been on that amazing day 2 with. Day 3 we went jogging in the middle of the day. But we both had work.

    THE DATE
    I had her come over to my place for a movie in my room. My dad was home but he didn't mind. The logistics weren't amazing but I knew a place to go if my room wasn't good for the f-close. So I assumed it would go well. I have a couch in my room so we sat on that.

    THE ACTUAL EVENTS

    Now it took a while picking a movie. I Tried to lead by picking a movie but she was so against every one. I finally chose one that I said I knew was funny and we had to watch it. So she immediately got really comfortable with her legs over mine and we had already established a little kissing here and there so I wasn't too worried I just wanted to push harder. A few min into the movie I told her she smelled delicious and I'm sorry to make you miss some of the movie. We made out here and there and after a while it got pretty good her sitting cowgirl style over me she was making out almost forcefully as if she liked being in control. TBH I had no problem as long as it went forward. We got into licking and of the neck and chest. Hands all over. So eventually I got up and locked the door. I pulled her up with a hand and said. "Oh you know what I forgot to tell you, I have the most amazing bed in the world." I threw her on it and started to caveman on top. Kissing her more than before and being more physical. But as soon as I did this she was kissing back but more conserved. I called her out teasing her that she doesnt like losing control. She backed up on the the bed in a more comfortable position as I kept going. Even got her titty out lol.

    WHERE IT WENT BAD

    SO she was questioning me on what I was doing and somehow we were talking about sex, my memory isn't perfect. What I do remember is she asked me straight up if that's what "This was". Jokingly (But truthfully because come on! That's what I want!) I said oh yeah I had it all planned out with a sly smile. Thats when she said "Well, thats my que" and she got up and started to put her sweater on and stuff. She was back on the couch and I was trying hard not to react to show her I cared. I just said stay, watch the movie, scoot over. So I had her watching the movie a little more occasionally easing the tension with jokes and by saying go ahead and relax I dont want anything you dont want. She stayed FIVE more minutes and then wanted to go home. I walked her back and we kissed, ending on a good note it didnt feel awkward. I was kind of Freezing Her Out just not holding her and being less responsive.

    MY THOUGHTS
    Fark guys, so when we sat on the couch I had a huge smile actually. I pushed a girl to actually say no. I showed her I'm not a pussy and established a frame. But The same frame is that I do it when she wants and that is going to hurt. Any thoughts or strategies in line with my situation would be wonderful. I want more situations like this because im not trying to go on more than a few dates to get those lays. I want to get this Mindset early on. Thanks for reading as always. FYI My first field report is also on this girl.

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    Default Re: Day 4 Movie Night and Sexual Escalation

    Oh Grasshopper, you just got so excited you overshot the goal.

    Issue one,: You broke state when you got up to lock the door. It's the same problem getting up to get the condom, take care of all that stuff before she's hot and bothered. I keep condoms in my couch cushions and under my mattresses because breaking state is a huge mistake. When you walk in the room lock the door before the fun begins.

    Issue Two: You felt the hesitation and you continued to push, bad move. Pump the brakes, slow down, tell her that you should stop and as soon as she lets that guard drop a little ramp it up again. You want to keep building that sexual tension until her body to overrides her mind.

    Issue Three: Don't take the talking bait, you will say the wrong thing. Simply smile and go back to the movie or whatever you have to do. What ever you do, don't EVER engage those silly little LMR questions.

    You might also read this, it's truly golden.

    Kino's Tips to Beat LMR.

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    Default Re: Day 4 Movie Night and Sexual Escalation

    Dang man! Thats really Helpful. I laughed reading you have condoms in couch cushions and in the mattress. Do you think ill be good to try again, seeing as I didnt completely scare her off?
    I keep condoms in my couch cushions and under my mattresses because breaking state is a huge mistake

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    Default Re: Day 4 Movie Night and Sexual Escalation

    More than likely, you will get another shot. Good luck

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    Default Re: Day 4 Movie Night and Sexual Escalation

    Lol condoms in cushions......idea stolen I hate getting the condoms out.....they make them so hard to unwrap as well it's like they are trying to kill the mood....so my little tip to avoid the teeth ripping impossible to open issue......nail scissors on the bedside table......saves precious seconds

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Day 4 Movie Night and Sexual Escalation

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Lol condoms in cushions......idea stolen I hate getting the condoms out.....they make them so hard to unwrap as well it's like they are trying to kill the mood....so my little tip to avoid the teeth ripping impossible to open issue......nail scissors on the bedside table......saves precious seconds

    Linking x
    Im going to pre cut all of my condoms and super glue down the tab. lol when the time is right just pull that sh1t off and she'll be like How'd you get that out so fast?


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