This is being written 10 min after having happened to me. So this girl who lives real close had been on that amazing day 2 with. Day 3 we went jogging in the middle of the day. But we both had work.
I had her come over to my place for a movie in my room. My dad was home but he didn't mind. The logistics weren't amazing but I knew a place to go if my room wasn't good for the f-close. So I assumed it would go well. I have a couch in my room so we sat on that.
THE ACTUAL EVENTS
Now it took a while picking a movie. I Tried to lead by picking a movie but she was so against every one. I finally chose one that I said I knew was funny and we had to watch it. So she immediately got really comfortable with her legs over mine and we had already established a little kissing here and there so I wasn't too worried I just wanted to push harder. A few min into the movie I told her she smelled delicious and I'm sorry to make you miss some of the movie. We made out here and there and after a while it got pretty good her sitting cowgirl style over me she was making out almost forcefully as if she liked being in control. TBH I had no problem as long as it went forward. We got into licking and of the neck and chest. Hands all over. So eventually I got up and locked the door. I pulled her up with a hand and said. "Oh you know what I forgot to tell you, I have the most amazing bed in the world." I threw her on it and started to caveman on top. Kissing her more than before and being more physical. But as soon as I did this she was kissing back but more conserved. I called her out teasing her that she doesnt like losing control. She backed up on the the bed in a more comfortable position as I kept going. Even got her titty out lol.
WHERE IT WENT BAD
SO she was questioning me on what I was doing and somehow we were talking about sex, my memory isn't perfect. What I do remember is she asked me straight up if that's what "This was". Jokingly (But truthfully because come on! That's what I want!) I said oh yeah I had it all planned out with a sly smile. Thats when she said "Well, thats my que" and she got up and started to put her sweater on and stuff. She was back on the couch and I was trying hard not to react to show her I cared. I just said stay, watch the movie, scoot over. So I had her watching the movie a little more occasionally easing the tension with jokes and by saying go ahead and relax I dont want anything you dont want. She stayed FIVE more minutes and then wanted to go home. I walked her back and we kissed, ending on a good note it didnt feel awkward. I was kind of Freezing Her Out just not holding her and being less responsive.
Fark guys, so when we sat on the couch I had a huge smile actually. I pushed a girl to actually say no. I showed her I'm not a pussy and established a frame. But The same frame is that I do it when she wants and that is going to hurt. Any thoughts or strategies in line with my situation would be wonderful. I want more situations like this because im not trying to go on more than a few dates to get those lays. I want to get this Mindset early on. Thanks for reading as always. FYI My first field report is also on this girl.