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    pragcharm Guest

    Default What happened to the waitress??

    Tonight we went to a local pub in my city. There was a cute waitress, and we started teasing her, asking her her opinion in our conversations and telling her that it was a pity that she couldn't join us for a drink. She seemed pretty receptive and she often teased us too. When we were getting out I just said: " What can we do so next time you can join us for a drink?"...expecting her to say something like here is my number or something, but she just said: "we will probably meet again some day".....a totally blow off. I don't konw what realy happened...What did I do wrong, or what do you have to do in these cases??

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    Quote Originally Posted by pragcharm View Post
    she just said: "we will probably meet again some day".....a totally blow off. I don't konw what realy happened...What did I do wrong, or what do you have to do in these cases??
    That was SOOOO not a total blow off! She is saying that she likes you and is sure that you will meet again. That is a great sign. Get out of your head and into the game. She was digging it.

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    I agree with Her Fantasy...

    be optimistic.. she has just say Ļ game meĻ in other words..

    So, what do you know now? Her name,?
    Certainly now where she works at... so if I were you, I will go to this same bar, some other day, maybe Monday or Tuesday when its not crowded and star gaming her... donīt go with a bunch of buddies cyz she might feel overwhelmed and lay back...


    just go there with a friend of yours, maybe even a chick... and let it flow.. it will.

    give us an update.

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    The whole, "we will probably meet again some day" is her normal response to guys hitting on her. Remember, she is a waitress and hit on continuously. I think your question "What can we do so next time you can join us for a drink?" devalued you and made it seem like you were willing to do something for her to get her to hang out with you. That immediately places her subconsciously on a level above you (remember, she is a waitress so she already has the power). Instead, you should come from the frame of - we just made this waitresses evening soo much better than the normal schmucks in here asking her out (which is kinda what you did - no offense).

    Try to find a way to bring her value and let her know by you not being there, she is not going to have as much fun. Maybe as you walk out be very direct and say - "It was great having you as a waitress - it's hard to find someone as sexy and fun as you nowadays". Basically you are telling her that you dig her style and she is good enough to fit in with you and your crowd. THEN come back on another night alone when it is slow and she is working. She will naturally want to come hang out with you since you are so interesting and direct and confident.

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    So whats up? Have you been back yet?

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    Be funny make her laugh, share a story that shows value to yourself , and then tell her " I love your positive energy you seem like a down to earth girl how do we keep in touch so we can kick it sometime as friends don't get any ideas " boom she'll give you her number...try to give her a funny nickname of some sort and tell her that you're labeling her number as that in your phone so next time you text her you can text her with that funny nickname and that would trigger that fun she had while talking to you. (let me know if this works for ya)

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    Quote Originally Posted by LUcky_strike View Post
    Be funny make her laugh, share a story that shows value to yourself , and then tell her " I love your positive energy you seem like a down to earth girl how do we keep in touch so we can kick it sometime as friends don't get any ideas " boom
    This is great, bring her energy up and then give her credit for it. This sort of compliment is good because are saying you are attracted to something besides her looks/body.

    try to give her a funny nickname of some sort and tell her that you're labeling her number as that in your phone
    Another fantastic idea. I always give girls I am dating or flirting with nick names. It is a playful way of bonding with them. For some reason girls LOVE to have their own cute little nickname, especially if it is teasing them in some way.


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