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Thread: Hooked up with friend. Now she won't talk to me.

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    Default Hooked up with friend. Now she won't talk to me.

    Had some drinks with her and got back to my place. We hooked up and now she won't return any of my texts or e-mails.

    I had a thing for her in the beginning, but got friend zoned. I sort of wanted to just keep her as a friend, but had the urge to make a move on her. We hooked up and now I don't even think we're friends anymore.

    Anyone have any similar experiences? Or advice? I really miss this friend of mine.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with friend. Now she won't talk to me.

    We can't really help unless you tell us what happend.

    Its like calling calling 911, saying: I need help at my house and hang up. Tell us what happended.
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    Default Re: Hooked up with friend. Now she won't talk to me.

    She was at my place and I kissed her. She pushed me away and said that we're going to mess up our friendship. I told her yeah it would, and kept kissing her. She started to kiss me back and etc.

    When she left, she had this sad look on her eyes like it was the last time we were going to see each other again.

    I called her the next day and she seemed mad and cut the conversation and hung up.

    A week later I text her and she doesn't respond. Waited another week and she still doesn't respond. Wrote her an apology letter and she's completely ignoring me.

    I feel like shit.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with friend. Now she won't talk to me.

    Basicly she gave you an LMR. (Last Minute Resistance) Do you really think a girl who's attracted to you come to your house in the first place ? The fact you agreed is kind of lame, no offence. I have a hard time getting chicks to my place since I'm still young and live with the family but the time I did, she gave me LMR, I didn't agree I just said I understand, backed up a bit and stared at her. She's the one who continued. What I do when kissing is that I pull out. Giving her the idea I'm not into it. Damn does it gets them going lool.

    Basicly she did it to not feel bad about herself, think about it. She's at a friend's house, a friend she go out with kissing, she'll feel slutty at some point.

    If you felt she was mad, she was. Now the only thing you can really do is back out and wait. Wait for an other opportunity because if she was attracted once, she'll be attracted again. Please don't be that needy guy chasing after her ass to get her back. Friends come and go and that's a fact. Coffins are 1 seats anyways, right?

    Ease off and game other people, that's an issue you face when you hook up with friends, if you don't know what you're doing. Those kind of things happend.


    Here, I have this friend I'm going to the movies with, she's attracted to me and I know it and she told me she go to praying again and all. If I get to her place and I get LMR, I know what to say ''I understand, I know you've told me you've changed'' I'd back up and wait for her cause she'll be thinking ''Wow did he just.. Noo.. What!?'' She still would want to kiss kna' mean. Same goes with your girl, she said it'll fuck it up but she kept going. If you would of ejected you'd be fine in my opinion.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with friend. Now she won't talk to me.

    Ok. First off when she said it would mess up our friendship I would have said "If that's how you feel lets not do anything". Then acted like I didn't give two shits if we hooked up or not. Continue to Kino and if she doesn't instigate again (usually she will, especially if you get her worked up enough with kino) then you do after a short while.

    You should have never wrote her an apology letter. You just admitted that what you did was wrong and it wasn't. Woman enjoy sex just as much as men (In my opinion more). You did nothing wrong and shouldn't apologize for it.

    I've been in this situation multiple times. Every friend I have that's a girl wants me, even if I don't. I end up getting drunk and farking their brains out. If they get distant I let them, because I really don't care. They ALWAYS come back. If they act all b*tchy I act the same way I always do and did before we hooked up. They get over it eventually and we continue to hook up. Give her space...wait for her to contact you even if it takes a month. That's the best route for you right now.

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    Default Re: Hooked up with friend. Now she won't talk to me.

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Ok. First off when she said it would mess up our friendship I would have said "If that's how you feel lets not do anything". Then acted like I didn't give two sh1ts if we hooked up or not. Continue to Kino and if she doesn't instigate again (usually she will, especially if you get her worked up enough with kino) then you do after a short while.

    You should have never wrote her an apology letter. You just admitted that what you did was wrong and it wasn't. Woman enjoy sex just as much as men (In my opinion more). You did nothing wrong and shouldn't apologize for it.

    I've been in this situation multiple times. Every friend I have that's a girl wants me, even if I don't. I end up getting drunk and farking their brains out. If they get distant I let them, because I really don't care. They ALWAYS come back. If they act all b*tchy I act the same way I always do and did before we hooked up. They get over it eventually and we continue to hook up. Give her space...wait for her to contact you even if it takes a month. That's the best route for you right now.

    I pulled some chump shit and text her multiple times and that apology letter mentioned earlier. I never do this, but I didn't want her to feel used. Now I know for next time. Thanks bro.


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