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    luckoftheirish54 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Number closed and set up a date with Bartender. End goal to F-close.

    Met, number closed, date 1 set up, and short term end goal is to f-close. Long term or maybe something more...but not sure...I'm enjoying learning about being a PUA.

    First few interactions with her linked below:

    http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...bartender.html

    The above link ended on Friday. This is what has happened since.

    A few friends wanted me to go to a bar with some live music, but I didn't like the way I left things with the bartender. AFC anxiety at it's finest. So, I walk into the bar that the bartender works at, I take a seat at the bar, paying attention to my phone and not the bartender (was trying to distract myself from doing AFC stuff like paying attention to the bartender instead of her paying attention to me). I laid my debit card on the bar top and just kept paying attention to my phone. A few mins goes by and she shows up to my spot with the type of beer I usually drink. I look up from my phone, smile, and say "Thanks"...and then go back to my phone, fake laughing at the convo I'm having.

    I finished up the beer, and she's about to pour another one for me, but I wave her off and say "Can I pay for my tab?". She hands me my card and the receipt to sign...and her number is at the bottom of the receipt. She tells me that in the hustle and bustle of working the bar...she lost the paper with my number on it.

    *Advice needed* - Hopefully not over-thinking it...but I was thinking that the fact she was ready with another beer before I had gotten her attention was a sign she was paying attention to me. Would this be a correct assumption?

    Anyways, onto Sunday. I texted her the following convo (I couldn't read the last digit of her number, so I ended up texting a bunch of people...which made my first text lame and not ideal) :

    Me: Hey whats up...is this HB8?
    Her: Yes
    Me: Haha, OK, It's Justin...I couldn't read the last digit of your number
    Her: Sorry

    *Right now I'm thinking, great...one word answers...fml. I decide to try to do something about that*

    Me: Pfffttt, did you just say sorry? I thought you were more badass than that? Haha, just don't let it happen again!
    Her: Lmao, I'm not a badass
    Me: Could have fooled me! Especially with all those tats...wait...I bet you cried when you got them...such a big wuss!

    *This goes on for a bit...me making fun of her and her making fun of me*

    Her: I'm not sure you can handle me

    *Now I'm thinking that maybe do a little sexual escalation...nothing too serious though*

    Me: Pfftt..I don't even know you that well and you're already thinking about me handling you! SMH..haha!
    Her: Wow, I guess that kind of sounds dirty, I forgot I was talking to a guy

    *Now I'm thinking...frakkk... I might have gone too far too soon*

    Me: Dammmn, did you just subtly call me a girl?
    Her: Lol

    *STUPID ONE WORD ANSWERS AGAIN!!! !@#%$* lol

    Me: And now you're laughing about it! Tell ya what, you can make it up to me by going to the F**** B*** (Comedy club) with me on Weds or Thurs night.
    Her: Oh really? whose going to be there? n e one good?
    Me: Blah blah blah

    *At this point she hasnt said yes, and we started talking about the comedians we like. The convo kinda stopped for about 30 mins. I was waiting for her to say yes or no. Wasn't getting a response, so I made up my mind*

    Me: Ok..Thurs @730, comedian blah blah...Sound good? You better be ready to laugh!
    Her: That works
    Me: Well as awesome as our playful bantering has been...Ive got to get back to studying. This stuff never stops. Feel free to text me...my brain might need a break...ttyl

    *I didnt really need to study...I just wanted to end the convo on my terms*

    Her: What are you studying for?

    After about an hour I respond and I tell her what I'm "studying"...and say tell me a joke...seeing if maybe the convo might get started back up on a different topic.

    Her: lol...I dont know any
    Me: Well atleast you didnt say go look in the mirror! So...tell me some more about your tats

    She hasn't texted me since....I texted her a little while ago...saying:

    Me: If it storms here...I'm so doing the Lt. Dan thing and going up on the roof hootin and hollerin...you should join me!


    Still no response with that...so...now I have a date set up with her, she might be busy today, not sure...hoping I didnt screw up anything. I'm thinking dont text her anymore today...then tomorrow give her a call?

    What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Number closed and set up a date with Bartender. End goal to F-close.

    I don't know man sounds like a challenge. I have a hard time converting N-closes to F-closes, just saying.

    But other than that I would say it would be extremely hard to N-close a Bartender and that's the only way to close them (no way to K-close or F-close those) so you did very good there on that part. So you took the only route you can take.

    Just keep staying Alpha all the way and try to keep us up to date on how this one goes down.

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    luckoftheirish54 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Number closed and set up a date with Bartender. End goal to F-close.

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjon View Post

    Just keep staying Alpha all the way and try to keep us up to date on how this one goes down.

    Most definitely! I'm going to be spending the next 3 days just reading this forum...trying to soak as much info in as I can. Depending on how Thursday goes...I might be able to K-close her. I'm too much of a noob to be able to f-close her....although...st ranger things have happened to me when it comes to women.

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    luckoftheirish54 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Number closed and set up a date with Bartender. End goal to F-close.

    And to anyone...please critique me...and maybe throw some helpful things to do...or even better...point me in the direction of articles to read for this particular situation.....I'm to the point where I'm slightly lost with all the material available.

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    Default Re: Number closed and set up a date with Bartender. End goal to F-close.

    I think you've done pretty well so far bro. Just remember not to over text her. Like you set up the date, and then ended the convo which is a good move. But then you tried to start up another convo later which she didn't reply to. I would'nt have done that - it speaks of neediness.
    I would've ended it and left it for a few days, not even replied at all to when she asked "What are you studying for?"
    Then after a few days texted or even better, called her, for a quick fun chat and to confirm she's still on for the date.


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