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    Default Long day together

    I met this french girl which arrived in London a month ago in a english conversation group. I pick her nr and asked her out. We spent the whole Saturday together from 1pm to 2am together.

    I took her throughout a market, then pub, had few beers, had dinner together. After this my flatmate (which was studying pua material for a long time) wanted to go out with me. I invited her to join us. (I thought he could help me out to raise the sexual escalation).

    I brought her to my place, we had a bit of wine and a few shots. Then we hit the club. I really tried to sexual escalate the thing so I could kiss her. It simply didn't happen. I felt a bit that she was a bit bored in the disco and saw her taking a look a few times at the watch for a few moments. I tried dancing more and more with her to see if helps. She didn't look more into her watch and we danced closely. I tried keeping eye contact but she would not make eye contact with me.

    At some point she said she was tired and we left, she to her place and me back to mine.
    I simply don't know what I did wrong.

    Any clues how I could have escalated at the disco?

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    Default Re: Long day together

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny-ist-ein-Depp View Post
    She didn't look more into her watch and we danced closely.
    That was your cue right there - dancing closely. She didn't keep eye contact probably because she was shy. You should have just kissed her right there. It's ok, a lot guys wait for the "moment" to happen on its own. That's BS -YOU MAKE THE MOMENT HAPPEN. Don't stress it; you'll get 'em next time
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    That was your cue right there - dancing closely. She didn't keep eye contact probably because she was shy. You should have just kissed her right there. It's ok, a lot guys wait for the "moment" to happen on its own. That's BS -YOU MAKE THE MOMENT HAPPEN. Don't stress it; you'll get 'em next time
    I kind of tried. At some point I tried put my fingers under her chin to gently raise her head to kiss her and she kind of took my hand way.

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    Default Re: Long day together

    How was your body language? Did you seem hesitant as you did it?

    It could also be that she just didn't want it. PUA is all numbers. You can do everything right, but that doesn't guarantee success because it also depends on the girl. Your chances skyrocket, but that's about it.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Long day together

    I can't really tell about the body language. I'm not very much into dancing in clubs. I didn't have the highest energy but was playing along. I just think that I didn't manage to escalate the sexual vibe to the point of her wanting to kiss me. What can I do to escalate?

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    Default Re: Long day together

    Ah, I think that you weren't comfortable enough because you're not into the club scene and she noticed that you were off. (Why'd you take her to a club, then? O_o)

    If you're gonna escalate, you have to be in an environment where you're both comfortable, not just her or you. Start with hugs, arms over the shoulder, holding hands, etc. Dancing is great, but only if it's your thing. I, for example, suck, therefore, I don't do clubs nor dance game.

    Eye contact is a great way to build Tension. If she keeps avoiding your eyes, tell her she has interesting eyes and when she looks away, gently position her face so she looks at you. Triangle gaze and smoooooooch.
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    Default Re: Long day together

    yeah, it was the brilliant idea of my 'pua' friend.

    Question now if I can save myself from this mess. I feel that I will have to build up this from the start.


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