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Thread: Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

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    Default Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

    So, I've been posting a lot on trying to get with a bartender. I did a lot of reading, taking notes...etc.

    I don't think anything that I was reading was sinking in....until I read a post from Cody. I forget exactly what he said, but he was bitching about guys with oneitis...and how they come on to the forums for situational "learning", not to improve their game. There were a few other PUA's that had said similar things.

    So, this past Thursday, I had a "date" with a bartender to a comedy club (I'm going to be putting up a field report on that later). I finnnnnallly realized that I had oneitis with this chick. I had put her on a pedestal. I did some thinking, about where I wanted to go with my training, and said fark it. I WANT...to be a PUA. I WANT to be one of those guys everyone here goes to for advice.

    So I went out with the intention of kiss closing or fark closing a girl. Now, I've been with over 100 girls...but some were definitely NOT quality, and a lot of those were because we had mutual friends. What I'm getting at is...I've NEVER brought home a girl from the bar/club for a one night stand.

    So, I went to a bar...as soon as I walked in I made sure I had a smile on my face. Was also puffing out my muscles (I'm a power lifter...so I have some guns...lol). Looked around, wasn't much selection, so I decided it was gonna be a pregame bar. Walked up to the bar, smiled at some of the ladies there, I had walked right by them...within arms reach, and ordered the beer. As I was walking away from the bar, I heard "Dammmn he's hot".

    I gotta admit guys...that sh1t is addicting. To hear that, to know you're hot, and then have the chick confirm it...dayum. Anyways..

    Played some pool, and kept hearing comments from this MILF to the bartender about how I was hot...and was I single...blah blah blah. So, I went to get another beer, and this time turned around, smiled at her, and then started up a convo with her friend(M1).
    (Line represents the bar, X = me)
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    X M1 M2

    Basically, I wanted to win M1 over, because she was the ride for the night. I accomplished that, and M2 was practically reaching over her friend to get my attention. M1, got up to do something...so I took her place and started chatting up M2. I started going Kino right away. First, holding out my hand and letting her put hers in mine, and I started commenting on her rings (not marriage rings). We started talking about that...then started talking about a few other things. Kino escalated with her always touching my arms...admiring my tats...etc. I kept leaning back a bit, and she would lean forward, so I would lean forward...push pull method.

    Anyways, I paid my tab early, just to make it look like I was leaving, and she started talking to her friend about how she wanted to stay out and drink. Blah blah blah...we ended up going to another bar. Before we pulled into the 2nd bar...she leaned over and kissed me...like...full on making out. Now this...is where I'm slightly disappointed in myself. I usually make fun of people that are making out at the bar...but we started kissing there. The bar was pretty empty...so there was maybe 3 people there. But still...I shouldn't have done it there...I had already made out with her in my car, I should have made her wait.

    After all of that, I suggested we go back to my place, have a few more beers there. We got to my place, and she got tired. Yes...she...got...fa rkin...tired. I'm thinkin to myself...wtf! So we laid in bed, and started fooling around, but she kept saying she was tired. So I told her...it's ok...I understand. This happened a few more times...and we went a little further...but just ended up falling asleep.

    Ohhhh the shame. lol...but, I redeemed myself in the morning. So...

    I FINNNNALLLLYYYY had my first go-to-the-bar-and-have-a-one-night-stand.



    Lessons taken from this encounter:

    1 - I need to learn more about LMR.

    2 - I need to get better with drinking(I know my limit...but I got excited that this sh1t was happening), and not making dumb choices like making out at the bar.

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    Default Re: Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

    Huh interesting. I am a powerlifter too, but as far as pickup goes I am still AFC, though I have been making progress. Over 100 girls? Wow that is impressive (or maybe I'm just sheltered lol).

    So you got laid in the morning? Good work. It reminds me of a run in I had with a MILF at a bowling alley on my 21st birthday (which was a few years ago). I don't know if it is common with cougars, but that chick was really aggressive as far as touching goes. Too bad I wasn't aware of pickup at the time, that would have been an easy f-close haha.

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    Default Re: Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

    Quote Originally Posted by Loudou View Post
    Huh interesting. I am a powerlifter too, but as far as pickup goes I am still AFC, though I have been making progress. Over 100 girls? Wow that is impressive (or maybe I'm just sheltered lol).

    So you got laid in the morning? Good work. It reminds me of a run in I had with a MILF at a bowling alley on my 21st birthday (which was a few years ago). I don't know if it is common with cougars, but that chick was really aggressive as far as touching goes. Too bad I wasn't aware of pickup at the time, that would have been an easy f-close haha.

    Yea, I've been doing some programs like Stronglifts and Starting Strength. It's been helping me with weight and getting my body more muscular.

    Hahaha, yea I know...last count it was at a little over 100...but like I said...a lot of that has to do with who I know...and they weren't all quality women. Hence why I want to be a PUA. I want quality...not quantity.

    I did notice her being very aggressive. She was 42. I'm about to be 31...so there wasn't too much of an age difference...but yea...she definitely knew what she wanted and wasn't afraid to show it. I think that helped me out quite a bit to be honest. I'm hopeful I'll get a f-close again...but I doubt I will...only because it's not what I want. I want to be able to go on a date, see if they're worth anything, and have 2-3 women that I'm with.

    Even though you say you're an AFC...got any words of wisdom or advice?

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    Default Re: Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

    Quote Originally Posted by Loudou View Post
    Huh interesting. I am a powerlifter too, but as far as pickup goes I am still AFC, though I have been making progress. Over 100 girls? Wow that is impressive (or maybe I'm just sheltered lol).

    So you got laid in the morning? Good work. It reminds me of a run in I had with a MILF at a bowling alley on my 21st birthday (which was a few years ago). I don't know if it is common with cougars, but that chick was really aggressive as far as touching goes. Too bad I wasn't aware of pickup at the time, that would have been an easy f-close haha.
    You guys are funny, cougars will practically rape you. It's ironic that I use the word cougar being that I'm 38. I honestly can't imagine dating a woman my age.

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    Default Re: Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

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    Lessons taken from this encounter:

    1 - I need to learn more about LMR.

    2 - I need to get better with drinking(I know my limit...but I got excited that this sh1t was happening), and not making dumb choices like making out at the bar.[/QUOTE

    LMR tends to be a case by case basis.

    That being said its a fine balance between insisting on seducing her, and respecting her compliance level, and you found that balance.

    I know its crazy, but I've choosen to eliminate drinking at the bar/most venues...

    Extreme to sum, and not for everyone, but its really improved on my game.

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    Default Re: Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

    Would you say drinking makes a difference? I actually prefer not to drink because I get sick easily from it and it makes me sleepy. However, when it's noticed I am not drinking I haven't been able to figure out how to respond that doesn't make me seem like wimp or nerd.

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    Default Re: Bar, MILF, F-Close...the beginnings of a PUA

    Have the bartender make you a virgin rum n coke. This way it looks like you're drinking...no one can tell that you aren't...and if someone asks you what you're drinking...lie. I know I know...genius (Not making fun of you)!! Hahaha.

    I'm sure someone on here would know of a witty retort to say back. Something along the lines of "I don't need to drink to be awesome"...or something like that. I usually do the whole cocky funny routine...so acting like a dork (which I really am...so it's natural) and responding like a dork makes the ladies laugh. Basically...I'm cocky...but hey...I have a fun and interesting side and Im not so arrogant that I cant make fun of myself.


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