I went to a bar tonight met an HB7-8 and made good conversation with her.
Now, after a while I got a little nervous and started saying some slightly wild things. Now these are things that would have gone well with guys, but with a girl it was a bit excessive.
The question that I have is as follows, are there any simple rules or guidelines out there to calibrate how comfortable you can start feeling with a girl... I find it to be a tricky balancing game, if I am too cautious, I come off as standoffish, otherwise I come off as too enthusiastic.
Anyone have any advice on calibration?