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Thread: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    Keep us posted man, but no matter how good your meetup goes. Keep talking to other women. Avoid oneitis. Postpone falling in love until it's too late lol

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    Keep us posted man, but no matter how good your meetup goes. Keep talking to other women. Avoid oneitis. Postpone falling in love until it's too late lol
    First of all, I wanted to tell everyone that I appreciate all the support. No one else knows how to play this because they don't have the knowledge we do. I decided to go back to the freezeout plan. Two weeks, starting from last Wednesday. As for new business, I went home to see old friends this weekend and got wasted to clear my head and I feel better. And so, I took your guys' advice. I got a dozen new numbers off OKCupid whenever I wasn't hanging out with friends and family. I'm texting them all, playing it fast and loose just like I like. I'm going away for a month so by the time I come back, I hope at least a couple of them are begging for it. In the meantime, I have a couple dates with exes from high school when I go back home. Make no mistake, I still like this other girl but this is how I deal with my emotions. I'll keep you guys posted.

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    Hey partner yeah its tough, and your game seems fine but they/ladies may not always reciprocate.

    Who knows maybe shes doing other work on OKcupid now? Best to put her on the back burner, or maybe back on the shelf and focus your effort elsewhere.

    And I was in the same boat and had interesting results. Had a list of girls I was actively talking with...hollared at this one beauty...did amazing well initially and she was acting sort of like your girl was, just in and out of contact. Basically did all I could. I forced on it to move from texting to calling(calling>text ing in terms of gaming, but you dont have as much to think..ah well). Well I was starting to see negative progress so I tossed her number. Like 5 days later or so I get a call from her...and it was a "whole new ball game".

    Then came to find out, although she hinted at it and never admitted it, she was hiding my contact with her from her parents cause they were overbearing(was the truth, her dad was farking nutz).We'd talk at what I called "window hours" typical blocks of time when she had her privacy, typically late at night. Sit there listening to her talk, ::in the background:: Is that a car going by? Do I hear crickets, Where the hell are you? Oh im outside my house sitting in my car in the drive way.....Ahhhh I wonder why? So sometimes theres more to it then meets the eye....

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    Then came to find out, although she hinted at it and never admitted it, she was hiding my contact with her from her parents cause they were overbearing(was the truth). So sometimes theres more to it then meets the eye....
    Very valid point. It's something that can't be stressed enough. We so many times try to force rejection when a situation seems to be going south. I like to say, "always give her the benefit of the doubt unless she gives you a reason not too." As hard as it may seem, not everyone can go through with plans that they may have set. Doesn't mean you got rejected or shes lying.

    Anyway, good stuff Urban. Keep on gaming. Like the Dos Equis guy says, "Stay thirsty my friends."


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