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Thread: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

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    Default FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    I had been talking to this HB8 off OKCupid for a while and I got her to come over Monday night. The short version is, we drank some moscato and smoked some weed together and we smoked a little more once we went inside on my loveseat, one thing led to another and we ended up fucking. So, we hooked up but the truth is, I'm not sure I got her off until I went down on her and I think that bothered her. Like, we hooked up, fell asleep together, then hooked up some more. I came after a couple minutes And then couldn't get it up the rest of the night. Then she left at like 5 AM but she seemed happy. So I texted her the next day and she was kinda in and out and then she stopped replying.
    Conversation went as follows:
    Me: Hey, how'd you sleep? You looked so beautiful last night and you were amazing in bed.
    HB8: Hey good, I just got up 10 min ago and awe haha thank you
    Me: Haha, me too. I ate breakfast at like 5 and woke up at noon lol.
    HB8: Haha I'm going back to sleep soon I just finished eating and knocking out
    Me:Shit, I have to study for my exam tomorrow since someone kept me up all night
    Her: Lol not my fault!
    Me; You should've stayed here last night. It's raining and I just wanna lay in bed all day.
    HB8: Sorry I knocked out.
    Me: It's cool. I went to the gas station to get junk food and started studying
    That was at 4.
    Eventually she Snapchats me like around midnight. I Snapchat her back we text a little, and she stops replying again so I say I'm going to bed. Then she Snapchats me a pic of her lunch the next day (we had talked about cooking together a few days ago), I Snapchat her back like 6 hours later when I saw it, she opens it and no reply. It's weird and I don't know where her head is. I just texted her to try and have a conversation, see where it goes, and maybe actually ask her to go do something this weekend. I have a couple more on deck but I really like this one and think she's GF material.

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    Bump, guys. Plus 30 characters.

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    To me it seems like she likes you. So how long has it been since you've heard of her?

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    We've been texting everyday, just not very much. Yesterday, she said she's been taking "resting days" so she hasn't been replying to anyone very much and then I texted her this morning and we've talked a little. She said her phone's fucking up and it's been known to happen. I'm asking her out to go bowling this weekend.

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    So, I wanted to bump this and also update. I texted her last night to ask her about doing something this weekend
    and no reply again when I texted her this morning. It's making me sad but whatever. I'm gonna freeze her out for 3 or 4 days unless I hear from her. Hopefully this will get her somewhat interested again but I don't like my odds. In the meanwhile, I'm taking any and all suggestions. I'm hoping some of the more skilled guys on here see this and wanna help.

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    While not skilled, I've recently had some of the same issues. I usually give them 2 texts, and if they don't reply, delete the number. If you can, maybe reengage her a month down the line. If she goes out, try to see if you can be at the same bar she's at.

    In all honesty...forget about her. There are other women out there, and if she can't be bothered to go after an awesome dude like you....why chase her?

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    While I appreciate your effort, it was an answer to a question I didn't ask.

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    Don't get oneitis. Text her casually. If you feel like she just isn't responding, just move on to another. Soo many women out there just waiting to meet ya mate. Also have you tried calling? Calling her will catch her off guard. If she doesnt answer leave a voicemail, women appreciate that.

    Good luck and cheers.
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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    I wasn't going to post anything else but after seeing all the support, I thought I'd update you guys. She actually texted me yesterday like "Myname!!" and when I replied, she explained that her phone had been broken and that's why she hadn't been around. Anyway, we made tenative plans a week and a half ago or so to spend May 10th-13th together while her Mom is outta town and I doubt she forgot about that. So, I'm hopeful now. I'll let you know what happens next if you guys want. Urbancowboy out!

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    Default Re: FR: F-Closed HB from OKCupid and Now Being Ignored...Help

    I had similar experiences, us guys tend to fall in love with the good pussy too soon and have a tendency to start over texting her. YOu getting a lil too lovey dovey with her from some of the texts I read, seems like you are kinda starting to lower your value a lil bit with over texting, Ignore her for a couple of days see if she texts you. Then come back with some fresh shit, if shes still being standoffish might be time to let her go


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