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    Default Didn't go for the pull, left too early, ruined wing chances. Give me feed

    BACKGROUND:
    A friend I was with earlier in the evening calls me at around 3PM to join the group he was in.
    The "other girl" wasn't too bad so I went.
    He was with 2 girls and a guy who was half sleeping (let's not count him).

    1st CLUB
    I quickly had "my girl" sit close to me and start a good conversation with some Kino.
    Since it was late, it was going good and she was drunk, I would have normally gone for the pull once out of the bar, but since I didn't want to leave this friend stuck with the other girl and a guy, I went after him to another club.
    Notice:
    Out of the bar another girl asked me to join her and her friends (it never happens to me, but just this night I couldn't... ), she was cuter and I would gone if I were alone, but I didn't want to leave my good friend.


    2nd CLUB
    In the other club my girl went to the dance floor and came back that she was talking with a huge guy and she went to sit with him. She then came back, only to leave again with him once he invited her. In both occasions they were in front of us, nothing was happening, but to me it clearly meant she was really into him.

    I didn't like her too much, but I would have done her.
    I felt I had lost my window of opportunity and also lost my hedge by having lost my good mood: I had an option with a cuter girl in the first bar, I would have gone for the pull earlier, I wasn't drunk and I was tired... Basically, I was stuck in a situation where I wasn't behaving like I normally would.
    Now I was also being constantly shown in my face how that guy was filching "my girl".
    So I left soon afterwards in spite of my friend strongly insisting for me to stay.

    WHAT HAPPENED
    An hour later or so my friend tells me to join them for breakfast, but I get there too late. The girls had already left.
    "my girl" didn't go with the big guy from the 2nd club and my friend tells me I've done a huge mistake leaving because after a whole night together, he was really close to the other girl and my girl wouldn't have left what was now "our group" to go with a stranger.

    He was actually right.
    The 2 girls and the sleepy guy left all together and nothing happened.
    Not even my friend.
    And very possibly, also because of my fark up of leaving too early and, what I really regret, not following my own instinct and agreeing to go the second club against my will.

    LESSONS LEARNED
    1. take your chances by being bold (girl asking me to join her group after 1st club, I should have told her "I like you, but I want to be alone with you", just to try it..)
    2. don't guest stuck in situations you don't like because you will lose your mood and do badly(agreeing to go to 2nd club)
    most of all:
    3.
    Friends are friends, but don’t get drawn in their own pick-ups losing track of what you feel like:
    follow YOUR game!


    YOUR FEED PLEASE
    -Was I guilty for having ruined my friend's chances?

    -Was my friend right in telling me to stay? In the end he was right, but the girl was being moved around by the big muscle guy, why should I have stayed there feeling bad about it and partially disrespected by her?

    -What do you think about this?

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    Default Re: Didn't go for the pull, left too early, ruined wing chances. Give me fe

    Bad nights happen, learn from them and apply those lessons to make more good nights of gaming. Find your sticking points look them up and figure out where to improve.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: Didn't go for the pull, left too early, ruined wing chances. Give me fe

    I don't know how close are you to your friend, but IMO, you two should have worked together. Your friend can very well be your best wingman. He looked out for you by bringing you into the set, and apparently had a plan for you two to get laid.

    I personally would have had a few drinks to relax and lighten up, I would have plotted a plan of action and then work together with him.

    Regard to the big guy, in those situations I go and look at other girls in the club, let it be known that I'm not just sitting down, waiting for her, that I'm social, that I have value and that she's missing a great time with me. By just sitting there waiting you're dlv for yourself

    Personally, I met the girl i'm currently sexing on an average night that I went out with my friend. I saw he was into the other girl, so I put in the good word for him, as he did for me. He's not my Wingman, but we still pulled it off.
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    Default Re: Didn't go for the pull, left too early, ruined wing chances. Give me fe

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Bad nights happen, learn from them and apply those lessons to make more good nights of gaming. Find your sticking points look them up and figure out where to improve.
    Yes indeed, thanks .

    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheep View Post
    I don't know how close are you to your friend, but IMO, you two should have worked together. Your friend can very well be your best wingman. He looked out for you by bringing you into the set, and apparently had a plan for you two to get laid.

    I personally would have had a few drinks to relax and lighten up, I would have plotted a plan of action and then work together with him.

    Regard to the big guy, in those situations I go and look at other girls in the club, let it be known that I'm not just sitting down, waiting for her, that I'm social, that I have value and that she's missing a great time with me. By just sitting there waiting you're dlv for yourself

    Personally, I met the girl i'm currently sexing on an average night that I went out with my friend. I saw he was into the other girl, so I put in the good word for him, as he did for me. He's not my Wingman, but we still pulled it off.
    He's a close friend, and a great wingman who really helps you out and is happy to seeing you succeed.

    Agree on your approach. It was around 6 though, the club was getting empty and the big guy was a DJ there.

    I mean, if I had been alone I would have behaved different from earlier on and at point would have left anyway, either to pursue other girls (not in that case) or to go home (in that case), I didn't care that much about that girl and I'm not waiting there while she minds her business.
    It was different here though, as I should have stayed just for my pal and avoided to take it too personally. I guess that was what bothered me, after a whole night chasing I messed it up for him as well.


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