BlackSheep Report 2 - Salsa Night & Emergency advice
BlackSheep here with a quick report, and in need of emergency advice
Ta make a story short, I go Salsa dancing most Tuesdays at a local club. I'm actually pretty popular there, I'm a teacher, most of the girls know me (including her) and want to dance with me or want me to teach them, I just never know how to work that popularity in my favor
She came up to me and asked to dance, and I said "Finally you're free" (which is the reverse scenario because I was the one dancing non-stop) Anyways, after we danced to one of the last songs, we continued talking, I naturally added kino on her lower back and thigh (very common for me now) and I noticed some ioi's, and later proceeded to casually ask her if we could meet for a drink, she agreed.
Later I walked her to her car and this tall drunk bum came asking for money. I stepped between him and her (as a way to defend her) and politely said to the guy "Sorry bro, we don't have our wallets, maybe next time", which I think showed dhv and perhaps bravery and confidence.
Anyways, walked her to her car, chatted for a bit, added more kino, said goodbye, and we're planning to meet for saturday...but I forgot to N-Close...I have her on FB though...
- I feel like I should have added more Rapport and Attraction before asking her out. But in the other hand, we already know each other and she's comfortable with me touching her, so maybe attraction and seduction are the next steps
- I'm beginning to notice body language a bit better, she crossed her arms at one point, but lowered them in like 2 seconds, which makes me think she was a bit nervous/shy...maybe
- I want to msg her today to let her know I had a great time with her and i'm looking forward to seeing her again. But I am concerned too much contact from my part will dlv and make it look like I'm chasing. I want to let her know I'm interested, but get her to work a little
- Also, what are some good SOI's I could use in this situation.
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