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Thread: BlackSheep Report 2 - Salsa Night & Emergency advice

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    Post BlackSheep Report 2 - Salsa Night & Emergency advice

    Gentlemen

    BlackSheep here with a quick report, and in need of emergency advice

    Ta make a story short, I go Salsa dancing most Tuesdays at a local club. I'm actually pretty popular there, I'm a teacher, most of the girls know me (including her) and want to dance with me or want me to teach them, I just never know how to work that popularity in my favor

    She came up to me and asked to dance, and I said "Finally you're free" (which is the reverse scenario because I was the one dancing non-stop) Anyways, after we danced to one of the last songs, we continued talking, I naturally added kino on her lower back and thigh (very common for me now) and I noticed some ioi's, and later proceeded to casually ask her if we could meet for a drink, she agreed.

    Later I walked her to her car and this tall drunk bum came asking for money. I stepped between him and her (as a way to defend her) and politely said to the guy "Sorry bro, we don't have our wallets, maybe next time", which I think showed dhv and perhaps bravery and confidence.

    Anyways, walked her to her car, chatted for a bit, added more kino, said goodbye, and we're planning to meet for saturday...but I forgot to N-Close...I have her on FB though...

    Lessons Learned
    - I feel like I should have added more Rapport and Attraction before asking her out. But in the other hand, we already know each other and she's comfortable with me touching her, so maybe attraction and seduction are the next steps

    - I'm beginning to notice body language a bit better, she crossed her arms at one point, but lowered them in like 2 seconds, which makes me think she was a bit nervous/shy...maybe

    Need Advice
    - I want to msg her today to let her know I had a great time with her and i'm looking forward to seeing her again. But I am concerned too much contact from my part will dlv and make it look like I'm chasing. I want to let her know I'm interested, but get her to work a little

    - Also, what are some good SOI's I could use in this situation.
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    Default Re: BlackSheep Report 2 - Salsa Night & Emergency advice

    Over thinking it, be cool, text Friday looking forward to ...said plans ... Something witty/ funny

    Keep it light and fun or wait until said plans

    Or message her for her number just I case you are kidnapped by a drunken bum in a parking lot

    Once you get the number don't use it until after the said plans
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    Default Re: BlackSheep Report 2 - Salsa Night & Emergency advice

    A good line I've used in the past when I didnt Number Close but they added me on facebook was "Hey I totally forgot to get your number for "Date(as in Fri, or sat)", just in case something comes up I definitely want to let you know."

    Then when she gives you her number text her saying ya know hey its "name" and for her to let you know if something comes up as well.
    -This gives her your number and adds reason to wanting her number.

    Remember shes a human. You'd say the same thing to a guy friend you were gonna go shoot hoops with for a future day right?(no-homo)

    Cheers bud and Good luck blacksheep
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    Default Re: BlackSheep Report 2 - Salsa Night & Emergency advice

    Quote Originally Posted by Pyroto View Post

    Remember shes a human. You'd say the same thing to a guy friend you were gonna go shoot hoops with for a future day right?(no-homo)
    Very true I happen to strongly agree
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