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    Default question - a comment i got

    i set with a HB 8\8.5 last night and while my friend are afgs i have some game in me. so we stated talking i negged here couple of times - she didnt respond well [gave me an offended look] but somtimes lughd.. when our coversatiom got boring i tried some routines on her - styles C theeth compared to U shaped theeth and some guided imagion.. the routins worked but the comment i got from her was - "if i was talking to you an hour i would get board.."

    what did i do wrong?!? and was it an ioi or IOL?

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    Default Re: question - a comment i got

    As soon as they are laughing or giving ios begin running Kino.this is very important.you cannot just be the interesting guy you need to be physical sort.be safe.

    that wasn't an ioi as you put it or a disinterest your conversation had a few ups and low.you could have at least gone for the kiss before it fell flat.she felt like you were trying too hard..you even stated you were trying to save the conversation by running routines.she probably caught that energy girls can sometimes be quick to spot on.

    Am not saying don't use routines but too much of everything is bad.Like i said as long as they are giving ios escalate.PEACE

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    Default Re: question - a comment i got

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    As soon as they are laughing or giving ios begin running Kino.this is very important.you cannot just be the interesting guy you need to be physical sort.be safe.

    that wasn't an ioi as you put it or a disinterest your conversation had a few ups and low.you could have at least gone for the kiss before it fell flat.she felt like you were trying too hard..you even stated you were trying to save the conversation by running routines.she probably caught that energy girls can sometimes be quick to spot on.

    Am not saying don't use routines but too much of everything is bad.Like i said as long as they are giving ios escalate.PEACE
    whats an ios? and what can i do to lead the conversation when the set [in this case 2 of my friends and the girl who is their friend] is getting really boring??
    the only thing who came to my mind is to practice the routins infront of a women i dont know and see her reaction
    in this case my afg friends kind of cock blocked me cus they are not used to me saying stuuf like that
    Last edited by soulman123321; 05-10-2013 at 06:32 AM. Reason: grammer

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    Default Re: question - a comment i got

    Well she told you where you went wrong.. the conversation was boring. If you're just starting out then learning routines can be very helpful as it stops you from panicking and always leaves you with things to say... it's like stabilizers on a bike. Once you get more comfortable I'd advise you leave the routines behind though.

    As for your mates, ditch them when you pick up if they are putting you down in front of women. You don't need that.

    an ioi is an Indicator Of Interest.

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    Default Re: question - a comment i got

    When you are talking to the group and the girl seems engaged since in this case the guys are already your friends you can just focus on her.the best way is to start talking to her directly,once you friends see she seems interested in the interaction they will likely back off.
    Then run kino whilst gaming and move things forward,don't force anything though.

    the only thing who came to my mind is to practice the routins infront of a women i dont know and see her reaction
    Even though you should keep meeting new people(women mostly) as much as you can it doesn't matter just practice running game you will be fine.

    IOI - Indicator Of Interest.<-Common term
    ios - indicator of more than one signal.

    afg:average frustrated guys.
    the one used here is AFC:average frustrated chump <-Another common term

    Overall don't forget to always move things forward a bit.once they show interest

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    Default Re: question - a comment i got

    Search body language be conscious of yours as well as hers for ioi

    Search framing

    Lots of good info on kino on here

    Look at Direct Game also, there is a post about death to the neg on here too. Negging too hard will eff it all up, then going into c-shaped and u- shaped ploy after a failed neg without enough rapport makes you look judgmental/ shallow. It was just a good catalyst for disaster. However at least it was a good learning experience.

    Non-verbal game could have impacted the game more too, it always speaks louder than any words you say, hard to say with no mention of it.

    Summary look into framing, body language, kino and eliminating negs from your game. There are way better ways to dhv without brining someone else's value down.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


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