I have been out of the game for about a year now,and wow its been interesting...Intere sting battling my reoccurring sticking points
After being stagnant for so long, (not by choice) I decided to go out at least twice a week, and adopt "Tyler from RSD" mentality for night game... I best suits my personality,so I put it in motion.
Approach, approach, approach
Minimize time in betweeen interactions...
Freedom of Outcome + Intent
And my personal favorite Self Amusement
I highly suggest you YouTube it...its good stuff.
Anyways, I decide to go the the local dive bar. I usually get a surge of anxiety when initially entering a venue, and this time is no different.
Its 9:45. Some say the "hot" girls tend to leave early, so here I'am before midnight. And its dead...on a Friday.I could already feel my self wanting to go back in my head...No..balls out from now on.
Okay lets do this. I greet the bouncer, walk in and see the dance floor and its empty. Nothing is standing out. The people here tonight are low engergy even with the live DJ...I walk outside. Standing in the middle of the narrow courtyard walk way, are a blonde 7.8 and full 8 brunette.
I try to clear my mind and let the first words that come to me be my opener. The blonde was doing some weird dance move over and I hear the brunette critiquing her moves. They were getting attention from those that passed. (Hungry for attention, why the hell are you blocking the walk way?) I walk past, glance over and slowly walk backwards past them.
ME: "Are you popping and locking?"
8: "I'm trying to teach her"
7: "Yeah, I've got this" (Does some sexual hip movements)
Me: "All you have to do, is not give a f*** and let your body to the talking."
Then a very large man, approaches with two beers. Obviously they knew him. (Here we go) I held my frame. I knew that he would attempt to AMOG me. He looked at both of them as code for "Is this guy bothering you?" They signaled back non-verbally "like hes cool"
I remained strong.
But I wasn't strong enough to lead. My body langugae was off, since I had to approach at a funky angle in this narrow walk way. I decided to let the interacting fizzle out. I strongly believe in re-approaching later on in the night as part of my game. They walk off.
Okay I that wasn't so bad.
I now enter the inside bar/dancefloor area. The Dj is spinning top 40 dance records. I order a water. I don't drink when attempting to game. Its helped me so much.
I now decide to dance...by myself LOl.
This takes massive balls being the center of atttention like this. Plus there is no one dancing. And I have some moves.
I'm getting attention from women...Women are attracted to balls.
I walk up to the Dj and request Wale-Slight Work. I know I can kill that song. Meanwhile, more women flock to watch me dance on the out skirts of the dancefloor. Then a Spanish MILF 7.5 approaches and initiates dancing with me.
7.5: "Hey, I like your hat"
Me: " Do you now? (Dancing more provacatively now.)
She steals my hat!
Me: "Who are you hear with?"
7.5: "My husband..."
Then a random older guy, tries to interupt and she motions for him to leave...
My requested song comes on...I go high engergy(Awwwww, shit!)
7.5: "Yeah!show me your moves!"
THE DJ: "This guys on fire!" (on the loud speaker)
Immediately another MILF red head 7.5 beelines to me and now I'm juggleing the two on the dancefloor...But this one shows stronger interest. This is where I show my rookie status. I decide to focus on the redhead. We do some playful witty banter and I DON'T Kino! (Dumbass)She kinda floats around me on the dancefloor and asks me to teach her some of my "moves". I was in the moment a lil too much, and play hard to get. I got the attraction, and that MILF was gift wrapped but I didnt attempt to escalate and didn't close
I let her go..
It gets worse...
I did, however, manage to generate a lot of social proof. Riding off that validation. After dancing, I approach a set of two young 8s, blonde and brunette.
I do a silent opener, (heavy on the male polarity) walk up to the booth, look at both of them one at a time intently, while sending off some strong body language...then smile disarmingly.
Blonde 8: We have jello shots!
The blonde shoves the shot in my face violetly. Literaly.
Me: OMG! You scared me. Who says I drink alcohol? LOL
I sit down at the booth now...I playfully banter and it was going well initially, but I lost my focus, (really could not decide on which one to go for) They were sisters.
They tell me they are gonna smoke a cig out on the patio...HELLO VERBAL QUE! GO ESCOURT THEM JON.(I should of said "Lets go")But my too logical mind is like "I don't smoke cigs, ehh I'll let them go, LOL) They did end up coming back to the booth I was at and at this point they were getting drunk and distracted and I missed my window...I had this interaction...but I didnt KINO or create sexual tension or lead enough.
This night had sooooo much potential, But I'm a rookie making rookie mistakes. At least I got some positive reference experience.