I'm more of a lurker on this forum rather than a poster. I've soaked up everything I can by reading this site and I am happy to say I get at least one phone number a week for the past month. Not only that, but I've been more happier and more confident around women. Forgive the long post but I want to share with you what I learned and maybe it will help you with your game.
A few months ago I was pathetic with women. I was a s.i.m.p (My cute little acronym for silly ignorant misinformed punk). Women walked over me and always put me in the friend zone. I decided to read everything there was to know about game and put it to use. Initially I failed. I was trying to hard to be quirky and outgoing when that wasn't me at all. I tried scripting everything and I looked like a tool. I went to the gym to vent and had a conversation with some people that changed me. Long story short there was this guy who always helps me out with my form and what not and gives me pointers. He asked me about my luck with women lately and I told him a sob story. Then out of nowhere a pretty young lady told me that relashionships don't come when you expect it.
In my science class the next day a girl I had never seen before came in late. The only other seat left was the one next to me. I remembered what the lady at the gym told me and just went with the flow. Who knew not overthinking things would land me a date at IHOP! I effed up and didn't get her digits so I made it my mission to get at least 1 number a week. At the start of each day I looked into the mirror and said to myself, "I'm not an Alpha Male. I'm THE Alpha male. I'm not concerned with how women feel about me. If they want me which is extremely likely I'll THINK about entertaining them with my presence."
You will not believe how many girls started walking up to me and complimenting me. One girl I met today on the train that happened to be going to the same place as me recognized me. She was a HB9 but I treated her like an ordinary girl. I gave her a smile but didn't talk for a while. She came to me and started talking. After a few minutes in the conversation I made sure I asked about her rather than me. I playfully teased some of her shortcomings but she liked it! My body language was relaxed and I made eye contact when necessary. I didn't say anything negative about myself and made sure I went with the flow. She tried downing herself a lot but I didn't compliment her. She really got turned on by this. It turns out I was right, she downed herself to see if I was simping. Luckily for me I passed the test. We started touching but we both had to get off before it got serious. I closed with a casual, "I'm busy but I get the time we should have lunch". She gave me her number! I met some other girl who struck up a conversation, and got her number too. I learned my form of charisma wasn't the outgoing jokester but the cool calm and collected smart guy. Just being the authentic version of me got me way more numbers than being a Mystery wannabe!
Moral of the story? Be a p.i.m.p (philosophical, intelligent, man of prestige)! Don't over analyze situations. Live your life and don't think about if women want you. If you keep telling yourself that you're the alpha male and walk like it the women will take notice. I'm far from an expert but I just wanted to show you guys my recent developments and share what worked for me and what didn't.