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    Default The Day After

    Hi guys. I'd like to share a recent experience I had, see what you think about it and hopefully get some advise.

    Every morning around 8:15 when I'm going to my job ( I live/work in downtown here in a city in Brazil so I walk to the office), well coming from the opposite direction there's this girl I see daily so one day I decided to say hello and we end up talking for maybe 5 min ... she told what she does, I told about my profession ... things like that ... then I got her email address ...

    Well, it appeared to be just fine, but now I don't see her on her path to work anymore so I believe she either changed her mind about me or/and is feeling awkward to see me again ...

    Should I email her and say something? or keep quiet and forget about it?

    Thanks in advance, K.

    ps. One important thing I forgot to say: she has a boyfriend, but she was not really proud to say when I asked that day and she doesn't refer to him in that 'relationship link on her Facebook'

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    Default Re: The Day After

    After you got the e-mail address have you communicated with her via e-mail at all?

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    Default Re: The Day After

    Well if you got the email and never sent her anything then yeah she probably feels awkward...

    What are you waiting for? Game on!
    "You have to let them know what kind of man you are, so they will know what kind of girl to be" - MadMen

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    Default Re: The Day After

    No not yet. The day I talked to her was last friday. One important thing I forgot to say: she has a boyfriend, but she was not really proud to say when I asked that day and she doesn't refer to him in that 'relationship link on her Facebook'

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    Default Re: The Day After

    It's been a few days... Throw her an email. Make it funny and not just, "oh hi how r u havent seen you in a while where ya been?".

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    Tell her that you have been busy.

    Tell her that you are going out for a drink on Thursday at 5 pm (it can be any day or time you want as long as it isn't a Friday or a Saturday) that she should join.

    Don't ask her , just tell her. It will show that you have confidence.

    Don't mention her b/f and don't ask her why you haven't seen her walking. Act as if you didn't notice that.

    Keep us updated on what happens.

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    Default Re: The Day After

    Quote Originally Posted by guita3107 View Post
    Hi guys. I'd like to share a recent experience I had, see what you think about it and hopefully get some advise.

    Every morning around 8:15 when I'm going to my job ( I live/work in downtown here in a city in Brazil so I walk to the office), well coming from the opposite direction there's this girl I see daily so one day I decided to say hello and we end up talking for maybe 5 min ... she told what she does, I told about my profession ... things like that ... then I got her email address ...

    Well, it appeared to be just fine, but now I don't see her on her path to work anymore so I believe she either changed her mind about me or/and is feeling awkward to see me again ...

    Should I email her and say something? or keep quiet and forget about it?

    Thanks in advance, K.

    ps. One important thing I forgot to say: she has a boyfriend, but she was not really proud to say when I asked that day and she doesn't refer to him in that 'relationship link on her Facebook'
    Here's the thing...there's a certain kind of magic that happens between a man and a woman when they feel a connection. You had lightning in a bottle and you didn't strike when the iron was hot. Ideally, in this kind of situation, you want to wait 24-48 hours. There's a little more to it than that but that's the short version. NEVER ask if they have a boyfriend. It's not your problem...if they want a ticket to Poundtown, feel free to help a girl out if she tickles your fancy, regardless of her "status". So, what do you do now? You send her an email, just like you should've days ago. Don't try to make plans, she barely knows you and based on what you told us, she's not THAT into you. You should've gotten her number, but that's OK. Write her an email and say this "Hey (her name), it's (your name) from (wherever you met)." Be specific in case she needs her memory jogged. Feel free to be a little flirty...hell, throw in a f@cking smiley face. Ask her to send you a picture of her doing something fun and to tell you a little about herself. From there, you kinda have to play it by ear, assuming she replies. Ideally, you want her number as quickly as possible but I'm still learning email game. Best of luck with your big booty goddess. Urbancowboy out.
    Last edited by urbancowboy; 05-15-2013 at 04:56 PM. Reason: Curse words

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    Default Re: The Day After

    Thanks all for the tips ... I actually sent her an email last night, not asking her out but with a neutral subject just to see if she replies ... I'll update you guys in a few days.

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    Default Re: The Day After

    Hey guys ... just would like to update this post and say that actually nothing positive happened after I sent her the email, not even a reply ... but no worries ... I already talked to a few other girls during daytime on the streets ... nothing solid but keeps my motivation ... I'm probably a bit rusty because of my 10 years marriage, but I'm confident i'm on the right path ... thanks for the tips ... some of you may say I'm giving up too early from that one, maybe I am but I got very down last year because of divorce things, so I'm trying to do this as long I have fun ... regards.


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