Just a brief prelude: I usually do daygame because im not 21 yet, but there was an 18+ club in Hollywood I wanted to try out. Fortunately, it was in the center of Hollywood, where all the major clubs are, so I was able to game outside the clubs for the first time. I watch a considerable amount of in field videos of PUAs sarging right outside the clubs, so it made me very happy to see the exact spots where people K-closed on the spot. This was a totally new experience for me, dealing with the club scene, so I wanted to do it with a bang.
I feel like my pickup is very State dependent. If I have freedom from outcome, my pickup is amazing. If I become needy and not self amused, I become in my head. But I think everyone is like that. Pretty much if I build social momentum correctly, and I'm having a good time in general because of my actions rather than their reactions.
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Anyways, onto the night.
I told myself that if I get blown out by 100 sets due to me being physical and trying to advance the conversation, and make sexual tension, then I would have the ability and the right to find a famous PUA in Hollywood, and maybe meet one of my "rolemodels" (however, I try not to put anyone on a pedestal. Thats bad for you). They've been through so much bullsh1t. I needed the courtesy to at least put myself through some tough sets and get my elbows dirty in the mud.
When I arrive to the 18+ club, Florescent Gardens at 11 pm, I get in for free. Its empty. A dance floor that can accommodate 500+ people is only occupied by around 15. Anyways, I make the best out of the situation, like I always do. There are a group of 6 girls, and 1 guy on the other side of the dance floor. I confidently walk straight over there, knowing I cannot hesitate if I want to build my social momentum and get in state. I go up to a sitting girl, and try the hand of god. This is when you reach your arm out, palm face up. They grab/shake your hand. Then you pull them in closer to you. I am not comfortable with this opener, and it takes a lot of state resonance to pull off. You can't be shy about it. I guess I was still a little too shy, and when I tried to pull her up, she didn't come up to talk to me. I was like "This is akward, but SHE needs to blow me out. I cant blow myself out, or I wont learn". So I sat next to her, in between her friends. I forgot what we talked about, but the guy ended up telling me "these 6 are mine. fark off". If I was in state, I could probably AMOG him out, but I wasn't really phased. I might have approached another few groups at the club, then I went out, searching for sets outside.
Pretty much, throughout the night, I was really physical and clear in my intentions. This was a new scene, but I got really close to 3 K-closes (I didnt really want their number). Then I got 1 Number Close. but the triumph of the night, at around 1:30, was a 2 set
I go up to the 2 HB8s, somewhat tired from walking around a lot and having an exhausting night of no actual K-closes. So I go up to them, and say "You guys look cute together", or something among those lines. One of them is like "thank you!", and the other girl is like "Youre so farking annoying, go away". Me, knowing this is a sh1t test (from reference experience), kept my frame and replied somewhat aggressively, having abundance of confidence. After staying in set, and being a badass, having that "Shutup Dog! Come over here!" mentality, The angry HB8 had a total flip and became super nice to me. She did all the work from here: She isolated me from her friend, and we started aggressively hooking up for around 5 minutes. Afterwards she said "I need to go to California". I replied with "we're in California", and it kinda got stale and died. I was really happy and I didn't really care to continue the set, but right afterwards I realized this was another sh1t test and I could have replied "But I love you. Come here." and continued building sexual tension.
This was the first time I k-closed through cold approach in less than 1 minute from being adamant and actually using some verbal game as well. After the K-close, I became extremely energetic, full with energy and vivacity. Unfortunately, the streets were kinda dead after this time, and I had to leave in 15 minutes.
Throughout the night, I had been building social momentum by being physical with literally every set I had. Before this k-close, I got a number close with a HB9 who I was on the verge of k-closing (i tried, but didnt have enough time to build more sexual tension and try again). I walked with 2 girls for a few blocks with my hands on their waste, going up and down, having a sexual touch, while we talked about how horny one of them was (im still bad at isolating 2 sets because the friend gets left out). I had been clear with my intent throughout the whole night. In one set, I even told the girl I needed to either advance sexually and make it work, or creep her out. That was my mission. She was still very open with letting me touch her.
Last night was a night of physical game and getting out of my comfort zone. I was completely sober, and I got blown out by many girls, but I was playing to win. And I won, and I have much more reference experience now that it happened. I still didn't go far enough (sexually) at times. I could also tell where I got creepy. But thats fine, because by understanding what I did right and wrong, I build reference experience for the next times I go out, so I wont make the same mistakes again.
Being in this mindset also got me out of a somewhat unhappy state (i was in a little down period). My advice to you guys is play to win, not to not lose.
- I didn't end up counting how many sets I blew out because in the end, I approached every viable set I could. Even some sets with guys in them. And in the end, with every set, I had a good time, because sets go one of two ways. They're either fun and positive, or they're funny and a learning experience. That is how I keep myself in state; by enjoying the action of opening, getting out of my comfort zone, being awkward, rather than getting results. Results come along with your joy and happiness.