I don't want to be your boyfriend
Yesterday I walked into a female clothes shop after seeing an attractive shop assistant in the window. I was in a posh town and the women there were pretty high class, this woman was no exception. I approached her, it went as follows;
Me - "Where's the men's section?"
Her - "Umm.. we don't stock men's clothing, sorry.."
me - "I know. I'm not actually looking for any clothes at the moment. I saw you in the window and thought you looked really cute, so I had to come in and meet you."
her - blush and borad smile "Aw, that's so sweet. thank you."
me - returning smile "you're welcome. So how are you?"
conversation grew from there, exploring various topics. She stopped doing her work and was genuinely engaged in the discussion.It lasted about ten minutes and I could feel my conversational skill withering (long day) so I decided to clench and close.
me - "So look, I have to go and I'm sure you have to get back to your work, But I don't feel like I know you yet and such a beautiful woman, I want to know you. How about we meet one night for a drink?"
her - blushing, nervous smile "Aw, I'm sorry, I already have a boyfriend."
Me - suggestive smile, deviant now. "I'm not asking to be your boyfriend!"
her - gasps in shock at first, instantly clocking what I'm saying. "hmm...." she actually took a moment to consider this.. "Ok, next time you're in Bath come to the shop, we can go out and have our drink then."
So, I could have pushed for a number or arranged a date then and there or whatever to test whether or not she was serious, though it seemed like she was. But to be honest, this was the time I had used that response to a girl telling me she had a boyfriend and I was surprised by her response. I found myself questioning whether or not i could knowingly do that to a relationship.
I'm sincerely curious now,what would you do? (this city is very close to me and going back would not be a problem. In fact I have a date with a girl from that city I number closed yesterday.)
Why become someone else when you can become a natural?