Hi all! Went on a spree w/the women I recently met & was also busy w/finals. In school, I met this young man in one of my classes. He is tall and attractive and you'd think women would be falling over each other to do him, but he's single and has severe aa.
One day he told me that he had watched me hook up w/girls in the class and at some point, that women would volunteer their ph#s to me and ask me to go out. He asked me to tell him what it was that I did to have such luck w/women. I didn't want to tell him anything, so I answered, "Just Lucky, I guess." Then he confided in me and told me he wished he had that sort of luck and also told me that he was crushing on a girl in the class.
I asked him if he had asked her out, or at least gotten her ph#. He said, "No." So, I asked him to watch me and listen to what I said, but that it was more important to watch my body language and expressions. I approached the girl (18 yo - not in my age range) very confidently, but before making my approach I made sure she was looking at me. When I reached her I asked, "I'm sorry but I forgot your name." She gave me her name and I told her mine and extended my hand to shake her hand. She took my hand. Then I told her that I liked her work in class and wanted to keep in touch with her and asked for her ph#. She gave it to me.
I went back to my classmate and asked him to tell me what he saw and heard. He said that all he saw was me walk up to the girl, shake her hand and ask for her ph#. I said, "That's right! That's all it takes! Easy, huh?"
Then he shot himself in the foot by saying, "She has a Boy Friend, boo hoo!". I gave him the facts: ALL GIRLS HAVE BOY FRIENDS!!! I gave him an assignment to get her ph#. He failed!
A week or so goes by and he's telling me that the BF is always blocking - he doesn't leave her sight. I gave him this advice - you have to make her look at his faults and look at you higher values and gave him some examples of how to do it. He failed again due to AA.
Another week goes by. I finally got a chance to see the BF and he was a FUD! I turned to my apprentice and said come with me and learn. We approached the girl (I should mention she's an HB8) and said, "Hi, whatsyourname!" Turned and faced her BF and asked her, "Is this your little brother?" I introduced my apprentice to her and stood between her and her BF and started a conversation where she and my apprentice had to talk. He almost blew it, so I interjected and invited her to come see him and his band perform and added, "Bring your little brother if your mom let's him stay out late." The BF said something and I said, "Little brother, little friend, whatever."
Next step coming ...