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Thread: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

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    Default FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    So I've come home from University for christmas, and thought id try out some routines and investigate different methods with the girls back home. There is this HB (8/10), who i've heard about through friends as an absolute goddess in the bedroom so I thought it was worth an effort. Although I haven't spoken to her personally before, i'd seen her about. I decided the easiest way to start things would be over facebook message (without trying to be too creepy) as I knew the chances of me seeing her out are slim.. so I thought a standard opener wouldn't be as effective online as it would in real life so I took a more subtle approach of saying how I knew who she was and asking if she was out in town on the weekend (as me and a group of my mates were going out) and that we should hang out if bumped into each other out. the next is a copy of the exact dialogue that went on:

    HB: You don't even know what I look like haha

    Me: yeah but you are finding me, so i dont need to know and you cant miss me, ill be the tallest guy out (trying to show authority here telling her she is going to come looking for me, not the other way round)

    HB: I don't know what you look like either haha

    Me: well im 6 ft 7, so it wont be hard

    HB: Fuck I'm 5 ft 3 lol

    Me: haha tinyy aww another reason why its easier for you to find me than other way round!

    HB: Haja

    Me: who you going with?

    HB: A few of my friends xxx (taking this as an IOI, putting kisses now after each reply)

    Me: cutee, are they all as tiny as you? x (throwing in a neg here mocking her about her height, whilst also only putting one kiss, not letting her think she has the power to influence how many kisses I put, to which she responds with only putting one kiss, a sign that I'm in control)

    HB: Haha nope a little taller! X

    Me: you going out with your boyfriend? x (i dont know if she has a boyfriend, but this is a subtle way of finding out, and she does have one.. but that wont stop me)

    HB: No x

    Me: ah thats alright then x

    HB: Haha x

    I then continue with a game I learnt from the PUA Style (whose book 'The Game' got me into all this). Which is the betting game in which you ask them 5 questions, to win they have to get them all wrong (can be found on youtube).. After getting through 2 questions I receive a message from her boyfriend telling me to stop trying it on with his girlfriend (this guy is a classic AMOG). I reply not aggressively (although from looking at his pictures i would easily win in a fight), but with witty comments, in that im not interested in her, just talking (knowing they are obviously sitting next to each other so she will be reading). I continue to out wit him, showing dominance over him infront of her, i then message her with:

    Me: haha its cool mate, we can stop playing, i see your boyfriend controls what you do. not my style personally but know plenty of people who do that may see you out sat x

    HB: I'm not controlled I'm my own person xx (the exact response i was looking for, triggering the thought that she is being controlled is just going to make her want to do some rebellious even more)

    Me: okay chickk. well dont feel like you cant say hi on sat if you see me, if you are allowed xx

    HB: Haha x

    All this was on Wednesday. I didnt want to be desperate so left it there, and then received a message on saturday morning with her giving me her number saying let her know when i'm out.. All i replied with was 'okay sure, if you're lucky x'. It was needless to say that i text her when i was a few minutes away from the club saying i was here, with her almost instantly replying that she was going to come find me. I met her about 10 minutes into being inside, and after another 15 minutes i had her sat down on a quiet coach area.. and we were making out. I left after a while to find my friends as it was that time of the month for her..

    Hope my first field report is up to scratch and that you enjoy! please feel free to leave any comments or feedback be it positive or negative

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    Default Re: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    Is it really necessary to overthink on the x (kiss) there? For me it doesn't matter how many "x" or how often she puts it or how I should respond... Most chicks use it like a 'full stop' in texts, fb chats, etc. They use it with pretty much everybody...

    Enlighten me if I'm wrong. If it's THAT important, I'm gonna keep an eye on those things next time I send a text, lol
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    Default Re: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    Haha this is a field report i posted on another forum at christmas so a while ago and i was a very keen newbie back then and overthought everything! excuse the sh1tty bits, i forgot to crop them out, just reposted here to show that boyfriends arent always a problem and how to get around them, thats the main reason of this!

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    Default Re: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    For sure man, bfs aren't really a problem at all. As Xavier says, all LTRs have at least one problem. To 'steal' the girl we need to point out that problem (or even helping her realize it) without letting her get defensive about her bf. Then all the rest comes natural, like in your report.

    Good job doing that over a fb chat though. My props to you
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    Default Re: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    For sure man, bfs aren't really a problem at all. As Xavier says, all LTRs have at least one problem. To 'steal' the girl we need to point out that problem (or even helping her realize it) without letting her get defensive about her bf. Then all the rest comes natural, like in your report.

    Good job doing that over a fb chat though. My props to you
    Yeah, its really not that hard to get around, then all you need to do is play your natural game and it comes, just trying to help some aspiring PUAs to realise this! Cheers for the feedback though.

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    Default Re: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    Umm okay it worked for you but not for me. When I got a POF chick's number recently she was playing me on POF while she had a BF. Like I don't know why a chick would be on a dating site with me while she has a BF but okay. Anyway when I called her she immediately gave it to her BF and he started calling me. She then said she would contact the Police.

    I have no idea what happened because I thought she liked me but she was only playing me. I wasn't having fun with it like you were, I was just calling her on it saying she had to dump her BF, choose me, etc. Guess that's why I lost?

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    Default Re: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    Sounds like you was doing your thing. I like the negs especially!! Brilliant
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    Default Re: FR: Never mind the boyfriend..

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjon View Post
    Umm okay it worked for you but not for me. When I got a POF chick's number recently she was playing me on POF while she had a BF. Like I don't know why a chick would be on a dating site with me while she has a BF but okay. Anyway when I called her she immediately gave it to her BF and he started calling me. She then said she would contact the Police.

    I have no idea what happened because I thought she liked me but she was only playing me. I wasn't having fun with it like you were, I was just calling her on it saying she had to dump her BF, choose me, etc. Guess that's why I lost?
    Maybe this chick is just a bit crazy and wanted to mess with someone? (you). Or maybe you went about it wrong. When a girl has a bf or is seeing someone, you dont want to plain open attack him and say that she should dump him and chose you over him, you should play on what she dislikes about him. For example in my fields report, the boyfriend was very controlling, so i just brought that up, said that its cool her boyfriend is controlling and i get it - see im not attacking him, if anything im seeming like im on his side, then i say but thats not my style. no girl likes to be controlled so by saying that, it plants the idea in her mind that starts unravelling etc.
    Make it seem like you are everything she wishes he was!

    -Zeus
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