If you guys remember reading my last report about the Bartender whose # I got, FB I got, and told me she would get in and to come to her then out of nowhere the BF takes control of her phone and then starts threatening to beat me up if I ever talk to her, look at her again which came out of nowhere. Well as I mentioned in my last report I was a little distraught. So I went to an EDM Festival. I barely ever go to EDM events but like 2-3 times a year but here's how it went.
Random Set at EDM Festival
So I was feeling pretty down about my game lately with girls telling me it's girls night then hooking up with guys, walking away after a few minutes, etc. Essentially I have been mostly the one pinging emotions and it gets the ball rolling and I do most the talking until I reach the "hook". Well I was getting sick of this because of all the unforeseen circumstances with women and getting their #'s to only hear the next day they have a BF or going back to their ex. So I wanted to just see if I just approached said a few words and see if they start qualifying themselves to me. Basically get them to come to me.
Well I tried this out at the Club last weekend on 5 girls and they all got bored right away and left or rejected me. So I went to this EDM Festival to attempt to cast away my boredom of the game and just not approach girls. Well I did see this one HB9 who I was attracted to so I approached her. Asked her if she was smoking a clove to which she said she was and shared it with me. I just stood there not looking to qualify myself. She started qualifying herself to me and kept trying to keep the convo going, etc. Come to find out she was in my age range and I loved this validation so I N-closed her and told her it would have been nice to hook up that night to which she wasn't biting but I let her know we should do a Day 2 next week and grab some lunch. She kept coming to me later that night so I think I did pretty good.
But the thing of it is I was so hot I had my shirt off and been working out and I am 6'3 and 171lbs and am looking pretty good. I think this girl was partly qualifying herself to me because I had my shirt off. I think I will do this strategy more often in the proper settings like Beer Festivals, EDM Events, Concerts, etc. Going to keep trying to see how this approach and only say a few words to get them chasing me works. But thank goodness that set made me feel good like I still got game and made me forget about the Bartender. Don't think I will try to hit on Bartenders anymore though I really like them too much girl drama. Just a friends only approach. That's the only set I did because like I said I wasn't going out to approach and most girls were just too young.