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    Default Back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

    SHE
    She’s a stylish good looking party girl who enjoys her freedom.
    The kind with fake nail, fake eyelashes, salon tanning etc, not really my kind but anyway...

    MY PLACE
    We had spent no more than 1h together when the drinks where out and we went back to my place.

    I knew she had to go for smt planned with her flatmate but I said “just for a beer” and she agreed.
    She said she only had 20 minutes at the bar, which means no more than 15 mins once at my place.

    I opened two beers, put some music and kept talking.
    She asked for my phone number, and sat at my PC to add herself on FB.

    Guess at least some interest was there.

    "THE MOVE"
    Didn’t want to let her go without at least getting a bit closer physically but go too well when I went for a kiss. She said “I’m not that kind of girl” (‘course she was ), and I went for a kiss on the cheek.

    The moment was a bit awkward, but not too awkward.

    We sat again on the couch, kept talking for some more minutes and when her flatmate texted her that she was waiting we got up and left.

    GOODBYE
    At the crossroad as we said goodbye I noticed she was standing there, so I went again for a kiss and this time was OK.

    Just lips to lips, twice, I didn’t try to grope or make a big make out out of it.
    Maybe I was trying to have a "cool, unneedy" image or I was simply OK with what had happened already, not sure.

    She said again she would call and I said “yes, do that” and that it had been nice spending time with her.

    This is all.



    2 days ago I sent a single quick text to meet for a wine but nothing from her side.

    Do you think I should have/could have done something differently or any good course of action from now?

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    Default Re: Back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

    You could have escalated more at your house. Who knows, 30 mins could have been more if you escalated she probably didn't care about the time at all and just said that to see what you would have done in that time limit .
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    Default Re: Back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

    Quote Originally Posted by lucifer7 View Post
    but go too well when I went for a kiss.
    I obviously meant "didn't go too well" here.

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    You could have escalated more at your house. Who knows, 30 mins could have been more if you escalated she probably didn't care about the time at all and just said that to see what you would have done in that time limit .
    Thanks marvilo.

    Definitely an option indeed, but I thought she was being sincere as she had been so for the whole conversation (said she was seeing a guy, open about what she likes and don't like, what did I think of her etc.).

    Also re-escalating too soon after a first no, might have seemed a bit thick-skulled from my side (we only stayed a couple of minutes after the kiss move) and I wanted to keep my cool.

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    Default Re: Back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

    You should have thought to yourself " she seeing a guy but she Is at my house right now" tbh if you meet a girl at the club and she has a bf and comes back to your place, yeah she doesn't care about her bf and "she is that kind of girl" like you said
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    Default Re: Back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

    Personally I tend to play the long game rather than insta-shag haha. But yeah, I think had you made her a little more comfortable before going for the first kiss it would have been ok.

    My question is how did you Kino before hand? I honestly think the single most important thing to getting a kiss is kino. If she allows you into her personal space you are basically guaranteed to score.

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    Default Re: Back to mine on limited time - Could have done better?

    Is there any post about long game because I'm not good at it and have lost so many women trying to jump without testing the water.
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