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    Default i have no idea what went wrong

    Hey guys so I met this girl whose an HB7.
    She's the shy, innocent type of girl that everybody hates(haha).
    So I managed to meet her at her house and from there onwards things just went downhill.

    At her house, all she had was her music and that's it(no movies nothing). It was really hard to build up any fun and at this point
    Things looked dull(I was even tempted to just go back home)but I
    Just sucked it up and stayed. I decided I needed to improvise on whatever
    Was around and decided to just play games on her laptop with her. This
    Really worked cause the games were childish and what I did kept making her
    Laugh and putting her at ease.

    Now the problem with me is that I just couldn't fukn K-close her
    I don't know why. I went total AFC mode and couldn't bring myself to kiss her. I really regret not kissing her!

    Anyway so after afew days she suddenly gets cold in texting. This is
    The part I don't understand. I thought maybe her period mood swings affected her(yes she was on her periods). I had no time to deal with this so I just ignored her for a while. I don't know what to do. Do you guys think I did the right thing by ignoring her? And what should I do from now on?



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    Default Re: i have no idea what went wrong

    Your missing the details of what happen like did she invite you to her house? Do you guys talk regularly? Need some back story.


    Anyways the reason you couldnt kiss her is because the mood was dull. So you felt unsure if she was okay kissing you or not. Well next time you do what you consider to be fun and invite her
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    Default Re: i have no idea what went wrong

    The details will help.
    What works for me: I touch everyone, and with women, I amplify Kino quickly. If you start out being touchy, this will come off as perfectly natural. You touch her, her friends, the men in the group- you touch everybody.

    I don't use the more complex KC routines, because if I've been touching her all night, it gets to the point where the kiss is just the next and obvious step. Sometimes I'll just say to a girl, "I want to kiss you," or "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you," and turn away, then turn back. Recently I did this at a party to an HB9 and she was shy- she said "In here?" like with a little bit of panic (shyness). I said, "No, crazy, right here!" I spoke the words into her ear then nibbled it a little.

    I know Style has one called Phase Shift Evolution that is pretty sick, but without the Kino Escalation, I think it's inevitably going to be awkward.

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    Default Re: i have no idea what went wrong

    Yes she invited me to her house. Before all of that
    Happened we used to talk regularly! She even used to annoy me
    Cause she wouldn't stop texting. But now none of that happening. We
    Don't even text that much anymore. I'm just going to leave it at that, and
    Go sarge other girls and see if this little flower is worth my attention again. Do you think that's a good idea?

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    Default Re: i have no idea what went wrong

    That's always a good idea brother. Have fun!

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    Default Re: i have no idea what went wrong

    Hm lets see if i can analyze this for you, its been a while. I think from my own experience its nice to be somewhat playful with women but at some point if you are too playful you indirectly devalue yourself. Truth of the matter is she will eventually cold text you out of the blue if you just ignore her. I would ignore her altogether and sarge on other girls. i also think you may have put too much of your time and energy into one place. Nevertheless just brush it off homie and keep moving.

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    Default Re: i have no idea what went wrong

    go talk to a few girls, and reengage.try to lead the meetup have a clear goal in mind.most important of all kiss close.looks like the thing you must do now, escalate!!

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    Default Re: i have no idea what went wrong

    She probably did that cause you didn't grab the horse by the tail when you had the chance( so to speak). She felt that she wasn't cute enough or whatever.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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