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Thread: First Ever Number Close During Day Game!

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    Smile First Ever Number Close During Day Game!

    Hi fellas! Today is the day I got my first N-close, while day gaming and I feel awesome. Let's quickly get into it. To start with, I only did one approach today because I was tired just after the gym and my thoughts were with my wing where he got AMOGed by a chubby dude, while he's trying to game his target. But that's another story. In short, I wasn't really in the state to do approaches.

    I'm in college, summer school, my wing and I go for lunch and my wing notices a cute HB8 sitting alone, across the room. I wasn't really going to approach but thinking a fine girl like that sitting alone, I had to do something. So I flipped the switch, lifted my spirits, gave myself a couple chest bumps and I was good to go. And to make it fun, I wanted to think of the most unrelated approach.

    So after we got our meal I noticed that the only ketchup bottle was on HB8's table. And you know, the delicious french fries I just got, can't go without some ketchup. So I started to walk towards her with a warm smile and strong body language. As soon as she notices that I'm in her personal space, she greeted me with one of the warmest smiles of my life. And I knew it was on:

    Me: "Hey I saw you kidnapped the last ketchup bottle so I needed to come over here and get some."
    HB8: "Yeah I was lucky to get it I guess, there's a lot of people here today."
    Me: "Must be because of summer school."
    HB8: "I bet! You're here for summer school too?"
    Me: "For sure, not you?"
    HB8: "Nooo, I'm here for the internships! "
    Me: "Internships, wow, smart girl! But what's your department?"
    HB8: "CS (Computer Science), yours?"
    Me: "You're kiddin' I'm CS too!" (No lying, pure coincidence)
    HB8: "Really? Which semester?"
    Me: "Let's see... You're doing your intern so I must be a year behind you."
    (I noticed that the convo was getting a bit dull here so I had to bail before we lose the spark, but I wasn't done..."
    Me: "I really need to get back to my friend right now, I guess I'll be seeing you around!"
    HB8: "Okay, see ya!"

    You can see that this convo is really boring, no dhv, no nothing, but what you don't see are the looks she's giving me. The smile she had. I just barely needed to talk. She was smiling, playing with her hair, eye contact, everything. I went back to my wing after the name exchange and a non-fancy handshake.

    But seeing the IOIs she gave me, I couldn't just let it go. 10 mins fast forward, I see her leaving and I literally ran after her and grabbed her arm. (Maybe the most AFC move I could ever do, but it caught her off-guard and again she gave me one of her big smiles.)

    Me: "Hey, *her name*! You know what? I forgot to get your number..."
    (I was ready to give a reason why I wanted her number, some silly stuff like I might be needing her help while picking up an internship. But she instantly pulled her phone out before I could even talk, so I was kind of shocked and froze.)
    HB8: "So?"
    Me: "(I snapped back into reality and noticed that my phone wasn't in my pocket, I left it back at my table.) Dammit! I left my phone back at the table."
    HB8: "(Playfully) Oh you!"

    So I escorted her back to my table, initiate hard kino, directly put my hand on her waist. Risky move but hey, she came closer and kind of brushed her body against mine. And finally, I got her digits back at my table, and said goodbyes. Done!

    The reason I'm writing this is to emphasize on my approach and the possible 80/20 rule. Notice that I didn't use any canned stuff or girl/boy related relationship stuff. I just observed my environment and used it in my favor, simple as that. It doesn't need to be the cleverest or the most breath-taking opener. About the 80/20 rule, I barely had to do anything, yet she was clearly into me. Don't know if it was pure luck but I'll take it anyway.

    And of course my questions:

    Now that I have her number, what should be my text game to set up a date? I think it's obvious that I'm still in attraction phase, so keep the fun, keep her talking and squeeze in DHV?

    Should I ask for a date after attraction or after "attraction + comfort"? If the answer is "attraction + comfort" wouldn't it be a bit hard to do just over the phone?

    Should I start calling her after I build some rapport?

    Hell of a write about a 5 minute talk lol. Hope you guys read it all and answer my questions.

    Game on,
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    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: First Ever Number Close During Day Game!

    That was a nice Indirect Approach. Now you got the number, you hit her up immediately with a text. Don't wait. She may be attracted to you at that moment, but a girl's attraction is fleeting.

    Keep your texts fun and playful. Your objective is to spark an emotional response, build a connection, and close with a date.

    So sparking an emotional response is sending her a fun playful text and not something boring like "Hey what are you up to?" It's to get her to stop what she is doing, break her out of her monotonous daily routine, think of you, and respond.

    For example: "Hey [her name], just texting you to know it's me [my name] and not some dumbass who is trying to pick you up." [I did a direct approach on her].

    OR

    "If you aren't smiling, then you're not thinking of me."

    OR later on in your case....

    "HELP: The FBI are after a haxxor who is sexy, witty, and good looking...so where you gonna to hide me?"

    Then go back and make a connection with her with something you two have in common that you spoke about. This is a text that you can only send to this girl. So if you both are in CS, then work that into the text. Flirt with her and work into setting up a date.

    "Weekends here. Time to smoke some crack and hack into the CIA mainframe, and get busted on some racketeering charges. I need a partner in crime."

    This is known as future fantasy projection.

    Whatever you do, your text game cannot be boring or a typical text that some other chump can do. Text game can make or break a date.

    There's also some basic rules, about overtexting and not looking needy, but I'm assuming most players already know this.

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    Default Re: First Ever Number Close During Day Game!

    Like you said, you don't need any clever lines. I personally like to keep things simple. So I don't always say something clever or long. I don't like feeling like I have to entertain her. I think since you started it simple you should keep that dynamic between you two.

    I'm all about building comfort over the phone. But for this circumstance it doesn't feel right. It's not like you picked her up at a club ya know. I think you should go for an instadate. And I don't mean plan for this weekend. Her attraction would have died out. I mean meet up with her TODAY. For coffee or a bite. Don't lose that incredible momentum you've built up so far.
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    Default Re: First Ever Number Close During Day Game!

    The date has been set gentlemen! It was easier than I expected. Thanks for your input.

    I hope I'll post my FR about the date tomorrow, let's see what happens.

    Wolf.
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    Default Re: First Ever Number Close During Day Game!

    Well played Wolf24 however leaving your phone at your table is a rather risky setback. Try to avoid these in the future, I'm glad you recovered from this and kept your state up but I can't promise you will always recover from this kind of behavior. Try to keep your wits about you. I left my car light on at an EDM Show and little did I know I would meet someone who wanted to go home with me. She wanted to hang out at the whole festival and due to my sucky car light because I lost my wits about me and got too ahead of myself I totally lost a potential hook up and couldn't get back in the show.

    Essentially I had to leave early and it killed my chances because she was so sad I had to leave and didn't want to hang out with any other guys there than me. She was quite older than me (36 and I'm 30) but the same thing happened to you. You lost your wits about you due to the rush of doing a good approach but remember clarity makes quality. You would have made a better impression is all I am saying. But what you learned is you can bounce chicks to other areas so keep that with you only next time bounce a chick to a place you are going or doing and not something that messes up your game.

    Very minor slip up didn't kill you because you did awesome just remember for the next one to stay on top of your game. It helps when you make a great first impression with no sign of a loss of control. Again it's all a process and I have screwed up way worse than you like the time I wore a cross to a nightclub! Never ever doing that again I looked like a total douchebag!


    Let's take some of my examples for instance that screwed up my game

    Phone
    My phone is wacky at times and doesn't save people's numbers. I was totally oblivious to this for a while and would get a girl's number then have to go get it again and usually get yelled at or get a fake #. Make sure and double check because this will ruin your great first impression and kill your chances if you have to re-approach for this minor detail.

    Car Lights
    Left my car light on because I was too excited at looking good and having fun that it totally killed my chances of hooking up with that HB9 36 yr old I met at the show and she wanted me to come over to her hotel! But because I couldn't get back in to hang out with her and leave with her she lost interest. Sure I got to drag it out for a couple days but she said I didn't make a very good first impression and cut me off because she said she wanted to get to know me better at that show and she was disappointed I wasn't man enough to go back to her hotel. Man I hate my life! It was my car light! Not me! But this HB made me literally go over and over again why I didn't have my stuff together. She just loved rubbing it in my face on what I could have had.

    Jewelry
    Only wear what's appropriate like Crosses in Church, etc.

    Women pick up the little things and these key details seem insignificant enough but it ruins your great first impresison and causes them to be hesitant to meeting up with you or going home with you. All I am saying is try to pick up this stuff sooner because the small blind spot you have now only gets worse when you neglect the little things before you know it you will be getting slam dunked on like I did for the car light!

    Now the moral of the story is to pay attention to the little things because if you don't and if karma comes around like it did with me it will kick your butt and make you eat dirt. It first started off small by not checking for girl's #'s but it just kept escalating to worse and worse now I literally lost a potential hook up because I was too anxious. Karma will always kick you when you are down so it's better to get blown out because you got blown out rather than some ticky tack nonsense like what happened to me. Just pay attention and keep your wits about you.


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