Hi again gentlemen! I guess I've started to collect my earnings after couple months I've started the game. It's been kinda slow but I'm totally fine with that since it's working.
The first part of the story can be found here:
Above lies the report, when I met this girl during the day and n-closed within 5 mins, which was a huge accomplishment for me since it was my first day game Number Close.
Anyways, after HB and I were meeting up for D2, I knew I needed to be careful. That is because I'm pretty unfamiliar with further dating concepts, I usually become nervous because I'm inexperienced. But this time I needed to be better, this time she can't sense that I might be weak about dating. That was my overall plan, I just set myself a mindset and didn't memorize any routines or lines at all. And I can say that it worked.
Right of the bat there was kino, eye contact, IOIs, all that stuff. Of course she was loving to talk and I was carefully listening and leading the convo. At times, in the middle of her story, she was firing me a couple of personal questions about my family, my relationships, which felt like series of sh1t tests. Not all of them were tests, some questions were the indicators that she was actually, genuinely interested in me. Often times, she tried to NEG me about me being 2 years younger than her and tried to act like my older sister. I tried to brush that off immediately, I hope I did.
Couple of highlights:
Our D2 plan was to go bowling, but while we were texting the day before the date she said she's really bad at bowling and I said I'm not good either. But actually I'm pretty good at it and I wanted to play a little game.
When we first met up for D2 and talking about boring stuff, I said:
Me: (I appeared really frustrated and low-spirited) "You know what? I-I can't do this. I have a secret. Uhh. I don't know how to say this..."
HB: (She immediately had a worried look on her face) "You have a girlfriend, right?"
That was the exact response I was waiting for because, for me, it indicated that she's hoping for this possibility.
Me: "What, why would you say that?"
HB: "I don't know, I guess..." (She kinda froze there but I didn't push further because I already got the signal that I wanted.)
Me: "I just wanted to say, I kinda know how to bowl actually."
HB: (She started smiling again) "Kinda?"
Me: "Kinda pretty well."
HB: (Playfully) "Fark you! Blabla..."
While we were playing bowling the mood was actually tense. Tense in a good and sexual way. I tried to teach her how to bowl correctly by showing her the body posture, how to hold the ball, etc. She seemed amazed and she was totally checking out my body. I was playfully smacking her bum like: "C'mon girl you can do this. Show me what you got!" In short, everything was there. So I thought, even if I was scared, go for the darn kiss.
I was a bit tired after couple shots and sitting idle in our booth while she was making her shots. Then, she came and said:
HB: "Oh you look tired are you okay?"
Me: "Yeah, I'm fine. It's just a tiring process to work these biceps." (I went to the gym before meeting up with her)
HB: "Oh yeah?" (She touched my arm and her eyes were glowing LOL.)
Me: "But I know what can cheer me up."
Me: "A kiss."
HB: "Really, is that all what it takes for you? Only a kiss from the cheek?"
Me: "When did I mention cheek?"
HB: "What do you mean?"
Me: "Oh you know what I mean." (At this time we were pretty close, maybe only an inch far from the kiss.)
HB: (She pulled herself back) "Oh! Not so fast tiger!"
I was fine with that response because I was ready for it:
Me: "I've never said you could. "
After this little line she just went crazy! She was obviously craving for the kiss now, looking at my lips, kinoing me every time she had the chance. And I was absolutely shocked how well it worked.
After bowling, we went outside because it was her time to go and I didn't wait anymore. I just went in and boom. My first k-close.
Now that the report is done, I have some questions for you guys. This part of the game is totally uncharted territory for me. We were kind of like boyfriend/girlfriend already on D2 and I didn't act cold because we were out to have fun, at least. However, I felt like I couldn't connect with her on an emotional basis. Maybe it's too early to say whether if we have some kind of emotional connection, correct me if I'm wrong. And I also don't know if I'm ready to settle with only one girl for months or maybe years, because I just started getting success and I don't want to stop with my first one. I want something casual. My questions are:
Is it too early to determine whether if we had a connection?
How can I propose that I want something casual, without hurting her?
Is it okay to have similar concerns after D2 or does my mindset needs re-framing?
Thanks for reading this extra long one guys! I'll try to cut it short in my following reports. Hope you answer all my questions.