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  1. #81
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

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    So I've been pretty much out of the game at this point. My last update in my mini-steps thread was March 19th and here's the reason why:

    After going out with Zar, I was frightened by how needy girls could get. I didn't think that this could happen vice versa. With restrictions at home having my mother put her judgement on things and limiting me and the whole idea that I just love my luxurious life (nice clothes, cellphones, computers.etc) so much that I can't give it up.

    I'd also run into the problem of not having enough time to spend with her. I find myself having a hard time striking a balance during the period of time we went out for. I lost so much sleep because either I was working, studying, body building or spending time with her, I had no time to relax and just be myself.

    It didn't take long before I got drained out.

    Recently, however, I started picking up on things again because even though I don't really desire a gf as I thought I did before as much, I wanted to improve my game. I didn't want to let things be just cause I won't have an outcome. I like knowing that if I wanted to have sex with a girl, I can.

    I like the idea of power and choice. I want it in my hands.

    What's really interesting is even though my game was off up now, Girl A wanted to re-initiate things with me today. We haven't seen each other for 2 weeks. We haven't call each other nor texted. Essentially what happened in the "end of the story" was I gave up. I ran away from it.

    You might ask, how do you know she wanted you?

    She waited for me. She didn't go to her usual friend who I couldn't communicate with. she knows that, she's seen this happen multiple times and she didn't go straight to her.

    I actually stayed behind for a bit to talk to my professor after the exams and she stood there willing to bare some social awkwardness just to wait for me. I know it was weird for her cause she had this "uhm.. what should I do?" face. she looked like she was about to give up but placed her bag on the chair and waited.

    A stronger hint was she held my arm twice while she talked about how she's excited meeting up her friends for lunch. I didn't react like I wanted her or anything, more like "just friends" kinda thing. I bumped her a few times and pushed her gently when she said she didn't have anymore exams (I still have 1 more to go).

    A really strong hint at the end was she started telling me about going to Japan for studies a year from now including which university she's going to (even though she told me how her bf would get so mad).

    She also said that she's working during the summer and will be available to hang out and to "give her a call". It sounded like "I'm going to be out of the presences of my boyfriend, come find me if you still want to get it on."

    My thoughts

    I didn't understand this. I thought I totally blew it. I didn't say anything to her no more, our conversation today was pretty much boring (I didn't do anything on purpose to try to be interesting), she did most of the talking as usual.

    She totally pushed me off and rubbed it in my face back in December with that phone Call to her bf during our "meet up" which caused me to completely let go of her. Now she wants me back?

    Guys what do you think of this situation? Is she some messed up psycho that I shouldn't come into contact again? Should I try things with her again? What's the deal here?

    As I've said before, I've got no place for her to "hang out" at my home. The only potential viable place would be my car and if any sex is going to happen, I guess it'll have to do there since her bf lives with her. But, to me, this isn't making much sense.

  2. #82
    samm101 Guest

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    I'll give you my advice but first you would need to answer some questions so I can get a better understanding of the situation.

    1) Has your mum has laid the smack down on you and said you cannot have girls over?
    2) Who is Zar?
    3) Can you and her legally drink, meaning can you go clubbing or bars?
    4) Do you know if the boyfriend is real?

    I still think you can get her (if you still want to) but your gonna need to strategize.

  3. #83
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by samm101 View Post
    I'll give you my advice but first you would need to answer some questions so I can get a better understanding of the situation.

    1) Has your mum has laid the smack down on you and said you cannot have girls over?
    2) Who is Zar?
    3) Can you and her legally drink, meaning can you go clubbing or bars?
    4) Do you know if the boyfriend is real?

    I still think you can get her (if you still want to) but your gonna need to strategize.
    1) No, but she'd be sniffing her up if I brought her home not to mention that she will forgivingly lay her judgement against her if:

    a) She's had sex before marriage
    b) She's not Chinese
    c) She deviate from my mom's list of "norms"

    2) Zar is the first girl in my life that couldn't wait to hop on top of me (which freaked me out in a way). Read Mini-Steps thread and you will see.

    3) Yes, we're both legal age. But the friends that we both share are very limited so if I was to invite her out alone it would look like a date.

    4) Yes. 100% real. Saw him on facebook and both relationship status matches.

  4. #84
    Maven Guest

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    ok, dont think i have the best advice but here's what im thinking

    Person A-
    i think that you need to establish some type of physical communication if you want to take things to the next level. dont sit with her every day in class (really not a good idea), but maybe one day get there a few minutes early and sit with her. get a good convo going and keep her interested. when class is done tell her that you got to run for some reason and leave somewhat abruptly. id say the next day you should sit back with the people you were sitting with before and see if shes sad.

    Person B-
    I dont know exactly what to do to make the situation better, but id say that you need to relax when you try to make her laugh, if she doesnt think its funny tell her she doesnt have a sense a humor. as for waiting for her after class, i think that shows being desperate. you want her to want you, not you to wait for her. just leave.
    Last edited by Maven; 05-11-2010 at 07:00 AM. Reason: P.S. i only read the first comment

  5. #85
    samm101 Guest

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    Hmmm not good. you have to go somewhere with her to go beyond first base, since you can't go back to your house because of your mother and can't go back to her place because of her boyfriend your situation is kinda farked.

    Before thinking about what to do next about this girl you should address your general situation first which is while you live with your mother your going to be forced to date a girl who fits her liking or sneak around behind her back, which when your at least 21 years of age is pretty unbecoming.

    Your options from here are

    a) convince your mother to lax her standards
    b) move out of home
    c) do nothing

    Option a) is by far the best option because you will get everything you want. b) may not even be an option depending on your financial situation and c) is a Sh1tty option because let's face it, you only live once and your missing the oppertunity to see the type of girls which make you happy.

    Gl and keep me updated.
    Last edited by samm101; 05-12-2010 at 12:04 AM.

  6. #86
    joekoool102 Guest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mystery_wannabe View Post
    Girl A update:

    If I was to describe it with 2 words, it would be "blown out". I met up with Girl A today during a seminar and she was still doing that hair flip and everything. "Great!" I said to myself. We talked for a bit and here's where things go wrong. I asked her if she wanted to do the Japan exchange program (this would be great for our developments) and she says "No. I don't have money to do it because my boyfriend would have to pay rent on his own and everything would be a mess." Damn it! She has a boyfriend!

    Nothing went wrong after except I started to feel threatened a little and became somewhat quiet. I still tried to carry on as much conversation as I can without being all bored and everything but.. there were times when she had to try and start a convo with me (I still need some more practice to get the hang of it). She's a very good talker and it turns out she's way older than I am (She doesn't look that way). So in my mind I thought "did I just get picked up instead?" I can't even tell.

    Correct me if I'm wrong, but my assumption right now is that I've been thrown on the friends list correct? Is it really game over? The problem is I don't feel competent enough right now to start stealing people's girlfriends when I've just entered the game, not to mention they live together and have WAY MORE life experience than I do. If the word "interesting" means anything, they seem to be the ones who have all set.

    I'm feeling a bit bummed out right, she's one real cutie and she talked about how there's so many guys that she dated and what she liked, what she didn't like. I made a few natural jokes and she seem to follow and laugh with me and really the conversation was great. I had a feeling things would've progressed even further had this "boyfriend" thing not appear.

    Any thoughts? Any comments guys? All are welcomed.
    He who hesitates, masturbates. Paralysis by analysis. You were overthinking instead of doing. Big mistake. Next time, more Kino, more humor,more flirting. Forget about girl A, don't get all attached to that one girl, but at least you can still play with the others. learn from screwing up.

  7. #87
    puamaster Guest

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    A lot of guys ask me about how they can really impress a woman, anywhere, even in broad daylight. I mean, you walk up and start talking to a girl, you don’t want her to think you’re lame or anything.

    Chris and I talk a lot about this. Guys think they need the perfect opening line and to say all the right things to make a girl fall right in love with you right away.

    You’re trying too hard and that certainly doesn’t impress her. It doesn’t impress anyone.

    But here’s the real secret to impressing woman. Stop trying.


    Too many guys go out of their way to try to impress women, and women are tired of it. It makes guys come across as insecure since they just HAVE to impress her.

    Be calm, be confident. Have an interesting conversation with her. Be playful and tease her. Make sure she has fun with you.
    That’s how you create attraction, and impress her.

    So, yeah, you impress her by NOT trying to impress her.

    It’s much, much more important that SHE impresses YOU.

  8. #88
    Fakhry Guest

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    hey guys..just wanted to ask a quick question
    theres a girl i just met..shes in my social circle..this girl is sooo cool and she also really hottt...lol
    shes more of the fun type of girl, she has a bf but cant be faithful..so yeah its easy doing ''stuff'' with her
    but...
    i want her to actually look at me as the guy thats above the rest..a guy she'd actually wanna be with and not bother cheating on etc etc
    she texts me like everyday or calls..thats a plus for me i guess...we've met once and after the 'date' she sms'd me saying she had fun with me... but the thing is i didnt kiss-close..i couldnt be too sure..shes 'different' ..a bit hard to figure out and shes really smart
    im not sure if shes looking at me as a friend or more...

    today she called for like 10seconds just to ask how i was lol and as soon as she cut i sent a text..this is how it went:

    me: you just cant get enough of me can you?

    her: ahn ahn, fake oyinbo! lol(slang for 'white boy'...shes african and me myself im more african than i am white sooo...you get the joke)

    me: yeah whatever...horse hair :P (her hair is long and horse-ish lol)

    her: midget :P :P :P :P :P :P :P (im kinda short..although we are the same height)


    i havent replied yet.. was thinking maybe id ignore and keep her wondering how come i didnt reply(shes done that for me TWICE!! lol) ...or maybe say something..but im not sure yet
    im in nigeria atm..and after 12.30am all calls are free and shes been calling everyday for the past 2-3days... she might call today..but im thinking id just tell her i wanna sleep instead and show she cant get me all the time?!

    advice people???
    Last edited by Fakhry; 06-30-2010 at 07:00 PM.

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    Default Re: Day Game. Blanked out.

    Quote Originally Posted by Fakhry View Post
    hey guys..just wanted to ask a quick question
    theres a girl i just met..shes in my social circle..this girl is sooo cool and she also really hottt...lol
    shes more of the fun type of girl, she has a bf but cant be faithful..so yeah its easy doing ''stuff'' with her
    but...
    i want her to actually look at me as the guy thats above the rest..a guy she'd actually wanna be with and not bother cheating on etc etc
    she texts me like everyday or calls..thats a plus for me i guess...we've met once and after the 'date' she sms'd me saying she had fun with me... but the thing is i didnt kiss-close..i couldnt be too sure..shes 'different' ..a bit hard to figure out and shes really smart
    im not sure if shes looking at me as a friend or more...

    today she called for like 10seconds just to ask how i was lol and as soon as she cut i sent a text..this is how it went:

    me: you just cant stop thinking bout me can you?

    her: ahn ahn, fake oyinbo lol(slang for 'white boy'...shes african and me myself im more african than i am white sooo...you get the joke)

    me: yeah whatever...horse hair :P (her hair is long and horse-ish)

    her: midget :P :P :P :P :P :P :P (im kinda short..although we are the same height)


    i havent replied yet.. was thinking maybe id ignore and keep her wondering how come i didnt reply(shes done that for me TWICE!! lol) ...or maybe say something..but im not sure yet
    im in nigeria atm..and after 12.30am all calls are free and shes been calling everyday for the past 2-3days... she might call today..but im thinking id just tell her i wanna sleep instead and show she cant get me all the time?!

    advice people???
    First of all, women cheat for a variety of reasons. If she has a reputation, then it probably means that either she gives false impressions of what she wants in a relationship, or she has no intentions of committing. If she is either of those types, don't waste your time, you'll never be able to trust her. The other type of woman cheats because her current boyfriend is incapable of not being needy or some other form of constant, low social value, or he doesn't really care about her. This type of woman you can potentially get, and keep.

    There are two things you need to establish to hold on to a girl like this. You need to establish very high social value, and not be needy. You need to establish that you are perfectly capable of finding other women and dating other women if she leaves or cheats. You also need to show that while you are not worried about her cheating (or jealous about her interacting with other people), you expect her to stay committed.

    Let me know if that makes sense, and if you need some pointers on how to go about that.

  10. #90
    Fakhry Guest

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    thank you GUNSNGLORY that perfectly made sense...but as they all say..you cant cook that perfect meal without knowing the ingredients to use and when to use em lol
    how exactly do i show her that i have other women waiting on the line...and what do i do when she keeps calling or texting everyday? do i continue to communicate or stop her from calling everyday? and when she doesnt call for like 2days should i call her?
    also shes leaving the country for good in bout 4 weeks...so i dont need anything serious with her..im sure she doesnt with me..maybe she just wants to have fun :P
    she also lives really close to me..bout a 5-10minute drive..
    i dont wanna take my time..cus 4weeks is quite short...i wanna have A LOT of fun..the most i can have before she leaves.. what would YOU do??


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