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    Default Re: My first time really trying to talk to women in a bar

    I'm not trying to limit myself to older women. I know about meetup groups and POF but thanks anyway for mentioning them. I'm not on Match but maybe some day. Actually online game is another arena I really need to improve. I am reluctant to want to approach women online until I study it more.

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    Default Re: My first time really trying to talk to women in a bar

    Actually I don't feel that meetup groups are good for practicing what we do on here(ie sarging). The reason for that is even though they say they are singles groups they really are more like social groups. You can't really pick up women at most of these. It's usually too much of a friendly atmosphere and the edginess that you would need to be successful would be discouraged and you could be kicked out of the group. Just all my opinion of course.

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    Default Re: My first time really trying to talk to women in a bar

    Guys I am in my 30's and I have said here before I met a 42 yr old, 37yr old, 38yr old, 35 yr old, and a 33yr old at High End Bars & Clubs. So I would think 40 is not a bad age because I am dating a 42 yr old I just met at the Club. So yes the general crowd is generally 18-25 but about one girl a night you can find a older HB. Just have to keep your eye out. Personally have more affinity for older women so don't let limiting beliefs hold you back not all of them are fresh 20 yr olds lol. Sometimes the older HB's are hard to find or don't go out that night but if you try for long enough you will see what I mean. But I don't recommend small dive bars for this obviously but big high end bars in major cities. I have no problem meeting women my age in the high end bar I go to. But to comment on this thread I would say your next project would be saying more than just hi since you can't really base a conversation based on that. My sticking point right now is sticking to my class of openers listed in the "How to Approach" women section. But either way I am working on my openers and not being such a weak AFC, hopefully it goes better this weekend and I am on top of my game. Keep approaching man and implement changes along the way. Also for day game check out local Outdoor Malls during weekends, Water Parks, Holiday Events, etc as I have seen a lot of older HB's out there and planning a couple of sarges there this Summer.

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    Default Re: My first time really trying to talk to women in a bar

    Well I have to go by what is around me. I just chose the nicest places that are around me. They aren't really high end but the ones I go to aren't typical dive bars(ie not just working class drunk guys who drive pickup trucks). Sometimes I'll try chain restaurants that have bars attached to them(ie Uno's, Applebees, TGI Fridays, Ruby Tuesdays, etc). The chain places seem to be mainly for couples or locals and don't have much of a singles scene but I try to keep an open mind. I'm just at a point now where I don't care if I get blown out or not. If the conversation dies or I(or them) lose interest so be it.


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