Ok, I've been to bars and nightclubs in the past but usually I wouldn't say much to women. Tonight was interesting. Not totally successful by any means but not a total failure either. I didn't get any numbers but I must have approached about 6-10 females or at least three sets. This place seemed like a a bit of a dive bar to me on the surface as I had drove by many times. However, some guy who was a bartender at another venue mentioned they had a patio so I checked it out. I got a free drink(a beer)from some little dude wearing a cowboy hat. I didn't say anything to him or thank him for some reason(possibly because he was on the other side of the bar). So I must have said "hey" or "hi" or "hello" to about eight to ten women at least. Most of the time it didn't transform into much a conversation. Plus I'm in my forties and this was a twenty something crowd but to be honest I don't really care that much about that. I'm just saying. So one girl walks past this one guy and makes a comment about her height. I noticed she had heels on. Then out of the blue she said she likes my shirt. I'm not used to being complimented so I tell her I like her thing around her neck. Big mistake I know. I should have said something like "well, I'll take my shirt off later and you can tweak my nipples." HOwever, I didn't think quick and the conversation died out. I then talked to some other girls. I just said screw it and tried to be social. I didn't hesitate to talk to dudes even when they were by themselves.
The strange thing is I recognized the bartender. She used to work at a fast food place but now is a nurse or studying to be a nurse or something and I guess works at the bar at night. We had this joke about going to Atlantic City to play the slots so I reminded her of it right before I left. I said something like "next month we'll go to Atlantic City." She was like "ok." I think next time I'll s ay to her something like "you know I'm not kidding about that. Can you handle that?" I'll then see how she handles it. She's about an HB8.
Any advice about tonight would be appreciated and I'm going to write down my mistakes and number of women(approximately) in a journal. THere were three hot blondes that I tried talking to. Actually I just said "hey guys" and maybe "hello" to one of them but they were sitting at the bar and I was behind them so I didn't get anywhere with them. I might have tried too hard tonight but at least I tried which is more than I can say about what I usually did in the past. This was good practice for me. I figured since this was my first night really sarging I would take it easy on myself so I left after my one(free)beer. I'm at a point now that no matter what, I'll keep sarging.