I know its long, but give me 5 minutes, thanks.
Today I had my first sarge experience ever. I just finished readin "the game". I got into it bc i needed a way to get over my ex. "Best cure for one-itis is to get with a dozen girls".
Heres my backround: No im not a virgin, no i dont have trouble with women, but i do have trouble approaching and getting them to take intrest at first meet/hitting on them. Once a conversation starts, I'm golden. But that's all it is, a conversation. not a pick-up.
So heres how it started:
I went to my college library to study, no peacok, sweats and my usual man-jewelry[rings bracelet and necklace]. I did my work, and an asian girl walked up to the computer infront of me. I'm pretty sure she did a double take, not sure. So i knew i had to say something to her. Yes i voilated the 3 sec rule by like 20 min.
I Opened with
ME:"hey" kinda soft "I need your opinion on something, which would you prefer, car or motorcycle?"
She kinda expected it to end then I gave her my speech story[i'm doing a persuasive about which is better] Went on that for what seemed like forever. I asked her which car would she choose?[i think that was bad?]
I had trouble weaving with what to say so I just asked if she was stuying, she said pshychology and sociology. I said i was doing the same and intorduced the cube bc i 'had read it in my sociology book' then sat down.She started small talk after the sociology and ask bout my major. I did the cube but then I didnt know what to do after I tell her about herself?
I also tried to do the 1-10 and ill gues your number, which I failed. But she had a thick accent which I thnk is why I did fail because she thought about it and then said go, it wasn’t on my cue.
Then I said I have to go do my hw now bc I ran out of thngs to say…I was still nervous and trying to stick to the script, not having a conversation.
ME: "id love to continue our convo is there a way I can do that?” she again looked at me with a blank face as though processing what i had said
HB7: "sure" I had a paper for the ‘book I was looking for’ and gave her that. I waited. She never said who she was, so..
ME: "I'm Suave by the way"
HB7: I'm, Jenny"
And walked away.
What do you do while shes writing her number down?
How do I weave in routines with 'my game'[conversation]?
Did I talk to much?
Should I have asked what was her major first?
What about Kino? Should i have gone into it?
Anything else you would recomend?
What not to do? What to do next time?
Anything really [that helps].
Thanks again everyone!