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    So 2 nights ago I went to this bar with my best friend (Alana) and I started talking to her friend (Vanessa), who I'd say is about an 8. Everything went well at the bar, I'm pretty sure my game was good. We ended up going back to Alana's place, with her boyfriend and Vanessa. When we got back, Alana and her boyfriend went straight to bed, while me and Vanessa stayed up talking and I played some more game on her (Kino Escalation, negs and such). We ended up making out, I teased her a bit and we slept in the same bed. Unfortunately, I didn't f-close her because she told me that she only has sex with guys that she dates, meaning she wants to take it slow, which I don't mind because she's interesting. Anyways, the next day we woke up, talked a bit, and she came onto me and started to make out with me! A little later, she went to take a shower and I asked to use her phone for something. I wanted to be a little original and put my phone number in there with a smiley face next to my name. When I went home, I told her: "I left a surprise in your phone, it's in your contacts!".

    Now, the problem is it's been two days and I still didn't get any texts/calls from her. I've never tried this before, so it's experimental, but I really thought it would work because everything went well and I'm confident that my game was good. We all planned to go to the beach Monday though (3 days from the night out) so maybe I'm overreacting a bit. She also added me on facebook not too long after I left. Maybe she just doesn't want to get attached too fast? What are your thoughts on this? Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: Am I overreacting?

    Overall it sounded great until the phone thing. Area saying you didn't get her number yourself, and only gave her yours? Always a poor move. For years I would drop my card and leave fate in a girls hands, but you never know what kind of mood they're in for the next few days. If you get the girls number you take the bull by the horns and can joke/tease her and make sure she's in a good mood and thinking about you.

    Also, did you plan on going to the beach alone or with your mutual friends? Did you set an exact place and time? her idea or yours? Need more info on the meetup.
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    Default Re: Am I overreacting?

    Usually I always get the girl's number, but I wanted to try this out because she seemed very interested. As for tomorrow's meetup, well we kinda all planned it together (me and the 2 girls). They're supposed to call me about it tomorrow for the meeting time. Regardless, I think I'll go anyways and see what happens/how she acts throughout the day and maybe eventually ask her why she didn't text me? Or is that a bad idea? I was thinking either that or just say "well since you're too shy to text me, give me your number and let me do it ". What are your thoughts?

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    I think you're over reacting a little sounds like you ran good game she added you on facebook so she obviously wanted to continue whatever you started. Since you have the confidence factor going just pull out your phone After youve made her laugh a little and say "Oh before I forget put your number in my phone" or give her your phone and say "I'm thinking of a 10 digit number" she should get the point. My brother did that to a ten once my jaw dropped when it worked I figure its worth a try. Bottom line just get her number and like theBOB said grab the bull by the horns.

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    Default Re: Am I overreacting?

    DON'T ASK WHY SHE DIDNT TEXT YOU. Ever. Or I'll find out and you'll be in trouble...

    Keep gaming and see what happens. Just act like you were busy and didnt mind she didnt text (you were busy with other friends and girls in the meantime, right?) and yes, if it goes well make sure you get the number.

    And never make a big deal about getting a number. Just make plans for another time (not creepy and not forced) and just HAPPEN to get her number. Since she obviously WANTS you to call right? (RIIIIGHT.)

    Just remember to be cool. Her friend likes you so I'm sure she's putting in a good word. Make sure you pay a ton of attention to your friend (and ESP her boyfriend) and be the cool social guy she needs in her life. Does that cover it. Good luck
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    Awesome Torres, that is a solid plan I overlooked. Great strategy
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    Default Re: Am I overreacting?

    Quote Originally Posted by theBOB View Post
    DON'T ASK WHY SHE DIDNT TEXT YOU. Ever. Or I'll find out and you'll be in trouble...

    Keep gaming and see what happens. Just act like you were busy and didnt mind she didnt text (you were busy with other friends and girls in the meantime, right?) and yes, if it goes well make sure you get the number.

    And never make a big deal about getting a number. Just make plans for another time (not creepy and not forced) and just HAPPEN to get her number. Since she obviously WANTS you to call right? (RIIIIGHT.)

    Just remember to be cool. Her friend likes you so I'm sure she's putting in a good word. Make sure you pay a ton of attention to your friend (and ESP her boyfriend) and be the cool social guy she needs in her life. Does that cover it. Good luck
    Thanks! You saved me from a big mistake! I'll just go with my second idea then. Also, how do you suggest I ESP her boyfriend? I'm not very familiar with ESP other than Mystery's number trick. Is that what you were reffering to or do you have better ideas?

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    Default Re: Am I overreacting?

    I'm not down with ESP dude, that's apparently how my ipad autocorrects "esp" when I use it for shorthand "especially". You need to pay attention to her and especially her boyfriend. But you don't need to read his mind. I promise
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    Default Re: Am I overreacting?

    Lmao, ok I was wondering why I should ESP a guy! xD Tbh, I'm not that down with ESP either, except maybe the 5-lies technique that I just remembered about, but that's pretty much it. And alright, thanks, I'll keep that in mind!


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